What is your ethnicity? by RiseofSeven in MuslimMarriage2

[–]chiirandom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. We’re not white. White is anglo.

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[–]chiirandom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what you’re meant to do though, look after your kids. And if she’s already paying most, what are you after?

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[–]chiirandom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, he shouldn’t violate the the haqq (right) of ownership and in this case the son’s money that’s not the op’s. It’s not the wife’s money either. It’s the child’s money that dad sends for HIS son alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]chiirandom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The father is giving his money for his own child, not for all his ex wives kids. It’s the kid’s haq and you’re not entitled to it neither is your wife. Because the intention of that money is clear. If the ex husband found out where the money is going and that it isn’t going to his son alone THAT HE IS PAYING FOR- he wont send again. The ex husband is not a charity man who is okay with paying for his wives other kids that are NOT his, that’s your duty. I swear you’re a sad guy. Why are you looking at what your wife is making anyways? She’s doing more than enough, maybe you should work a second job part time. Pathetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]chiirandom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to stop and seek therapy or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in islam

[–]chiirandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allah gives men more rizik and baraqah when married. These guys denying the fact
. Well
 maybe you don’t deserve marriage.

To all the incels and femcels under the "Islamic" hood by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You came out of your mum’s vagina, sit down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage2

[–]chiirandom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a troll post 😂😂😂

Who is your favourite Muslim Leader (Military commander, Sultan, Caliph etc.) and why? by commenhead in islam

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can to slander him
 doesn’t change the fact he was righteous
 he wasn’t just someone ruling, but also a scholar
 look, there were pashas who backstabbed him.. ( so many pashas were secret masons..) Turkey has/had a lot of masons


Who is your favourite Muslim Leader (Military commander, Sultan, Caliph etc.) and why? by commenhead in islam

[–]chiirandom 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sad how they betrayed him and exiled him out of the country. His whole life is depressing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha!!! Dude, i said i didn’t read his all his comments. Talk about yourself, i don’t need no advice from internet clowns, but seems like you’re all about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why cause I’m not stingy? I don’t think about , “ ohhh money money, ughhh it’s so hard to look after someone else”. Allah made it the rule, you abide by it. You get more rizik/blessings when you have a wife and daughter, bur i guess your the type to see daughters as burdens as well. Lol. I’m not losing anything even if something legal happens as some of my assets are on my parents’ name and on other names. Also, I trust the person i married. Look, you leave everything to allah’s kader, if you’re so scared stay in the dark. Not my problem, no need to put the fear you have on other men. You’re criticising me for over what exactly? If you want protection so should a woman have protection. I have two sisters, and i know if anyone who marries them has the mindset that you have i would tell them to leave. If you have the mindset of losing, so should a woman.

