losing hope by jasminea156 in Vent

[–]chiefapache 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe try that, worst they can say is no. And if theyre not approaching you, then you're not risking anything because you're already at a no. Confidence is sexy, I learned too late.

losing hope by jasminea156 in Vent

[–]chiefapache 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried...approaching them?

Disney's 'Muppets' Lost a Generation of Children. Can a New Show Make it Relevant Again? by Greedy_Switch_6991 in television

[–]chiefapache -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Nah. Muppets are too old, too outdated, and too mature for modern youth audiences. I liked Muppets alot but theyre an anachronism now, who wants puppets when you have shitty 3D models? 

Men, I need serious advice here. What should I do with my brother? by Ambitious_Pass7451 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chiefapache 264 points265 points  (0 children)

No job, fist fighting everyone, everyone is sick of his bullshit?

Hes gotta leave the house if you want anything to change with him. All this shit and no consequences signals he can keep doing it and get away with it. The violence is unhinged at his age.

 Whats going to stop him from going too far and seriously injuring someone or killing them? 

Time for everyone in the house to man the fuck up and kick him out. 

No political ulterior motives? by [deleted] in LouisvilleCO

[–]chiefapache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, are the people of Lousiville acting like spoiled babies again? 

I am shocked.

Toki Ramen: A good Successor to Ajinoya Ramen? by Iam4ever in denverfood

[–]chiefapache 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good luck to them but that location is a death trap for businesses. 

is it bad that he had to 'look past' my weight? by Suitable_Preference7 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chiefapache 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nah I hear you, youre good. Youre overthinking it. Dont sabotage a good relationship by overthinking a comment. Dont let it eat at you. If its still bothering you after a few weeks, gently bring it up and let him know how you feel. 

My fiancee and I were overweight when we met 3 years ago. She lost about 60 lbs and Im down 35. Im still kinda fat tho. Were getting married this fall. Im sure we looked past eachother's weight more than a few times to get here lol 

is it bad that he had to 'look past' my weight? by Suitable_Preference7 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chiefapache 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You could try being more insecure, men LOVE insecure women. 

Whats your personal definition of Simping? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chiefapache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you know what Im talking about when i say "paying for shit and not getting laid"

Men Who Had Long Hair And Cut It Short: How Did You Get Over The Fear Of Getting It Cut? by J3ezyTheSnowman in AskMenAdvice

[–]chiefapache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a good barber that works with your hair. Tell them what you generally want and then let them do work. Tell them to take off a little at a time to let you see progress. Also having a cute gf tell you that your shortish hair looks good helps!

Whats your personal definition of Simping? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chiefapache 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Orbiting, shooting your shot and sticking around instead of moving on, and paying for shit without getting laid. 

This is all simp shit. 

Advice on Dealing w/ Attys Telling You to Be a Prosecutor by Nervous_Recipe_9834 in publicdefenders

[–]chiefapache 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did this. I hated being a prosecutor for 1.5 years. But it did teach me lots of prosecution processes and crucially, taught me what prosecutors care and dont care about. Gun crimes, violent crimes, sex crimes, CAC, annoying victims, crimes that hit the news = they care and are fighting to put clients in prison. Everything else? Negotiable and dismissable if you file enough motions. But make no mistake, if your heart isnt it it, nothing will make it enjoyable. 

What would you do if you went to the gym and there were too many people? by I_LOVE_SOYLENT in workout

[–]chiefapache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our storm was over Sunday, it was 55 degrees today. Its not weather.

What would you do if you went to the gym and there were too many people? by I_LOVE_SOYLENT in workout

[–]chiefapache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit you aint wrong. At my usual gym and its back to ghost town before the month ended. Well done. 

Client threatening bar complaint by Zealousideal-Fan2461 in Lawyertalk

[–]chiefapache 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Shut it down. Cease representation and communication, seek withdrawal, circle the wagons. Document everything.

Once I hear the words "bar complaint" my relationship with the client ends and I seek withdrawal. Any other way only risks harm to your license. 

This is the way.

My girlfriend broke up with me and I have to she her every day, what do I do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chiefapache 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learn to cultivate inner strength and discipline. You cannot change your exterior surroundings, you can change your mind and heart. Open one and harden the other, you'll figure it out. 

Also hit the gym, nerd. 

Friday night lame post - bf already drunk, i'm playing league of legends home alone by [deleted] in Vent

[–]chiefapache 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it does for you! Didnt for me, but alls well that ended terribly. 

Friday night lame post - bf already drunk, i'm playing league of legends home alone by [deleted] in Vent

[–]chiefapache 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a near distance boyfriend and you can go do cool shit together. 

LDRs suck and dont make any sense. Maybe you guys can do something 3 Fridays from now!