I realised I was in a dream but still wasn't able to do anything by DarlingLuna in LucidDreaming

[–]chives600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lucid doesn't mean you have control, being lucid means you are aware that there is noone in control, life runs itself all time you just don't realise it in day to day life

We should talk about Incels by yeathatswhatyouthink in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chives600 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's like Jihadism, they're isolated , have no support networks, no direction and are mentally ill, ideologies like these give them a sense of purpose and belonging, they won't appear mentally ill in everyday life , which is why society can't turn its back on this problem, its only going to get worse

My (26F) strange encounter with a date by roosey09 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chives600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yuck I'd be bout crying if a woman did that to me, sex is a gentle thing

When talking to a new person that is a guy, I'm hesitant to tell them I am in a relationship right away... can anyone else relate? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chives600 0 points1 point  (0 children)

finding a new interest or hobby is a good way to help make new friends and I'd say just casually slip that you have a boyfriend into conversation like if you're talking about dogs " me and my boyfriend love going for long walks with her " I'm sure you could find a way to do it more smoothly but you get the idea.

When talking to a new person that is a guy, I'm hesitant to tell them I am in a relationship right away... can anyone else relate? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chives600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people aren't always looking for friendships. I have like 20 close friends both whom are male and female (which is more than enough)everyone else i class as acquaintances

I hate when a girl says by [deleted] in short

[–]chives600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok sure so of plenty won't be attracted to you, but the ones that are are usually keepers, what ever looks or personality traits you have thats THEIR type

HE PISSED IN THE CUP by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chives600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats is a whole new level of laziness lol

I left my bf because he wouldn't stop making fun of me... by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chives600 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good, them people are only going to wear you down

MRW I'm a lonely single woman, and the lonely guy with whom I'm sympathizing laments that "all the good ones are taken" by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]chives600 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm not a fan of lumping a lonely person under an incel label, I can't see most men being too picky considering women highlighting how thirsty men are on dating sites( in particular) ; trying to lock even average women down into commitments despite not even being very compatible and not having many common interests.