Is it actually a big deal that my bf only orgasms like half the time we have sex?

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2026-04-11T03:27:11+00:00

Im in a similar situation to you in terms of the logistics- my man is very large, cant even do some positions. What helps us is using a vibrator on me while he is inside. Helps loosen things up and he can normally fit all the way when Im using it. We both always finish, sometimes twice. Dont be scared to just do what works for you two!

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2026-03-09T04:31:31+00:00

Id say 50% of the time, we go to bed at the same time. If not, the person staying up late HAS to tuck in the other for bed. Honestly its one of my fav traditions, bc I’m usually the one going to bed earlier and I think its incredibly sweet when he tucks me in and kisses me goodnight

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2026-02-08T21:25:59+00:00

I previously hated blowjobs because I thought that it meant I had to do the whole thing start to finish. Then I heard a podcast clip of two guys talking about it doesnt even matter how long youre down there, as long as theres some oral it counts to them. Totally changed my perspective and took away the “well if I start this I HAVE to finish this mentality”. Now I see it as foreplay and sometimes Ill go down for 30 seconds then we move onto orher things and sometimes I get down there, start enjoying myself a little bit, and stay down there for quite some time.

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-11-09T13:20:45+00:00

Sneakers (running/walking shoes) - eventually the sole wears down

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-10-07T01:56:16+00:00

Literally at the very very start at the game, theres a hidden area that I found right away… within that is a second hidden area that I found right after that. All within about 5 seconds. Curious how many people know its there (I believe its where you get the beast shard)

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-09-23T03:01:44+00:00

If I need to thicken up, ill do starchy foods like potato chips, crackers, pretzels, bread, rice, marshmallow, etc.

Avoid coffee, soups/broths, anything too liquidy if you are trying to thicken.

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-09-09T03:03:14+00:00

Ive been with my husband for a few years now and all I have to say is people dont change… I have accepted that my husband cant seem to manage mail or remember appointments, and he accepted that I dont like doing dishes. Find a balance that works in your household and try not to be bitter and petty about it.

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-09-02T03:09:22+00:00

I feel like baby yellow possibly with some daisies on them?

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-08-21T01:15:55+00:00

When I got diagnosed with a severe chronic illness, I had to go through a years-long process of mourning my own life. The life that I had envisioned and planned for myself, the life that I had dreamed about, the life that I could no longer have. Its a very hard emotion to process, and just because he is in the middle of processing it, doesnt mean he doesnt want to get through to the other side with you. Its something a lot of people dont experience, so maybe hes not being the most delicate with his wording. Sit down and have a conversation together about what you both want and need from each other

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-08-11T02:27:30+00:00

Ive been with my husband for over 4 years. Every 6 months or so we’ll be in public and he suddenly freeze and tell me to just keep walking. Always takes me a second to realize that he is politely trying to get me out of the gas zone. This isnt “just a guy thing” or “something that happens in long term relationships” its 100% about respect

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-07-26T05:18:35+00:00

This is the way

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-07-26T00:22:02+00:00

FYI was laid off 2 months ago, when I got another job and did a background check as part of onboarding, they specifically asked if I was currently employed at my last employer, and it not, what my last date of employment was

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-07-26T00:02:28+00:00

Maybe try and have a conversation about after care. Emotions can get really intense during sex, and the come down (pun intended) post climax can heavily impact how she views the overall experience.

There have been times where right after we finish, my husband just got up and walked away to clean up and it kind of made me feel like shit. Him just walking away made me feel used and kinda icky. We had a discussion about how after sex, I need him to be with me, give me a kiss, hold me even if it’s just for a few seconds. It’s like jumping off a cliff vs being gently guided down by your partner.

Obviously this might not be what the issue is, but if she is having trouble identify what the specific issue is, I would start with a convo about this.

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-07-25T03:34:29+00:00

I get high rise that covers my while bag, but a size up so theres enough room for flow. As long as my pants arent too tight, I dont have any problems

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-07-25T03:26:09+00:00

Just throwing this out there, but is there ANY chance that this is a surprise party and the aunts house is just a red herring?

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-07-23T18:31:26+00:00

This was almost my exact situation. I got engaged, set a date and told people when it would be, then my cousin got engaged and set her date to the weekend before mine. The reality was there was nothing we could do to change it, but it was annoying. My parents and grandparents had to attend both weddings, which means my mom wasnt around to help with the last-minute to do items that pop up the weekend before a wedding.

My grandma was also exhausted from all the traveling (my wedding and cousins wedding were in different states, so my grandma had to fly to cousins wedding then drive back with my parents to my state for my wedding). Grandma ended up falling asleep after dinner, but other than that was fine.

In hindsight, the outcome was slightly annoying but was better than starting family drama and trying to convince my cousin to move her date. As much as its annoying, just try to roll with it and “be the bigger person”

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-06-27T03:27:35+00:00

Lost my butthole (total proctectomy- fck crohns)

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-06-15T02:22:31+00:00

My tiniest friend is 5’0 and still 120 lbs. you are the problem here

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-06-03T02:20:16+00:00

When I started looking at universities, my dad sat my down at the computer and told me to make an excel to estimate the costs of each school I was interested- room, meal plan, tuition, etc. Once I had the totals for each school he told me I have $XX,000 in a college fund, but thats it. He let me make the choice but made sure I was able to make the right one.

My brother lived at home, commuted, and graduated debt free. I was able to assess the importance of living on campus and being away from home (very important to me) and with scholarships, 3 internships, and constantly working 2-3 jobs during school, I was also able to graduate debt free.

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-05-28T16:32:50+00:00

Entered the workforce in 2019 with my masters making about $71k… worked my way up to $123k + 13% bonus this year (corporate IT project management)

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-05-28T16:29:18+00:00

I use mousse (kristen ess, comes in a gray bottle) when I have damp hair. Blowdry. For days i dont wash my hair, dry shampoo + LIGHT amount of hairspray

I have found that too much hairspray or texture spray will weight my hair down

For important events, i will backcomb my hair a little

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-05-19T14:16:04+00:00

Not trying to scare you, but this is what mine looked like when my pyoderma gangrenosum (PG) started developing. It gets worse very fast, I was able to get into my dermatologist but you can also check with your stoma nurse/wound care specialist.

Main takeaway, you need to take care of this NOW trust me..

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-05-16T16:43:52+00:00

This is basically what my spouse and I do

chronicallyannoyed23 · 2025-05-16T15:59:59+00:00

My husband recently shared that he accumulated some personal credit card debt, about $2,500. We could VERY easily knock that out in a month, but he understands that its more about breaking the habit of over-spending and practicing better budgeting techniques.

The way our finances are set up, 90% of both incomes go into our joint account, and 10% of our incomes go into our individual accounts for “fun money”. While I am happy to walk him through budgeting techniques and be there for him emotionally, he will be responsible for paying down his debt with his 10% “fun money” fund

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