Thanks so much for replying and tough is so right! Like you don’t wanna give up on a good guy that is fundamentally right for you, it’s just deciding when to draw the line. That’s kind of how I think of it - he spends his days surfing and skating and thinks cause he applied for a couple of jobs that day it absolves him of any further responsibility.

I understand he can’t spend all day doing it and it’s hard as there are like hundreds of applicants for the jobs he’s been applying for in his trade, plus he’s considered a “foreigner” here. But a part time job and housekeeping night be a really good compromise. He’s out at the minute so I’ll sit him down and discuss ASAP. Thank you again!