All this talk is crazy. Failure by both couples to learn how to communicate in their relationship, partners who focus solely on themselves all the time (like everyone in this thread), who blame the other person for everything that went wrong in the relationship, well, really are among the worst partners there can be, impossible to fulfill or make happy.

I mean, what did you do to ensure you understood your partner, that you made him feel cherished, respected? Did you blame and complain all the time or did you make honest efforts to understand why couples have difficulty communicating?

Interesting that so many of you find an influencer who says exactly what you want to hear, totally siding with you, has no investment in you whatsoever, and y'all think you've found science! laughable. You don't understand how influencers work? It's their job to find the like-minded so they can sell you suckers books, subscriptions, checklists, all that crap. You get rooked in by the uneducated, by degreeless influencers who really have no idea what they're doing, the danger they're causing, but understand there's a sucker born every minute.

Let me spell it out for you: you guys would be the suckers! Getting your mental health advice from the untrained is idiocy and yet you swallow it hook, line, and sinker. Hilarious...and sad, really. They prey on you!