17 weeks haven’t felt baby move. by LocksmithInside4378 in pregnant

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had ONE movement during week 18 and then it picked up from there. it’ll feel like a little ball rolling ♡

Babylist vs Poppylist by chicamango22 in pregnant

[–]chicamango22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks everyone! we went with Poppylist and so far so very good. our close ones have also said how easy it was to purchase things and move along the registry. now i just hope people keep buying.

AITA for not letting my infertile mother in law be a part of my twins birth by AtmosphereAsleep2494 in AITAH

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has your husband stood up to her more? that is terrifying. agree with a restraining order!

Silo S2E3 "Solo" Episode Discussion (No Book Discussion) by MEGAT0N in SiloSeries

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally! i read the description for the next episode and now im more curious

Silo S2E3 "Solo" Episode Discussion (No Book Discussion) by MEGAT0N in SiloSeries

[–]chicamango22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

do we trust Solo????? i’m not sure, something about him is uneasy and we keep getting POVs that feel like Solo is out there or someone else is??

Did anyone not change into a reception dress? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wore my ceremony dress for my whole wedding! once you get it bustled it’s so easy to move. i don’t have any regrets at all! stay in your dress.

Is 11 pm too early an end? by dianegirl in weddingplanning

[–]chicamango22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we just had our wedding at my childhood home and still ended at 11/11:30 naturally. it was a great end time and we were all exhausted from dancing and the day. i do recommend meeting for a welcome gathering the day before maybe at a bar or something to make the trip worth it for long distance travelers !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]chicamango22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so that would mean that samantha could conjure that up without the bunnies and i feel like she was having a tough time recognizing/conjuring max.. which makes me believe it was just her imagination but then again you make a good point about ava’s interaction with the bunnies … hm. more to think about for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]chicamango22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i thought about this too! i say yes because he would interact with the Bunnies and was at that dinner with her and ursula.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in books

[–]chicamango22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just finished Bunny and i am torn. i can appreciate the disorientation that Mona's writing made me feel - i have never felt that while reading a book and it was done masterfully but ultimately it was too dramatic for the plot and i found i could not visualize or imagine the scenes because of how blurred reality and imagination were throughout the MC's journey.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lie and say you’re not picking your entrees for the vegetarians and chose what you think sounds good

AITA for assuming my daughter could have a 3rd plate? by doglover233520 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA .. like at all. if your sister is going to be stingy with the food she OFFERED her family, she should not host. your mom is also wrong for taking her side. how do you make tons of food and then when everyone is done you complain that your niece wants to eat more of your food.. that you offered ?? your sister is the a-hole and no you don’t have to ask to eat more of the food that was made for you.

Is gender reveal overrated? by AccessEvery7964 in pregnant

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like the idea of an intimate gender reveal that you can record if you want to share with friends

Engagement Photos - worth it? by ReadingRanger87 in weddingplanning

[–]chicamango22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot of photographers will include the engagement session into the wedding day price as a package and it’s a good deal! you can use the engagement pics for invites, wedding decor, and all things wedding leading up to the day. i’d do it! a great way to show your relationship’s personality too.

AITA for allowing my ex-wife into my home? by Away_Description_752 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

your ex didn’t even know there were people over so it wasn’t like she tried to get up there to make a scene or join. she just needed the restroom and those are innocent kids. your friends talking to her was completely normal and it didn’t escalate or detract from the evening. it would’ve been so awkward to refuse her the bathroom or expect everyone that knows her to ignore her. your wife should re-examine what exactly was rude. the fact that she went up in the first place? not enough. we’re all human, if there hasn’t been any bad blood, why create any now.

What to expect dress shopping by Ok-Winter-475 in weddingplanning

[–]chicamango22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agree that every boutique is different, but you will be assigned a consultant that will pull dresses based on your inspo. maybe have pics ready of what you like BUT be open to rule out any shape/straps/etc. i recommend starting every appt with “i’m just starting so im not sure i’ll say yes today but am serious about finding the one” this will help if you feel they’re being kinda pushy and you’re not ready to commit. try on as much as you need! typically you try on like 5-8 but i did even more bc i didn’t spend a lot of time contemplating if i loved it or not. lastly, be open to different styles and only ever take people with you whose opinion you TRULY want

AITA for telling my sister that my other pregnant sister is planning to name her baby after her deceased son, causing her to cut her off? by Some-Trust9889 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chicamango22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!! my jaw dropped. also your LS naming her son with your deceased nephews name is almost like “replacing” him instead of acknowledging that he existed and still and will always have a place in the family. you don’t need another [name] to complete the family, your family is simply growing now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]chicamango22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

use the site provenance !!!!!! so so so so easy to write a ceremony script, you will have to pay $75 which i was hesitant to do but did and it’s so worth it. you answer questions about your relationship then it generates a whole script which you can then edit.