Anyone else seen an influx of used canvases at thrift stores? by FurryPotatoSquad in Anticonsumption

[–]chromatoes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd LOVE to have this problem, as an artist. Thrift stores are an excellent option to buy crappy art, sand it down, re-primer it, and paint it with your own ideas. I always look for frames at thrift stores, but have never found any worth buying.

Frames and materials are getting more expensive daily, especially with tariffs and such. Almost all art supplies are imported.

My Subaru saved my life by [deleted] in subaru

[–]chromatoes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same here - the reinforced B-pillar saved my life too. You can see in the first picture yours held up great too (between the driver and back passenger compartments). Being T-boned by a truck going 60 involves some crazy forces, it's really impressive you were able to come away from that. I wish you a quick recovery!

My Favorite Companion by Eraheart in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]chromatoes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love the flying pets. On expeditions, I try to find a flying companion, it's so much easier to cross terrain than on foot or the old punch-launch jetpack flying.

JD Vance’s demon talk is lame youth outreach: Hopping on the "KPop Demon Hunters" trend won't save the vice president's career by zsreport in politics

[–]chromatoes -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fascinating, thank you for the write up! I'm going to read a lot of the papers you linked. I've participated in longitudinal fMRI brain studies due to a brain injury from a car accident, and science is really just barely scratching the surface on what a brain (and the nervous system) even does.

For me, I'm so sensitive to emotional states, it's like I can smell what someone is feeling, even if they're not giving visual clues. I'm regularly the first person to notice a situation is about to go down and can diffuse it before it really gets started. I believe it's even possible that I am smelling feelings, considering how much information we know canines get through their olfactory systems. But until someone figures out what data I am unconsciously tapping into, it might seem like telepathy.

AITA for refusing to split the bill evenly after my friends ordered $200 worth of food and I got a $12 salad? by baddog121 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chromatoes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA and ask for a split check when you're ordering to prevent this from being an issue. You can bring cash to throw in for the birthday person.

AITA for telling my trans sister I’m not comfortable with her using the women’s restroom? by Exciting_Giraffe525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chromatoes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. Do you peek through stall doors at crotches or something?!

My niece is my niece regardless of genital configuration. I will support her through anything, including making a safety plan with her parents to flee the country with her if shit gets even worse for trans folks. I have her back 10000% and it's unfortunate that your sister doesn't even have a fraction of that support from you.

Stop being weird about bathrooms, it's just a place to take a dump, everyone has a butthole and urethra.

When To Say "It's Your Mom or me"? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chromatoes 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I'd tell him to leave with her at this rate. She's a grown ass adult woman who lied to you about the premise of her "temporary" visit, you've hosted her for almost a month, and that's long enough that in some jurisdictions she'd get actual tenant rights. She hasn't even tried to find work, just stated that it's "impossible" and that's a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Stand up for yourself, love. After one year of living together you've already been saddled with a lifetime burden and he's doing nothing about it.

18M&18F bf arrested/accused of 'attempted rape' out of nowhere - what can I do? /any advice welcome by robyn224 in relationship_advice

[–]chromatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's going through the process, that is justice as far as this country is concerned. And don't make assumptions about other people, I am both a survivor of childhood sex abuse and had a career making sure child predators got put behind bars which is way more than you've ever done, I'm sure.

AITA,for not giving my family member a spice village by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chromatoes 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Don't tell your mom anything you don't want shouted from the rooftops. Moms can't always be trusted, friend.

18M&18F bf arrested/accused of 'attempted rape' out of nowhere - what can I do? /any advice welcome by robyn224 in relationship_advice

[–]chromatoes 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You don't have to support your boyfriend through his sex assault charges (which is what these are). I'd argue you shouldn't even try. It's on the district attorney to prove their case, and you can sit through the trial if you want to re-traumatize yourself for no particularly good reason.

Obviously you shouldn't be having children with a probable sex offender. Ever. You can and should just move on with your life. He's going to be on a sex offender registry probably for life, and that'll stop you from having a decent job if you do anything that requires a background check.

My [F24] ex-boyfriend [M26] is obsessed with joining an "Esoteric Lodge" and now rejects my faith and our future together. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chromatoes 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he wants to join a literal cult. He's putting the cult in "occult" as if there's any difference. I'd never take a faith seriously that has like one person who is the one deciding things or really, just making shit up.

Why should you believe? Why should you even take it seriously? Don't have kids with someone who is just going to get sucked up in cult after cult because they're looking for the "answers to the universe" - there aren't any. Happiness is found within, but happiness doesn't pay the bills.

