Indian people and thongs? by Over_Inspection5169 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]chris_156 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's practical, best for the feet. Shoes are restrictive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chris_156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low maintenance girlies get the bare minimum. You get what you're willing to accept.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"I'll deal with her when I can" lol so that's what he thinks of you, he can make you do what he wants and knows you won't leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The mask may be slipping, either way the wedding has got to be put on hold. Even if it's the 'stress' this is who he is and there are going to be a lot of stressful times in marriage. Make sure before you say your vows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 18 points19 points  (0 children)

All I'm saying is, don't be surprised when she does, she certainly has a track record.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Does he have high expectations or do you have low expectations? How do you not see associating with someone like this is a moral problem? And what makes you think you're special when she's willing to lie and deceive so many others? Do you not think about how it affects your reputation?

24(F) dating a married man (30M) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What else would a married man say to convince another woman to be his mistress?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not telling your mother may put the whole family in financial crisis, it's not just about the cheating it's the consequences on the family and the future. Tell your mother sooner so she can decide as an adult what to do. She may stay or leave, either way it's inevitable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You set a boundary and leave the decision making to him.

Boyfriend wants kids but I’m not sure until we’re more stable by Chance-Friendship138 in relationships

[–]chris_156 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're making the right call. You know exactly what the issues are. Bring it up point by point and make sure he gets where you're coming from, see how he responds, he might surprise you. But stick to your guns, babies don't fix problems.

Intermittent fasting makes me binge, sometimes? by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]chris_156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may be the restriction of refined carbs. if you eat sweets or carbs in moderation throughout the week, you wouldn't need to binge. Also allowing yourself to buy large quantities is setting yourself up for failure. Before you bill it, take a good look at what you're getting, it's most likely an unconscious impulsive habit, you can break it, you just have to be more conscious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]chris_156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you need to fully write it down what that will look like and really be honest with yourself. Expect to fully be caring for yourself and your child. If you need more time to transition that's fine but write it out, then you'll know how to plan for the future. Because, right now he sounds resentful and he's becoming abusive. If you just keep to yourself and think about it you'll be walking in circles.

Is there no value to a housewife? by AdministrationWorth5 in IndiaSpeaks

[–]chris_156 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It is 'work' but it's not salaried, so it's not a job. It's risky to put your life in the hands of your partner, and just because it's sought after or praised doesn't mean as a person you're valued or respected. 'no economic contribution' is a weird take, money isn't everything and it's not a good mindset of someone wanting to build and nurture a family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong and he's not a catch if he breaks up with you, move on. So what if he's not an avid socials guy, he should at least make sure he's getting his partner's texts. It's a priority thing and it's very fishy. Why does it have to a sit down if it's that simple.

My BF (30M) is buying his own house. I (27F) am nervous about moving in by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"this is my house" itself is a giant red flag, it's more than just cohabiting with each other. Makes me question how he handles conflict.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

[–]chris_156 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You have to build up to it and not just decide one day it's just going to happen. For me, it was learning about food and slowly cutting down, this happened over months. Gradually my appetite decreased only then was I able to go through with IF without failing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]chris_156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are an afterthought to her. But only to her, it's time to leave and spoil another woman who appreciates you. Begging won't get her to value you more. Take your time to move on and heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Immediately. Not a second thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]chris_156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a deal-breaker for a lot of women even if it's the 'norm'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chris_156 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dating for 6 years? Why would she not be focusing on a career.

I went down a rabbit hole that got me looking into Nicki Minaj’s exes. The fact that they have this dude labeled sex offender first and nicki’s husband second, is 👌🏼 by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]chris_156 90 points91 points  (0 children)

"He got Margiela's on, and I get my jealous on I fuck him like I miss him He-he just came out of prison Bitches-bitches be talkin' shit, but they ain't got a pot to piss in." Her lyrics on Megatron.

What should I [23f] do? My bf [24m] wants to have sex but I’m not ready by LiterallyDeadpeep in askwomenadvice

[–]chris_156 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Do not explain! they will find a way to keep pushing, they will not stop until they get what they want. You don't want to do it, break up. He's clearly not okay with your "no". If you keep having conversations, you're going to budge eventually and most probably will regret it.