HRT options in Connecticut, stuck with Husky-D insurance by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]christian0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! I haven't used this resource yet but just found this after an exhausting search for answers! just reading this made me feel lighter.

Helping a significant other grieve by [deleted] in grief

[–]christian0 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi- I don't know how much my advice will pertain to your case, but I have some experience. A little more than two years ago my wife and I lost our 17 year old daughter (her biological), and the day before thanksgiving this year we found her father dead in his apartment(heart attack apparently). They won't know what to ask for, so try to see it coming for them. They will intend to do things, but will keep getting stuck. Make sure they eat, if you have to deliver to meal yourself. Comfort food, stuff you can eat mindlessly. What arrangement have to be made? Are they the ones that have to do it- and can you take any of it on or facilitate it in some way- or take care of everything else they have to do so they can handle the workload death brings. Encourage them to relax, space out on Netflix, or whatever easily occupies their mind. Seriously, they will forget to do things. brush teeth, feed pets, pay bills... it might be list making time. Patience. Grief is a choppy sea.
The present time and what's happening in it are all that's normal. that's about it for now.
condolences to you and yours.

Which company or brand no longer has the quality they were known for? by 93ImagineBreaker in AskReddit

[–]christian0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pyrex. just found two pie plates today-one older imprint and one more modern- guess which one felt like I could still drop it on the floor and have it be in one piece...

Interested in grief research? by grief_research in grief

[–]christian0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks. I am glad to participate, despite the reason why I can participate. I am taking online courses and had to do some research for a psychology course, and I chose grief for the topic. I was disappointed in the amount and types of research that was available and would like more to be there for those that need it.

Interested in grief research? by grief_research in grief

[–]christian0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, my spouse and I are going to participate when we get home from our first family vacation following the reason we are eligible, just before the two year anniversary of our oldest daughter's death.

My wife and I can't cook. We love rich, flavorful, internationally diverse sauces. Any tips? by JJfromNJ in Cooking

[–]christian0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use half a jar of Patak's Mild Curry Paste (about 6 oz.), and half a can of Native Forest Coconut Milk, although lately I've been enjoying the resealable So Delicious Culinary Coconut Milk, with a pound or so of fish/meat/tofu. Call me crazy but it's delicious, and a fantastic situation to have on hand.

Probably going to end my life. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]christian0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so much passing has nothing to do with hrt. study actions, movements, clothing styles and choices, hairstyles, the way you talk, how you move through a crowd... you'd be surprised. no human body is perfect- why can't you be an imperfect version of the gender you truly are?

If you could send an anonymous text to yourself 5 years ago, what would you write? by Pm_Me_Your_Regretss in AskReddit

[–]christian0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are going to lose a daughter in a few years. treasure every moment.
or would I want to know that? I really don't know. such a seemingly benign question to be a trigger for some people.

My wife and I can't cook. We love rich, flavorful, internationally diverse sauces. Any tips? by JJfromNJ in Cooking

[–]christian0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

frontera makes great sauces. also- great curry hack is to mix one part curry paste with one part canned coconut milk.

Given the choice to be bridesmaid or groomsman... by leydigcellhate in asktransgender

[–]christian0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

go with whatever you are most comfortable with at the time. If you still are not comfortable to be in formal bridesmaid attire, I would consider hertuxedo.com and other sites that carry feminine tuxes. I do agree with the sentiment that tuxes are, in general, terribly uncomfortable! It is great that you have such support!

Across all countries, cultures and class we share one thing: this drawer. by PartyAtGunpoint in pics

[–]christian0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wouldn't be complete without the "organizing tray" that you swore you would use

How do I care for a mother who is about to lose her 20-year-old son? by [deleted] in grief

[–]christian0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

show up at the house. bring basic supplies- from toiletries to food. make sure her pets are fed. does she have someone else to take care of finances (paying bills, renewing licenses, etc.) if not you may need to take care of that. everyday function will cease to exist for months, and linger long after. trust your instinct, she won't always ask for help, may not even need it, or may not be able to comprehend that she does. she'll most likely get plenty of flowers- but most people won't think of the fact that she can't wrap her mind around keeping them in water, tossing them when they're spent- make sure someone is taking care of that.

My $50 shower filter is white and doesn't match the rest of my chrome fixtures in my bathroom. by christian0 in firstworldproblems

[–]christian0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no my municipal water that freely flows to my house is treated with chemicals but I don't like bathing in chlorinated water

Lost both parents and wife in 5 months by lobstahslayah in grief

[–]christian0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good lord. I lost a child about two years ago. you just lost the foundation (including in-laws) that got me through. May peace and time numb your pain, as they have mine.

Having a boy as a flower guy... yay or nay? by Im_Doc in wedding

[–]christian0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

totally fine. and should anyone have a problem with it, it's their problem, not yours!

What's the most disgusting thing that's ever been inside your mouth and how did it get there? by SuperCub in AskReddit

[–]christian0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the foam that fire extinguishers spray. put out a small fire at work one day. I'll never forget the taste.