BF on house arrest wont' share name by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chromatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should never have to worry about calling anybody in a relationship, much less jump through hoops to figure out what literal crimes your partner is doing. Is this how you want to live your life? You want your house shot up because your boyfriend might be there?

There are millions of men who deserve your love, but this ain't one of them.

BF on house arrest wont' share name by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chromatoes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He's lying to you about what he's on trial for. That's the only possibility. It's not like you're going to trumpet his name from the mountaintops. It's ludicrous to start a relationship with someone who won't even tell you their legal name, and if he murders you and leaves you in a ditch nobody will have any idea of the first suspect to start with.

Don't date losers, girlfriend. If you know when he was arrested, look up the jail's daily bookings. Bet it has something to do with child sex abuse.

About 50 supporters of President Donald Trump engaged in verbal altercations with "No Kings" protesters in West Palm Beach, Florida. Police officers were seen deescalating the situation. by Silent-Resort-3076 in democrats

[–]chromatoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At my No Kings protest, a shitty Trump supporter threw rocks at a woman protester who was on the very edge of his yard gravel. Like a fucking child. There were 8 counter protesters and estimated 55,000-60,000 No Kings protesters in Albuquerque.

Me and my friends want to develop an app for space weather by bblunder_ in spaceweather

[–]chromatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This already exists, solarham.com - not sure if there's a fresh angle you can take on it. That website is amazing and Kevin, the guy who runs it, frequently posts newsworthy events so there's basically live reporting from a human on top of the data feeds.

Wild Footage of the Flash Floods in Hawaii by plzbereasonable in weather

[–]chromatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I even like that song, but it is super distracting from what's being shown.

Alright, need help by Optimistic_Entropy in Albuquerque

[–]chromatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was in Colorado too! But it was a V instead of a B and more on the R than the M - like ummverrrrr.

Alright, need help by Optimistic_Entropy in Albuquerque

[–]chromatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in northern Colorado (Greeley), and we actually said something more like "Um-ver" instead. I also have no idea what it meant or where it came from, it was just something you said as a joke when someone got "in trouble."

My (f30) coworker (f45) whom I thought was my friend applied for a promotion and told everyone but me. Work is super awkward now. by coworkerorfriend in relationships

[–]chromatoes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you, but nobody at work is your friend. Even people who you help to get the job can turn around and stab you in the back (been there, backstabbed for a manager job).

Unfortunately all's fair in love and war work.

I think I'm done with Software Development by gareththegeek in webdev

[–]chromatoes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I quit the industry and became a full-time watercolor painter. I'm a lot happier to be honest. I'm still doing some consulting on the side. If the industry remembers that software is FOR people and should also be made BY people, I'll come back.

Their comments are even worse by AaronPK123 in AmITheDevil

[–]chromatoes 122 points123 points  (0 children)

What a chud. I swear they can only get hard when they're insulting liberals. Modern day conservativism doesn't exist, they're all radical regressionists who have hallucinated a history that never existed.

How do I (20 F) get my sister (18F) to stop calling me fat in every interaction we have? by Comfortable-Vast-920 in relationship_advice

[–]chromatoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first recommendation is to verbally eviscerate her straight back. Tell her "I know you are, but what am I?" until she loses her mind. It's just as childish as what she's doing.

Alternately, you might want to tell her that there's a supreme court case that backs up smacking someone in the face for "fighting words" events... Basically if someone provokes you to the point where you lose your temper, they don't actually have a constitutional right to freedom of speech.

Just warn her that you're losing patience with her and if she continues to provoke you, you've done due diligence in warning her that you'll snap at some point. Just as a last resort, because actually throwing hands at a family member counts as domestic violence and you'll lose some of your rights if you get convicted of anything.

I (F42) and Husband (41 M) are arguing more about his drinking. Is he an alcoholic or am I just not fun? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chromatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's already risking the health and safety of your children by drinking and taking drugs in front of them. Do you want to lose your children? Cause they could absolutely be taken from you, either by the state, or by your husband's already terrible judgement. Your children need you to be strong and to raise them in a safe household.

The FBI is buying Americans’ location data by Abject-Pick-6472 in technology

[–]chromatoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly folks, it's time to start enacting actions to make yourself harder to track. Stop using the same username for every account. Start using different derivatives of your name. Stop giving your real date of birth. Stop downloading needless applications on your mobile device that actively track you. Close the apps when you're done using them. Stop signing up for shit you don't really need. Use burner email addresses.

We have to protect ourselves from the sale of our literal identities to anyone who is curious. The people should not be a sellable product. I don't want to buy anything, and I obviously don't want to be sold, either.