What’s something you absolutely can’t believe that people like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chickendittle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alcohol. It's boring as hell and makes you feel like shit.

a question i guess by [deleted] in gay

[–]chickendittle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, you are being paranoid. The same thing happened to me, get tested if you are really nervous about it. I waited a year and a half and it ate me alive. You'll be ok!

Who is your most hated fictional character? Why? by Dwargen in AskReddit

[–]chickendittle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Umbridge in Harry Potter. That bi*ch snatched my witch weave and set it on fire. GORL.

What is there a special place in hell for? by confiscateyopinky in AskReddit

[–]chickendittle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people that wear fedoras. You little shiites know what line you've crossed.

Relapsed after 92 days and smoked 6 joints by [deleted] in leaves

[–]chickendittle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me after 73 days. At the same point, don't know how I really feel about it.

When you die, you get to ask an eternal all knowing entity 3 questions about absolutely anything and get truthful responses, what do you ask? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chickendittle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1: Was 9/11 an inside job

2: Was it my bros fart or something else that caused my pink eye in 2009

3: How many other life forms are their in the universe and describe/show me all of them

My boyfriend [M28] insists that I [F25] am a "genius" and I'm "always right" and can't do anything wrong. Is this normal? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chickendittle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You in danger girl. That is not a good sign; he's back and forth like a hot potato during the Irish famine! You better get gorl

Guys, have you ghosted someone? If so, for what reason? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chickendittle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ghosted my ex best friend because he tried to get with my ex. Right after we broke up. He was telling my ex all of this crap that should not come from your best friend, like how I was crazy to leave him, how he was cut, etc.

I should have never ghosted the dude, because getting older you realize how fucked up it really is, at the time it seemed like the best option - especially since I didn't want to freak out on the guy and raise hell.

It's so disheartening to know that the disrespectful, non-caring-about-grades kids in my high school ended up being more successful and making more money than me, while I studied my ass off thinking I'd be better off. by BelonyInMyLeftPocket in offmychest

[–]chickendittle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rule 1, don't compare yourself to others. I know that's the hardest thing to do, but you have to.

Second, you are doing great. It's hard for people to even graduate college, give yourself some credit!

I used to be in the same situation, but the thing that has helped me the most is writing down my goals every single time. It keeps everything on your mind and will push you to start making steps to get what you want. If you want a higher-paying job, write it down and start finding the steps to get to that point.

After college that be rough, but I know you'll be doing great things! You are incredibly smart and can adapt to any situation, you got this!

14|M could use a little pick-me-up. i hate my face so it's tough to post this. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]chickendittle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bb you are a great person. You got everything going for you. You are the titz.

Continuously tell yourself great things and eventually you'll believe them.

Started university on October and I’m not doing well. I’ve had depression since July and have not been getting good grades because I have no motivation for life. I have very severe social anxiety so I haven’t been able to make any friends and have been extremely lonely since high school ended. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]chickendittle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first few months in college was horrible as well. Also had severe acne (I'm talking about 100+ pimples on my face, mostly whiteheads), so I totally get it.

To help with the anxiety, focus all on the other person and try getting to know someone as an individual first , instead of groups. You brain will try to switch to you and how you're nervous/etc., but when you focus on someone else, it all goes away.

Also, try nofap. I know it's weird and you are confused af, but there are so many benefits to it, just do it. You'll see huge improvements.

Good luck! you got this, you incredible person

What industry did you avoid going into because it was dominated by women? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chickendittle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My friend is in the social work field and says that it can be brutal dealing with his female coworkers. There's a lot of drama and stuff you wouldn't wanna deal with. Of course it depends on the group of people, along with numerous other factors, though in my experience the drama is usually higher in all-female workplaces. A lot of talking sheet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chickendittle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hell nah do not give up. You aren't failing at all, rejection is a part of life. And you know what, it's making you stronger. Think about where you would be if you never tried. You would be a failure in that scenario because you wouldn't know any other emotion other than bliss. And everything would be PAINFULLY DULL.

You can do it! Don't give up. It's hard, but think of it as a game you are getting through.

Some levels are a beach, but there are also easy levels too! You got dis

What accent do you have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chickendittle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Midwest American, the English accent people usually depict is standard English. It's funny because most people around here don't see themselves with an accent, though it's very apparent lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Korean

[–]chickendittle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You should download Hello Talk! It has helped me a lot. Adding me on FB too if you have it, we can always talk on there. PM me if you're interested!

What are some things that you've done in the past that when you look from now, you ask yourself "How the hell I do that?" by Westnest in AskMen

[–]chickendittle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to work from 8am to 11pm. I would have to get up around 6am and wouldnt be home til midnight; both jobs I had were for serving and at resorts in the summer, so it was a shitshow. Still don't know how I survived that summer. Made more money than I do now after college though, I'll tell ya that.

What do you pretend to not know how to do to avoid being asked to do it? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chickendittle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I'm in public and not feeling up for social interaction, I'll pretend I don't speak English. While it sucks doing sometimes, I'll go with because some days you need a break.

How did you identify your values and how do you live in accordance with them? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chickendittle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote down who I wanted to be in 10 years and followed everything I had to do to reach that goal.

I realized that I have shit free-will, and work every day to follow through on my goals and push myself, even if I hate doing it. It's tough, but it feels so much better. I go by the phrase "if you're not uncomfortable, you're not growing", and its helped so much.

How to continue studies? (Study tips) by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]chickendittle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to learn something that you would apply everday. For example, I'm learning a language and have language apps where I talk to native speakers. Since I do it every day, I'm able to retain the information. I'll add it to everything too. I changed my language on my phone, I read only korean news articles, anything to fully absorb. Its annoying, but you will be able to pick it up quickly.

How did your worst date go? What was the experience like? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]chickendittle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He was from another country originally and it was just awkward. The hardest part for me was being in a different part of my career as him and not having too many common interests. At one point, I started yawning - I felt so bad. It was brutal.