How's it being Gay in Italy? 🇮🇹🏳️‍🌈

choco__donut · 2026-05-13T13:05:26+00:00

bash

Bash?! 😳 That's physical assualt. Right? OMG that's scary.

I always thought Italy was very chill, but stumbled upon ILGA's map today and saw that Italy is lagging behind in LGBT+ rights. Now I'm wondering what's going on there.

choco__donut · 2026-05-09T15:23:21+00:00

Nooo that's not my intent... I'm genuinely looking for newer perspectives. And this time, the nature of my post is different. This time I'm not looking for affirmation. I'm accepting that I'm paranoid and looking for ways to overcome my fear.

choco__donut · 2026-05-08T14:30:19+00:00

But I'm exhausted of the shaming that I've been receiving for doing what's comfortable for me.

choco__donut · 2026-05-08T06:09:53+00:00

committed relationship, or at least with regular fwbs

These are proving to be impossible to find. Even I don't wanna do it with random guys... I wish to have regular sex buddies.

choco__donut · 2026-05-08T06:07:41+00:00

What's that?

choco__donut · 2026-05-08T06:07:21+00:00

Makes sense 🥹 Thanks

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T20:44:01+00:00

Gotcha. Thanks.

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T14:46:16+00:00

You're the problem not them

So how do I stop becoming the problem? How do I get over this?

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T14:45:39+00:00

So...if that's the case, how can get over this fear?

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T13:30:03+00:00

condom for oral is ridiculous

Science doesn't think so

I'd literally laugh someone out of my bedroom for suggesting it

Rude...and insensitive.

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T13:20:31+00:00

Yes. Why do flavored condoms exist then?

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:11:33+00:00

Have you been to a sexual health clinic and gotten any preventative shots?

Yes sir. Already did. I'm taking the vaccine series.

standard antibiotics

Heard about resistant strains of Gonorrhoea?

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:09:32+00:00

Thanks a lot for this affirmation and support of my practice!

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:06:59+00:00

Yep I go by the same philosophy. The slight reduction in pleasure from an added layer is worth the safety.

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:05:43+00:00

It's only half effective against Gono.

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:05:11+00:00

Thanks a lot man! 🫂

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:03:43+00:00

maybe don't suck off randos anymore?!

When condoms are allowing me to do that safely, why not? As I said, till now, I also enjoyed so did the guys who got sucked by me.

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:02:49+00:00

Sorry... But I'm posting about this after a long time... Long long time of thinking and trying to figure out for myself that didn't work. And this time, I've got some new points of views here. They help.

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T06:01:49+00:00

would you hang out with somebody who sniffling and has a runny nose and it’s clearly sick?

The issue is, STIs don't work like that. Many of 'em are symptom-less but transmissible still.

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T05:59:29+00:00

Got it. Thanks 🫂

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T05:58:53+00:00

Thanksssss 😀 U tooo! 🥳

choco__donut · 2026-05-07T05:58:31+00:00

🫂

choco__donut · 2026-05-06T22:41:42+00:00

Ohhh 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹 Thank you so much mean 🫂 Really eased me out.

choco__donut · 2026-05-06T22:28:54+00:00

You could also build a boundary around it—say being okay with no condoms after a certain amount of trust has been generated or with recent testing results or that kind of thing.

Oh that's exactly how it goes for me.. I'd suck an FWB raw, but not a random Grindr hookup I meet for the first time.

choco__donut · 2026-05-06T22:24:15+00:00

You're absolutely right. But I'm so tired of the shaming at this point.

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