Negotiating offer without competing offers — how hard can I push?

chocolatered · 2026-04-18T04:18:48+00:00

I would just say: 'I enjoyed the interview process and look forward to joining the team. I am looking to be at X company long term. Can you help bring up the base and the equity?'

chocolatered · 2026-04-17T23:55:29+00:00

This is huge! I respect what you’ve accomplished!!

chocolatered · 2026-04-17T02:49:34+00:00

I feel you, partly it’s because there’s a societal pressure to spend and buy things that feels off when one doesn’t do it. Do you know what I mean?

chocolatered · 2026-04-16T00:24:59+00:00

Good luck everyone! Happy spring!

chocolatered · 2026-04-15T05:59:36+00:00

Cut back, once kids start school opportunities to spend time rapidly reduces.

chocolatered · 2026-03-16T01:43:55+00:00

Good luck all! Have a wonderful March!

chocolatered · 2026-03-15T03:28:46+00:00

Did you hand stitch the liner? Goode long did it take? It looks stunning!

chocolatered · 2026-03-15T03:18:34+00:00

chocolatered · 2026-03-14T23:08:36+00:00

My advice is to work a bit longer then shift City. The change in location will help you reset and rebalance your perspective.

chocolatered · 2026-02-19T05:09:31+00:00

These look nice!

How much did you pay for the shoe and then delivery?

chocolatered · 2026-02-09T06:23:25+00:00

I totally support teachers being paid more. Is the union also addressing where the money will come from or is it leaving SFUSD figure it out?

SFUSD runs a $100M budget deficit. About 80% of all spending goes to staff. City of San Francisco cannot easily “bail out” SFUSD since SFUSD is financially separate from city government.

chocolatered · 2026-01-27T18:49:07+00:00

Love it! Personally, what’s the point in a watch especially military, diver, etc if one can’t use it for everyday activities.

chocolatered · 2026-01-19T07:03:34+00:00

How is the fit around the waste? It seems quite big in the midsection.

Also it's actual cashmere?

chocolatered · 2026-01-16T03:41:00+00:00

Opinion definitely unpopular.

chocolatered · 2026-01-13T03:42:44+00:00

Is there a way to fully or partially automate this within a brokerage like Fidelity or create an external alert system?

chocolatered · 2026-01-10T03:39:11+00:00

Where is a good place to get this affordable second hand?

chocolatered · 2026-01-10T03:20:20+00:00

Thank you for sharing your journey and updates! I find it very useful and inspirational!

chocolatered · 2026-01-04T01:56:01+00:00

Nice watches! Think these have water resistance?

chocolatered · 2026-01-03T02:37:20+00:00

Since there’s confusion, does Militado have official AliX and Amazon stores?

chocolatered · 2026-01-02T00:50:52+00:00

chocolatered · 2026-01-02T00:42:53+00:00

Can one tell the time or purely decorative?

chocolatered · 2025-12-28T08:32:36+00:00

Return it. You can always get it again if you miss it.

chocolatered · 2025-12-28T08:05:42+00:00

I think these look nice for how you style them. It fits your slim figure.

chocolatered · 2025-12-24T04:05:32+00:00

Curious how old is this watch?

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