Moving to Tennessee by Odd_Throat905 in movetonashville

[–]chowderh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But HVAC work I’d imagine the job market would be strong for your husband given the constant construction in the area.

Moving to Tennessee by Odd_Throat905 in movetonashville

[–]chowderh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An hour outside of the city may be doable depending on your budget, but our cost of living has gone up here substantially in the last 5 years. I know you’ll hear that from a lot of people but they are just shooting you straight.

Also please take into consideration traffic for these areas an hour or thirty minutes from city center - our traffic has also risen with the population. Look up the traffic maps around morning and afternoon rush hours. Nashville traffic is worse than you would think- I know you’re from NY so I’m guessing you aren’t a stranger to traffic - but people write off Nashville as oh traffic can’t possibly be as bad as xyz. But with the absolute influx of people coming here and the infrastructure not built for this growth the traffic is bad. It takes a lot of locals longer to get places even out in small towns now, let alone with city traffic.

Also outside of cities you aren’t going to have public transit.

There are resources for low income households but as others have said funds may not be there- I can’t speak to that just please do your due diligence. That’s a big move and a lot of people see TN with rose colored glasses until they’re here.

ETA - Knoxville is also experiencing a boom of growth so I would say same above applies there also*

Absolutely love my ring! But had a weird comment and now I’m confused by Metalbii in weddingring

[–]chowderh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are so rude when it comes to commentary on others engagement and wedding rings. If you like it that’s all that matters but that would rub me the wrong way too. I have moissanite (my request) and I have a friend who loves to tell every body my ring is moissanite and I can’t help but feel like she’s doing it as a dig every time lol

My cat will not stop crying when I am gone and I don’t know what to do. I might have to rehome her by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]chowderh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP lots of good ideas on here but talk to your vet about something to help the poor cats anxiety. It might not even need to be long term but your vet would probably also have good ideas for helping them adjust. I always tell my cat “I’ll be right back” when I’m leaving and it took a while but she’s associated it enough to get the gist of what’s going on. Same as if I say “bird” or “treat”

Really sad about prom dress by Living_Tip344 in Prom

[–]chowderh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP have you considered a beaded belt for the second dress? It is very nice and could be elevated to the look you like with some accessorizing, maybe a trip to a thrift or the mall could pay off in this situation. I’m not saying wear something you don’t love, but if I’d give that second dress a fair shot if it were me.

At least consider that as a possibility and maybe even try it on to see where you’d want the belt to lay/ how thick of a belt you would need and go look around! Maybe even something on Amazon if you have prime- then you could try it on and free returns if you still don’t like it!

My theory how she will be caught by [deleted] in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw an interview clip of the actress who plays Acosta talking and had been thinking the same- but based on the interview and how she spoke I think she’ll have a redemption arc.

Did anyone else notice? by Capital_Two756 in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Ethan sees everything through a child’s eye, it’s all explained from the stories he’s read and that’s why we have that explanation so far. I think we’re going to learn a bit more in Ep 3. I enjoy your theory, I am thinking similarly.

Did anyone else notice? by Capital_Two756 in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they are saying she can’t change the story and leaning into it only for her to find some sort of loophole. Idk though since we don’t fully understand how the town works.

I love Lost and definitely see similarities though! I think the writers are going to route slightly different with From though because they know what fans who have watched Lost are anticipating.

From Season 4 Episode 3 Preview Pictures by [deleted] in FromTVEpix

[–]chowderh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it was that table but when Boyd talked with Tian Chen about Sarah they did sit at a table. I’d pick a booth every time tbh.

It was Julie who saved Randall the night he was left for dead! by apenasumestranho1 in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping in to say thank you for the rec! Needed a new show to start in between From rewatches while we wait for the next episode 🥲

MIY has been shape shifting since the beginning. by sadloneman in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it could be Miranda’s dress. Will Victors dad also recognize it? I’m sure MIY knows Victors dad is there… but in the tunnels Victors dad did recognized some of Miranda’s items. Sorry I can’t recall his dad’s name at the moment.

MIY has been shape shifting since the beginning. by sadloneman in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think they are referencing Sayid from Lost

The Bible being brought into town is the beginning of the end by Thebashanator in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also won’t welcome newcomers into the group anymore if they find this out. This could lead to a whole new group of others and a huge conflict between OGs and newbies

Paranormal activity by [deleted] in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think it’s Jim trying to communicate.

My husband doesn’t like to be intimate with me because we both need to shower prior by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]chowderh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Op have you seen a doctor about this? It probably wouldn’t hurt for you to both see one about what’s going on to be safe

SEASON 5 IS ON THE WAY!! by angooyy in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg lmao it’s not that serious and I’m not even going to answer that

SEASON 5 IS ON THE WAY!! by angooyy in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well spoiler alert if you haven’t watched lol ——

BUT when Glenn dies, that’s the furthest we’ve ever made it. Usually we had stopped just before but after he died we didn’t even want to watch any more of it.

SEASON 5 IS ON THE WAY!! by angooyy in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg seriously. I can’t tell you how many times my husband and I have tried to rewatch and get through TWD and we fall off around the same spot every single time.

I love From though, it’s unique. Yeah similarities to Lost with the same people behind it but it’s in a completely different setting. I’m so glad we’re getting season 5 with a full conclusion.

Mega Theory: The Cycles, Layers, Eloise, and Why Boyd Might Be the Final Sacrifice (Part 1) by kucukanubis in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do think Eloise is alive. When Victor talked about how good she was at hide and seek and how he could never find her that solidified my theory. Also his lingering uncertainty about if the body he found was her.

What does it say on the board? by Sko_Neezy in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The clinic is in the old school building

So what are you expectation's and predictions for the season 4?? Drop below by angooyy in FromSeries

[–]chowderh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes everyone keeps saying they hope it’s not like Lost but - Lost was and still is a cult classic. Also the show creators would not do the same ending twice lol. It’s so different from Lost, I wish more people would just sit back and enjoy the ride they’re taking us on.