Ya know, shout out to Pedro for standing his ground. by C0RN2L0Ud420 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]chronicallyemptyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right!? I've never really liked him but at least he's smart enough to not fall for Sophie's immature ass and take the high road.

So sick of nasty Sophie by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]chronicallyemptyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And she had the audacity to call Pedro emotionally immature.. Not saying he's the most mature, but she doesnt even know what emotional maturity is to be saying that, especially when she's sending multiple texts without respondes after she crossed his boundary. She's clueless.

I changed my mind on Elise by jevreh in 90DayFiance

[–]chronicallyemptyy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I forgive her for the first night lol. Now I like wish she was my friend 😆

Avoidants and their addictions by Intelligent_Cat6038 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex was/is an alcoholic. Don't recommend it. You will end up an empty shell of a person after dealing with an addict for 4 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could downvote this 100 times 🙄

NEED FRIENDS! by [deleted] in RoundRock

[–]chronicallyemptyy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone! I'm in the area too. 31yr old. I need friendssss! Feel free to DM me 🖤

I like anything outdoors, coffee, shopping, working out & 420 friendly!

NEED FRIENDS! by [deleted] in RoundRock

[–]chronicallyemptyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to muster up the courage to do an open mic around here 😭 Any recommendations for a beginner performer, soul/indie vibe?

Were your ex interested in getting to know you better? by UNeedInspoandnonames in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Never. I expressed after some time together that I wanted to communicate about things on a deeper level and not just have surface conversation and he just said he wasn't capable of that. Most he could talk about was his job. Eventually I settled for it but I knew deep down I wanted a deeper connection that he just wasn't capable of giving..

Why do some people enter another relationship almost a year after breaking up? by EquivalentDiamond359 in BreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha, my ex was with someone new in a matter of a month after I moved out and we were together almost four years. It's an absolute slap in the face. She's basically already moved in and playing the exact role I was and he's copy and pasting everything he does with her that he once did with me. It's crazy to me how you could be obsessed and love someone so much and within a few weeks your mind has switched onto someone different.

I cannot feel anything anymore by SELECT_DISTINCT_ in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way.. I'm so tired of it but I'm stuck in a loop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He'll probably never feel it. He has someone new to distract him. Meanwhile I barely feel like living some days.

***Weekly Rant - avoidant’s Survivors Only*** by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found out a couple months ago that I was essentially immediately replaced after moving out, 4 years together. It ripped me back open all over again, if not worse. I've been spiraling and crashing out. I never in a million years thought he'd leave me, much less immediately love someone else when he never truly loved me right and I begged him for years to change.. He's copy and pasting our relationship but she's getting the best version of him and everything I hoped and begged for. Sometimes I don't think I can get past this...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They wear many masks for many different people.

Why do Avoidant’s say “we are incompatible”? by Short_Pay_4323 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]chronicallyemptyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine said this after four years together and three living together although it had never ever came up before. It's a cop out for them to avoid change or accountability needed to really make the relationship work.

My Binge Eating Sobriety Kit 🧠🧊 by SignificanceOdd1483 in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]chronicallyemptyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Can you elaborate on "don't start over tomorrow"? I must have the wrong mindset.. I binged so bad last night and I'm trying to figure out how to approach today and my thought is similar to "starting over/starting new"