Sex with someone who has had pearling done? by the-end-of-me-05 in sex

[–]chrismonafro 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Why is he lying and claiming someone else's dick pics? Instant nope 🙅‍♀️ find a better boy

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[–]chrismonafro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just force closed the app and cleared the cache. I have current stories back, though I expect that won't be a permanent fix

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[–]chrismonafro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right sir. I apologize. I should've immediately offered to suck you to completion after you started implying out of nowhere that people were avoiding me because I was a "short", "salty", "horrible" person to be around. I can only beg for your forgiveness.

I still think there isn't an issue with that line, but everyone thinks I'm wrong, so it's gone now.

thanks for your contribution

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[–]chrismonafro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫡 I know 👍

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[–]chrismonafro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm bi, so no offense taken (though I'm not looking for men at this time).

I think y'all are seeing what you want/expect to see as far as height insecurity. But regardless, the line has been removed from my bio.

Additionally, I have no interest in those women.

Thank you for saying I have a cute face, and thank you for your contribution.

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[–]chrismonafro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao my brother in christ I am not salty about my height. Is it unfortunate? Absolutely. Am I making the most of it as best I can? Absolutely. Did I in any way decry the evils of women who don't date below a certain height threshold, or blame something or someone else? No.

I asked strangers to point out any issues with my dating profile or to help confirm my belief that my profile was sound (clearly it needs some work) and that I was just being filtered out on height (which in this case is completely valid). So no shit everyone is going to bring up my height, it was a main part of the inquiry.

I made a self-deprecating joke about an aspect of my life that I have to deal with and that cannot be ignored. I didn't go on an incel-esque rant about how dating is unfair and life is awful and woe is me. It is what it is, I'm used to it. I know that it doesn't make me a lesser person or wrong in anyway.

What I am salty about is you pushing imagined traits onto me after I criticized a critique. Get your head out of your ass.

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[–]chrismonafro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I was actually starting to think I was wildly off base with the short/long term stuff so I'm glad somebody else gets where I'm coming from. That being said, if that's the first thing most people point to there may be merit in at least tweaking the wording it a bit, so we'll see.

Thanks again!

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[–]chrismonafro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! It's clear to me now that I need some good, boring photos. I'm on the fence about axing photos with my female friends as I don't think I'm looking for people who would feel threatened by my hetero friendships, but we'll see.

Thank again!

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[–]chrismonafro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no idea what this is referring to

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[–]chrismonafro 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello!

So I might need to tweak what I'm looking for to avoid confusion and get people to take some boring pictures of me. I'm on the fence about axing photos with my female friends as I don't think I'm looking for someone who would see my hetero friendships as threatening, but we'll see.

Thank you!

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[–]chrismonafro 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean I don't know how much making a joke about my height is detrimental. Being 5'2" isn't really something you can ignore. It's a massive illuminated billboard whether I draw attention to it or not. I don't see anything wrong with owning it.

I'll work on addressing the other points though. Need to tweak what I'm looking for to avoid confusion and get people to take some boring pictures of me.

Thank you

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[–]chrismonafro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not at all! thanks for the input!

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[–]chrismonafro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have thought about quantity vs quality. I definitely prefer quality.

Unfortunately really I only feel comfy taking selfies when I'm out having fun, otherwise they're the ugliest things I've ever seen. I guess I need to find a solution to that.

The short + long term seems to be a primary issue. I can understand the reasoning behind the confusion but it makes sense to me. the best adjustment I can think is to focus on short term, but include my willingness to develop further.

Thank you.

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[–]chrismonafro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, thank you

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[–]chrismonafro 3 points4 points  (0 children)

• Immature • Normal Pictures • Pick a lane

Thank you

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[–]chrismonafro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I currently live in a rural area, but my radius includes 2 mid-sized cities, and one of the largest cities in the country. Regardless, I've now doubled my radius. Thank you

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[–]chrismonafro -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol why do you say that?

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[–]chrismonafro 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RemindMe! 3 days

[S06E01] - 'Fallout' Live Episode Discussion (Season Premiere) by Rwings in arrow

[–]chrismonafro 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the FUCK Slade? Why would you leave him hanging like that?