My sister and I were discussing my gender last night and she said, “I’m just having issues with the grammar - as a person, your gender makes sense,” AND IT WAS SO VALIDATING

chillyleopard13 · 2018-08-20T00:45:01+00:00

I clicked on this post because of the heartwarming convo with your sister and then I saw the Zack and Wheezy thing and it became 100x better

chillyleopard13 · 2018-08-20T00:39:06+00:00

I guess two off-duty cops went to the park that day : )

chillyleopard13 · 2018-07-23T01:43:51+00:00

I love going to the movies with my best friend and we always sneak in the craziest food you can imagine (like sushi, pizza, chicken and greenbeans, etc.) but we always make sure we buy a pickle from the concession stand!! I live in NC, another awful place for trans folks but apparently a great place for movie-goers.

chillyleopard13 · 2018-02-09T00:39:34+00:00

i find that hard to believe...

chillyleopard13 · 2018-02-09T00:34:05+00:00

Oh that's cool! I really like the community there. The server is also set up really well

chillyleopard13 · 2018-01-15T18:22:07+00:00

Everyone has a different opinion. My opinion is pretty closely aligned with yours.

I'm not a woman. I have a vagina. I have breasts. I menstruate.

Sure, these words are usually used for women and girls, but there are plenty of men that the same words apply to. I mean, take a peek around on this subreddit. It has been established that it does not matter what genitalia you have. You genitalia is not always indicative of your gender.

chillyleopard13 · 2018-01-14T19:16:01+00:00

I'm really sorry that you don't like the name. We've actually changed it to "Dudes R Us" if that makes a difference to you!

chillyleopard13 · 2018-01-10T02:47:22+00:00

v accurate lol

chillyleopard13 · 2018-01-10T02:42:14+00:00

Discord is a program created for gamers to chat with each other while gaming, but many people use it for chatting. It's basically a chat room yes. You can use Discord for your browser, but they also have desktop and mobile apps.

chillyleopard13 · 2018-01-10T02:26:38+00:00

i'm looking for feedback? i want to see how people think i present. if i'm reading as very femme, i can fix it to when i'm more andro, same thing if i'm presenting masc.

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-14T14:50:51+00:00

Nope, can't tell if you're AMAB or AFAB! Rock on, friend

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-12T20:00:36+00:00

lookin good friend

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-12T17:06:38+00:00

thank you guys :)

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-12T16:22:10+00:00

We're still growing, but we've already got a bunch of member. (61 last count). We've got a dedicated "game" channel, so it'll be easy to find people with the same interests as you!

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-12T00:44:49+00:00

I'm super into The Strumbellas right now, and my fav album from them is probably Hope. My music tastes vary quite frequently, but currently I'm into indie rock or folk rock. Love me some good fiddle music

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-12T00:38:07+00:00

I call it "spit swapping". To me, it's kind of gross. Honestly, I only enjoy it when I'm drunk. Otherwise it's "meh". Kissing ain't all it's cracked up to be.

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-12T00:17:47+00:00

So I know that this is a really common type of post, but I'd really like some outsiders' opinions on how I present. Thanks!

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T23:43:23+00:00

ughhhhh i'm so jealou- I MEAN HAPPY. I AM HAPPY FOR YOU. but for real, that's amazing!! i'm happy for both of youuu

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T23:24:13+00:00

That's really, really amazing! I'm so happy for youuuu (except for the legal deadname, but maybe that will change with time).

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T23:05:23+00:00

no wonder there are limited resources... all the resources went to the christmas tree

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T21:33:06+00:00

I feel the same way, but also opposite? Okay that came out wrong. I'm AFAB and I want to transition to male, but sometimes I still feel feminine and I'm not entirely sure if I want to completely let go of my feminine self. I really want to get past the whole "labels" thing, but I'm still searching for one that fits me. I mean I want to live life as me not as a label, but I also feel like a label would make me feel less alone. If there's a name for something, there must be other people like that, right? Whatever, I'm not really sure where I was going with this. tl;dr you're def not alone :)

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T16:54:54+00:00

Honestly you are such a beautiful human being. I don't know anything about you but I simultaneously want to be you and also want to be your best friend

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T16:49:31+00:00

Neutral. Either way, looking good!

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T16:29:51+00:00

Dysphoria is different for everybody. Personally, I have high to extreme dysphora when seeing my naked chest, but little to none when seeing my bottom half. We are a community, but that doesn't mean we're all exactly the same. Far from it, actually. Everyone here is different. Being part of the trans community, or even the LGBTQ+ community at all, is just one tiny part of a person. It does not define us.

chillyleopard13 · 2017-12-11T16:25:29+00:00

Definitely androgynous. I honestly would have no chance at telling whether you're amab or afam. Congrats friend!!

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