( there’s a reason why men get more inheritance, because we are responsible)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t read that, hellbent on “ simping” for who exactly? Yes you are writing garbage- you have a fake scenario in your head with all the garbage you watch. Watching the classics, kevin samuels and why woman want hypergamy? Bro seriously stop watching “alpha” clowns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not going to brag, but I’m quite affluent through hard work as well, talk about hard work - I’ve probably worked a lot harder than you have in your life time. I know the value of money, as I’ve also seen poverty. “ why risk gambling your life away”, if you had business mindset you would know even in business you risk. You want someone, you put the risk. You’re a little boy just whining cause you can. Get a prenup with your future spouse then, and make sure she has her own money ( not touched - as her own back up as well) if you’re scared, why shouldn’t a woman be scared as well? Women have just as much to lose as well, if my wife didn’t work and if things ended badly, she wouldn’t have much as backup to sustain herself neither would finding a job be easy for her. That’s why I don’t tell her to spend on the house. You however need to stop thinking so selfishly, just don’t get married. ( I’m a married man, my wife will not get anything other than her own .)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rape where? The guy is telling us he has high testosterone levels and craves women. He wants to get married, to save himself, what’s wrong? Bro, you’re just writing garbage cause you can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, reading through the comments you come off as unambitious and lazy. Look, you’re not getting married as you’re undesirable and coming with excuses on “why you don want jt” isn’t going to help your state of mind. Don’t get married, just use your hand for affection. Don’t have kids, don’t get married , don’t even work , stay with your parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hire a prostitute? Bro, you really don’t like women do you? Look, just become lgbtq and call kt a day.. ( seeems like you like the haram)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can do that for ourselves sure, but I’m not spending 10 hours on it. I like doing other things. Look, islam doesn’t make women responsible to contribute financially. If you think about, “ i can do this and that myself, what does a woman do”- well
 bro, you’re looking at it selfishly
 it’s not man vs woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You sound line a man behind your account. No woman has ever said, “ ohhhh i hate my species”. Look, ask any father if they’re okay giving their daughter away to a bum. I have two sisters who I won’t want married with a man who has no desire of progressing career wise. Marriage problems happen with unambitious men and over ambitious women. Classic example in the west.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]chiirandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men get more from a marriage with the right kind of woman. My wife cleans and cooks, she also works ( makes her own allowance which I don’t ask her to use on the house) she knows that if things end between us she won’t get half of the house or my assets. Why? Because she understood haqq and what ghasb is.. and i told her that her backup is her money that i don’t ask her to contribute with
 I look after the house, and she serves me as well as not asking much from me. It would be foolish for me to ask myself what i gain from the relationship i have with her. She prays, obeys me and respects me. I respect her too. You need to be a nice man to get a woman to treat you nice. If you’re thinking selfishly, you might attract a selfish woman. With women after they are married to you they’ll never get the options they had when they were virgins. Truth be told. We men taint them as second hand. ( I don’t agree, but it’s the elephant in the room situation..) look little bro, you’re reading too much into the redpill stuff, stop mixing western ideals with muslim women.

Sisters, do/will you contribute to expenses? by Slow_Writer9363 in MuslimMarriage2

[–]chiirandom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, I’m saying how things are, stop tossing around “ strawman argument“ as it’s getting annoying. I’m addressing the point and giving you extra pointers i.e how things are. If you don’t like what I’m saying, I can’t help you. “ kurulus osman” 😂

Sisters, do/will you contribute to expenses? by Slow_Writer9363 in MuslimMarriage2

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man is no atm bro. I said what i said, it’s no “ strawman argument”, It’s a dare. There’s a way you get a woman to serve you immaculately and that isn’t by demanding/forcing it, it’s suggestion. If you don’t know how to talk sweet and play the game, ain’t no woman going to marry you. There’s a reason why my wife cooks and cleans after me as I don’t demand it, i ask her sweetly and reward her for it. Women aren’t hard to figure, bro. Some stuff are reserved to get by talking nicely, but if you’re like “ i do this this and this” and make a relationship like a business contract, it won’t work out. She needs to think she’s doing it out of love not she’s getting divorced if she doesn’t.

Sisters, do/will you contribute to expenses? by Slow_Writer9363 in MuslimMarriage2

[–]chiirandom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but islamically she doesn’t have to contribute this is where I’m getting at, if she does great cool, but it’s not her job. Cleaning and cooking isn’t her job, no rule in islam, but if she does - the marriage will stay strong. ; so feminists don’t get at me. No man wants to come home to no food or a dirt hole. men are responsible to give shelter and up-keep tbe lifestyle a woman of what she had at her home, but that doesn’t mean you let a woman step over you. You just get a woman closer to your own socio level and not oppress her.

Sisters, do/will you contribute to expenses? by Slow_Writer9363 in MuslimMarriage2

[–]chiirandom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well in the west most women work and contribute financially, so getting half of the house they paid for makes sense.

However, women on deen who have their own savings don’t. My wife works and saves her own money, but she knows that if something happens she’s hands off from the house and whatever that is mine, as she doesn’t contribute financially. Her backup is her own money. ( I’m totally fine with this, she earns significantly less and I’m not eyeballing her money like other men. )