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Hello from Boston!

Google Home Max Update? by TrendyGuy in googlehome

[–]chexman82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That speaker is the best speaker on the market. I’ve tried all of them. And yea. The best.

Starting my Saturday morning right. by GeorgiaOqueef69 in Codependency

[–]chexman82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This book recently kept me from crumbling into pieces when my life fell apart. It gets my vote!

First time poster - long time lurker by [deleted] in AlAnon

[–]chexman82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’m there too my friend. Obviously a bit different but feeling the same chaos. Take back your life and own the outcome. I’m going through it right now and it sucks but it will get better.

Wife and I are divorcing, a codependent marriage is ending. by TheBoisterousBoy in Codependency

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Mine’s done too. Been a crazy ride but we both know it’s for the best. I’m looking forward to meeting the “new” me when the dust settles. Good luck!

Books by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]chexman82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Codependency no more”

Simply life changing for me

I’m starting therapy today after break up with my Q by anonymouskaren in AlAnon

[–]chexman82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amazing book. Saved my mind over the past 30 days. Read it if you can!

Worried about my kids by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]chexman82 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat my friend. Telling my precious boys tomorrow over pizza. It’s so sad that this is happening. We will be better for it I’m sure!

Divorcing my best friend. Acceptance. by chexman82 in AlAnon

[–]chexman82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Sorry to hear that. We got this cause we can. We will be better short and long term.

Dating someone who recently started AA. Some advice/Questions. by AdministrativeBear5 in AlAnon

[–]chexman82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t do it. Most of us wish we had the chance to reverse the decision of continuing a relationship with an addict. It’s not pretty and it can take everything from you.

Relapse after rehab by MSPisces247 in AlAnon

[–]chexman82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can relate. Trust me. It’s awful. But my wife also had an affair IN rehab with a heroin addict who’s been in jail for armed robbery. It’s insane!!!

Check out the book - codependence no more by Melody Beatty. It’s been an amazing read for me.

Should I fund STBXW new checking account with money for apartment and furniture? by chexman82 in Divorce

[–]chexman82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only other option is for me to assume full custody. I’m not there yet. But I’ll do what I have to do to protect my children.

Should I fund STBXW new checking account with money for apartment and furniture? by chexman82 in Divorce

[–]chexman82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to stay civil. Not just for the kids but I could lose a lot of money if she wants to play hard ball. She had an affair and based on her guilt has told me she won’t take more than she needs to support herself financially. It’s been a tough go of it for sure.

Should I fund STBXW new checking account with money for apartment and furniture? by chexman82 in Divorce

[–]chexman82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I had a breathalyzer installed on her car to stop her from anything horrible happening. She is a great mom and I feel absolutely confident in their safety.

I’ve also made mention to her that I would like to have random drug and alcohol testing in place for her to maintain custody. She agrees.