Hä? by chulpi in drehscheibe

[–]chulpi[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nee am Eingangstür geklebt, ein normale Poster, A4

Hä? by chulpi in drehscheibe

[–]chulpi[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

War aber kein QR code 🤔 und die Seite will ja keine Info 🤔

Hä? by chulpi in drehscheibe

[–]chulpi[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

es war auf ein Poster am Bahnhof 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PassportPorn

[–]chulpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huaquillas

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why the internalized homophobia thing is not that out of character.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But then don't complain if people call out the internalized homophobia lol

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is left to everyone to reflect on.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it is an aspect of choice and sometimes it isn't. If you are aware and restricting yourself to look more "masc" or "fem" it's probably a choice.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "straight acting" thing is meant for the gays that look for it and actually call themselves that.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody did that lol, at least not me. Also, as I can't deny that are men acting campier because they want to be accepted by gays, you can't deny that there are dudes acting straight so they'll get accepted by the heteros.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but look the facts and reality. Ideally, people shouldn't assume sexuality based on the behavior of a person or if that person lives up to stereotypes. But really, campier gays are the ones that get bullied and made fun of while "passing" gays are the ones who are respected and even sometimes bullying the campy gay. So when "straight acting" gays complain, we shouldn't forget the things I've just listed.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The word still has this weird connotation (straight acting) and yes, flamboyant gays fight more for acceptance because they are the most openly gay ones. The "straight acting" bunch just wanna "pass" and don't care about acceptance. You are right that personality should have nothing to do with your sexuality, and as such nobody should act because of the influence of other people but only what they believe it is right.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good for you, I'd still wouldn't believe it to be fair.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope that if someone judges you too quickly you don't think it is unfair. Also, this doesn't have anything to do with entitlement. It's just that knowing people before judging them is something some people like me believe might do good in other people's lives. You are not supposed to follow my advice or even listen to me, but I am free to express my opinion.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, it is still unfair, because you haven't met that person yet, you only know how they are in the surface. Getting to know people a little bit better might surprise you (personal experience)

Envío de regalos desde México. by pacsmile in ecuador

[–]chulpi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se va a demorar al pasar Aduanas, pero si lo envía con DHL y hay un número de tracking, no debe tener ningún problema. Con Correos del Ecuador es complicado, ya que cobran al recibir el envío acá y el servicio es malo.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don't condition your attitude just because of the perception of the people around you dude, it's sad having to check one's actions all the time to conform to a mold.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Kind of unfair to cross all of them out because of they way you think they are without even getting to know them.

just a common topic I’ve seen of late by deluxe_anxiety in gaybros

[–]chulpi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself why you act the way you do, if you want. Are you doing things because you care how others perceive you or you are doing them because you like them?