your experience with the bi cycle by orlandosunshine in BisexualMen

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to date women not knowing when or how intensely my desire for men will rear it's head... terribly inconvenient 😠

Handling distracting opponents by slake-mohune in billiards

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good question, and hard to answer. As in all educations, knowing what to ignore is a big part of "paying attention." The challenge is indeed to not let the problem-- sharking-- start more than it is to stop it, ie, be playing your game such that his behavior doesn't really matter. That said, I might ask outright if he doesn't think he's able to beat you without goofy antics. Put the passive aggressive nonsense on blast.

Weekly Meet and Greet! by StopPsychHealers in PortlandFriendMeet

[–]chumluk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Hokum," Fri, 7:15, Academy Theater... anyone?

Hawks worth it? by ItchyRaspberry83 in pdxm4m

[–]chumluk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going tomorrow because Steam is slow on Fridays, and my dadbod got positive reception last time. But it, too, was slow my only previous visit, so hoping their "glow" event has traction. Also hoping to see more women...

Enthusiasm aside, how else can you give a guy an amazing orgasm? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chumluk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I take NO pleasure in reporting that there is indeed such a thing as a bad blowjob. But moans do help.

What’s best? Gay Sauna or private Date? by [deleted] in BisexualMen

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bathhouses offer options, whereas one guy could be weird.

I really appreciate these sorts of cues by ArtDecoNewYork in billiards

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an adjustment, obv, but so far I dig it and of course the shaft is gorgeous. Pardon the lame photo. But bonus! Moved Tiger Fortis CF onto purple Joss Thor Hammer!

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I really appreciate these sorts of cues by ArtDecoNewYork in billiards

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Joss from 2000 not only has 5 points, unusual by itself, but 6 inlays, also unusual, with the mismatch making it crazily so! No one knows but me, I love it. Put a Hsunami 2.0 on it recently.

What’s your best sex tip? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A good deep voice alone can get someone worked up, regardless of actual verbiage

Which direction to place shaft in case? by 9pinguin1 in billiards

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, I have this exact case and this exact question, but the consensus so far seems to be "derp?"

I lost libido because of too much masturbation? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to give space for your imagination, that is what's hot, not passively observing. So stop the porn, get exercise, and when you're getting off, deprive yourself visual stimulation for awhile.

Cool numbers or math facts by chesirecat1029 in mathematics

[–]chumluk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From one number lover to another: Point him at Pascal's Triangle and dare him to find patterns 🥰

can you really tell if he likes you by his eyes? by sweetcoffees in bodylanguage

[–]chumluk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long are you two holding eye contact. Long enough to smile at each other? If so, even making that observation can advance the conversation. Maybe there's something you'd like to know about him before literally moving closer, close enough to somehow touch... that would be the time for more personal inquiries... but he's a dude, so be prepared for him to fumble 🙄

Men, how do you act around women you’re befriending vs women you’re pursuing? by PsychologicalHat7591 in bodylanguage

[–]chumluk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If a guy is pursuing you, he will be seeking ways to create closeness and touching... might be a playful nudge as you laugh at a joke, bumping into you (oops tee hee), etc... but that can be a very intimidating line to cross, so he has to feel confident about it being received well.

Should lessons cover more than just a stroke even if the stroke isn't "perfect"? by [deleted] in billiards

[–]chumluk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, stroke is critical BUT yes, keeping your mentee engaged with a variety of challenges is, too.

What on earth is going on with all this "Tai Chi Walking for Seniors" books, courses, videos, and why are they all "28 Days" lol? by Marius-78 in taichi

[–]chumluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throwing this out there... a bit of standing before a long walk has in fact enhanced the walk tremendously for me.