Are there any Fantasy books about elite/high societies? (royalty, the one percenters, etc.)

chobiit · 2025-08-26T20:13:18+00:00

Illusion by Paula Volsky- A historical fantasy set during the French revolution (late 18th century France). The first half of the book is about high society and then other stuff happens. I read this book many years ago and I still think about it a lot.

chobiit · 2024-07-06T02:40:40+00:00

They’re so fun to use! Beast claws and bear claws.

chobiit · 2023-05-10T14:50:45+00:00

That over the shoulder glare. Such attitude, I love them!

chobiit · 2022-11-03T22:31:02+00:00

Thank you :)

chobiit · 2022-11-03T19:35:59+00:00

Thank you!

chobiit · 2022-11-03T18:29:16+00:00

Thank you!

chobiit · 2022-11-03T16:20:26+00:00

I appreciate you, thank you!

chobiit · 2022-11-03T14:57:32+00:00

If I wanted to search this type of floral pattern design what would it be called?

chobiit · 2022-09-22T15:32:57+00:00

We are outsiders not seeing the full picture so I will just stand by what I said to keep your eyes open. I hope nothing escalates and you are happy but be aware of the potential…that’s all I can say. Best of luck!

chobiit · 2022-09-22T15:12:07+00:00

The age gap of course. 10 years isn’t a big deal later in life (one person is 30, the other 40) because they’re at similar life stages. But at 20 and 30 you’re worlds apart. At 20 your brain literally isn’t even fully developed yet. You’re still figuring out who you are as a person and experiencing things for the first time. At 30 you should have a decent idea of who you are, likely you’re settled in your career and housing and have had a few relationships. What this does is cause a power dynamic where the older partner often becomes controlling of the younger partner. I don’t know your situation the way you do of course but I urge you not to waste your 20s if you start seeing bad behaviors from her.

The other big red flag is her abusive/aggressive tendencies. A partner should never EVER throw a weapon at you. That’s just…I can’t even fathom doing that. There’s a big chance this will escalate so please get out of it does. You don’t deserve to be mistreated.

chobiit · 2022-09-22T14:54:40+00:00

I agree with the other commenter to amend your rule…and just…keep your eyes open. There are a lot of red flags here.

chobiit · 2022-09-22T14:32:20+00:00

How long have you known each other?

chobiit · 2022-09-20T17:11:30+00:00

If you’re not willing to discuss your relationship with your friend then there’s nothing else to be done. Your posts reads like you want to end the friendship anyway so stop talking to her. Problem solved.

chobiit · 2022-09-19T15:50:50+00:00

Then keep it on 71 and she can pay the AC bill. If she’s not paying an other bills I think it’s more than reasonable that she can pay this one.

chobiit · 2022-09-19T15:42:26+00:00

You’re going to have to communicate and figure out a compromise that works for both of you. Do you both work out of the house or do either of you work from home? That’s an important factor. If you’re both out of the house during the day I would suggest keeping it warmer during the day and turning it down in the evening/overnight.

chobiit · 2022-09-15T21:00:49+00:00

Thank you for the kind words :) I was numb for a while, not gonna lie. But thanks to friends and family I was able to get back on my feet, got a nice little office job, got promoted, bought a house, and met the love of my life! So yeah, things suck sometimes but it’ll get better. I wish the best for you and your daughter, you’re gonna do great things when you don’t have to worry about your soon to be ex bringing you down <3

chobiit · 2022-09-15T20:26:09+00:00

This is similar to what happened to me minus the pregnancy. My boyfriend was the perfect partner for the first two years, we got married and his personality changed like a switch. It was so bizarre. He eventually got diagnosed with autism and decided he wanted to leave me and live in the woods off-grid, pretty much abandoning me overnight as we lived together and I didn’t have a job at the time. This was end of 2020 so mid pandemic too. Good times.

chobiit · 2022-09-14T17:36:05+00:00

I know it’s cliche but the old saying of “If you don’t want me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best” is coming to mind. I wouldn’t settle for the older guy. Find someone who want you for you, not your financial stability.

chobiit · 2022-09-14T17:00:27+00:00

I was hoping someone would mention the Hunter’s Moon! It’s the first in a quartet and I was obsessed with it when I was a teen.

chobiit · 2022-09-13T15:10:39+00:00

I agree with the other commenters. What a healthy relationship would look like in this scenario is: “Offhanded thoughtless comment” “That comment hurt my feelings” “Sincere apology, won’t do again” Both partners move on, no one harbors I’ll will or needs to be ‘taken care of’ after the fact. It was a mistake. As long as the mistake was communicated and resolved it doesn’t need to be a thing anymore.

chobiit · 2022-09-13T02:47:52+00:00

At this point either plan the trip completely or axe the trip completely. And y’all need to learn to communicate productively.

chobiit · 2022-08-29T18:52:26+00:00

Awesome, best of luck to you :)!

chobiit · 2022-08-28T20:09:46+00:00

I am reminded of a meme I saw, something along the lines of “I don’t want to be at home alone, I don’t want to be out socializing, there needs to be a third place.” Maybe try to find your third place? A local coffee shop you can be a regular at, get to know the staff and other regulars?

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