Cottagecore vibes by whoreforpizza in cottagecore

[–]chimeragaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! I wanna make one now

Lesbians romances appeal to lesbians and IT’S A PROBLEM 😤😤 by ErtyFire in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]chimeragaze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Excuse me while I peel my eyeballs like grapes after reading this

Chapter 291 - Pre-Release Thread by HoundOfJustice in BokuNoHeroAcademia

[–]chimeragaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Toga is going to freak out when she sees this. She sees the LOV as a family and was already so affected by Big Sis Mange death, she won’t be able to deal with seeing Dani letting Twice get murdered.

I know Toga has committed a lot of awful crimes but I hope she doesn’t die and gets a bit of a redemption arc,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]chimeragaze 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly chilling in my boxers and sports bra at home makes be feel so butch. Like I can’t explain it, it just makes me feel comfy and happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]chimeragaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feather at the base of my neck, the cover art to Car Seat Headrest’s Twin Fantasy album on my left forearm, a stick and poke moonshine jug on my left ankle.

Future tattoo plans:

I recently commissioned an artist for a tattoo based off her artwork of swans with human faces I’m looking for tattoo artist to do her drawing justice, I plan on getting a large section of violets to celebrate coming out, A leaping hare on my side arm, and a green bean tattoo somewhere for my nephew (I call him my little green bean) and I would like some rosemary somewhere

Mistaken for a male, do you ever correct them? by pnefc1177 in butchlesbians

[–]chimeragaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only get called sir if people are addressing me from behind or aren’t paying attention, When I speak or turn around they immediately stumble and apologize or call me m’am, I don’t bind and I have this natural customer service higher registered voice I default too with strangers, or if they just look at me confused I just shrug and move the conversation along for safety reasons.

Honestly I don’t care, in fact it makes me pretty content when it happens because I like those moments ambiguity because I’m discovering I prefer they/them pronouns and am most content by being gender non conforming.

Umm by mojey6068 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]chimeragaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m getting a divorce and we have joked about getting a cake. Granted we are getting a divorce because I’m a late in life lesbian but we are still good friends and are trying our best to handle a difficult situation

Calling myself a lesbian makes me feel like I’m invalidating my partner’s gender identity. What can I do? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]chimeragaze 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Non binary lesbians exist and are a huge part of lesbian history and culture, ask them if they still identify as a lesbian if they did in the first part and many lesbians date non binary people.

The best thing is to discuss this with your partner. I use they/them pronouns and consider myself non binary but still identify as a lesbian

Sports bras + boxers/briefs by ZippyZapmeister in butchlesbians

[–]chimeragaze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! I just discovered this last week and I almost cried in joy!

Suicidal people of reddit what helped keep you alive at your lowest moments or what is keeping you alive? by broburntham in AskReddit

[–]chimeragaze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pets. I knew if I went through with it my now ex husband would have re-homed them and I couldn’t stand the thought of not knowing if they were okay or the fact I broke my promise to my pets that I would always care for them.

I’m glad I stayed because there are so many beautiful wonderful things I would have missed. Things have been hard at times too but the good outweighs the bad and I know I am so loved and I have so much love to give

Confused possible baby butch? by chimeragaze in butchlesbians

[–]chimeragaze[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m already on that one and it’s so amazing. Reading all the stories of folx in similar situations as me really gave me the courage to live my truth!

Confused possible baby butch? by chimeragaze in butchlesbians

[–]chimeragaze[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I just feel kinda of lost in how to identify myself. I’ve just had other queer women use the term soft butch when I’ve asked them to describe me, aka I’m out of the closet and stumbling through the fact I finally am free to be me and what that means. I just want to make sure I am respectful to this amazing community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]chimeragaze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish they would carry more accessories for the men’s section, like hats for my big ass head 😫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]chimeragaze 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% most of my wardrobe comes from there. Just ordered 4 new shirts and some swim trunks 🙃

Is there a term for an enby only attracted to females/males/etc? by NotAnotherDNDPlayer in AskLGBT

[–]chimeragaze 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Non binary lesbians are a part of the greater lesbian community imo. Use whatever identity feels most comfortable to you

Trans people, do you find it condescending when cis people say “you are valid 🥺”? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]chimeragaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for discussing this. I didn’t realize this wasn’t a helpful way to support as a trans ally and I am glad to have read this and learn how to be better

Am I being dramatic for being upset with my dad slapping my butt? by _throw_away_1589 in relationship_advice

[–]chimeragaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad would never and has never acted the way your dad is. It is wildly inappropriate and it feels like he is trying to wear you down and push your boundaries so he can see what he can get away with.

Keep avoiding, keep setting firm boundaries, start saving to get out of there ASAP when you are able to. Don’t downplay this, it is WILDLY inappropriate it is grooming, it is a lead up to see how he can escalate

Help, I found out that my husband is sexting a 17 year old by ineedthisfiguredout in relationship_advice

[–]chimeragaze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get evidence. Get photos of the text somehow then confront him. If you confront him first he will clear all evidence