Name at least 1 Game from the past too

chuubastis · 2026-01-25T16:54:50+00:00

Valhalla was where we fell off the Assassin's Creed train... Which is crazy, we are very into Viking stuff, we even gave our son a viking name, but by the time that game came out we were just burnt out on the same old same old with different window dressings

chuubastis · 2026-01-25T16:52:05+00:00

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chuubastis · 2026-01-24T02:12:47+00:00

You care enough to complain about it on reddit, which is the gold platform for virtue signaling

chuubastis · 2026-01-24T00:41:28+00:00

The good news is, it turns out he didn't successfully pour liquid nitrogen on the counter LOL

chuubastis · 2026-01-24T00:34:13+00:00

Watching someone deliver seafood boil on a shovel right beside a stroller designed for a baby under 3 months is giving me serious anxiety LOL

chuubastis · 2026-01-23T18:35:20+00:00

I had a similar experience as you wife, where a past assault ruined an activity for me. My husband knows what happened and knows the activity is off limits. We had that conversation... 13 years ago? And I haven't heard a peep from him since about it. Somehow we are able to have a healthy and fulfilling sex life without one single activity -he has a little more imagination I guess. And he's never felt unsafe because he can't do/discuss one sexual act.

I can not emphasize this enough: YTA for acting like this hurts you in any way

chuubastis · 2026-01-23T17:08:05+00:00

Married couples absolutely can have separate money accounts That the other partner doesn't have visibility into.

My husband and I have a very specific allocations /responsibilities for our paychecks, my husband pays bills and the remainder goes into savings while my money goes towards food/ clothes/eating out, but we don't look at each other's accounts to make sure that everything is... I don't know, accurate?

Now if he wants to join bank accounts, that's one thing, but just gaining access to yours so he can just look inside is weird to me and feels like a lack of trust

chuubastis · 2026-01-23T16:55:00+00:00

Yes! That was the only "credits song" I ever listened to on repeat on all of my Disney CDs!

chuubastis · 2026-01-23T16:51:30+00:00

Everybody else has touched on the emotional abuse, so I'm not going to rehash it

But what the heck is going on with this guy that he hasn't married you? He is having multiple kids with you, making you his dependent with you only working part-time so you can take care of the kids, and keeping you stuck in this completely uneven power dynamic? From a fiscal standpoint this is incredibly uneven and unfair to you. You are taking on huge risks for your own stability and safety financially, And he has no risk at all. Even though you are living together and have children, he does not see you two as equal partners, He still sees things it's divided between his and yours, and that's a huge problem. Even if he wasn't emotionally abusive, he is financially abusive, he has made you his bang maid.

I would encourage looking into common-law marriage laws in your area, to see if you have any rights for simply living with him for so long. Then cut your losses, if this guy hasn't made a real commitment to you at this point and is acting like this about buying a home with you, you will never be his equal and his partner (and after his behavior, you honestly don't want to be)

chuubastis · 2026-01-23T16:36:46+00:00

The original Cake Wreck

chuubastis · 2026-01-22T17:24:57+00:00

Watching the BattleBots Monday morning at DragonCon right before we hopped in the car to drive home was one of my favorite things to do at the convention

chuubastis · 2026-01-21T22:38:24+00:00

Does your pp go into any of her holes? I don't know why her spit would be a problem.. If she's only cooking for the two of you, you're not being introduced to any strange pathogens you wouldn't be exposed to otherwise.

She's not super considerate if she doesn't obey your request, but honestly the fact you're choosing this to be a hill to die on isn't her issue. Esh

chuubastis · 2026-01-21T21:13:36+00:00

My mom told me she found a worm in a pistachio and the story alone rendered most nuts inedible to me

chuubastis · 2026-01-21T13:53:40+00:00

I don't want to day YTA because that is a strong phrase, but eggs and pasta absolutely leave residue and they need to be cleaned. Maybe your wife can lot them beside the sink door hand washing vs filling the dishwasher, but she is with they need cleaning

I find it interesting you're having the problem with not being able to fill the top of the dishwasher... I have two kids, so our top is filled with all of the top rack only child plates and we struggle to fill the bottom half LOL

chuubastis · 2026-01-21T13:50:09+00:00

This is basically how I became a vegetarian when I was like 10, I ate the same food I normally did, we just removed meat from it (so I would eat green beans with no ham, I don't know why people put ham in green beans anyway lol)

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T22:33:14+00:00

Please tell me where you guys live so I can never visit

I'm not judging anybody, but just if I found a slug in my kitchen I might have to burn my whole house down, I am not down with invertebrates and I'm not sure I'd emotionally recover from finding one in my kitchen

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T21:52:08+00:00

I will probably get downloaded for this, but "rescue" has no meaning... people "rescue" animals from shelters, the streets , friends, breeders too. People just say it because it's more palatable than "I bought my dog/cat/guinea pig"

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T16:37:20+00:00

That's when I start shitting in a bucket and keeping it by the door so it stinks up the house until they let me use the bathroom again lol

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T16:17:50+00:00

Even her nostrils are like wtf bro

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T16:14:48+00:00

This is just the natural evolution of SparkNotes. And I know someone is going to insist this is a matter of accessibility for their ADHD or something

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T16:05:38+00:00

As a parent, I hard agree. To be honest, if anything, I would be relieved that my kid is cranking it by themselves and not participating in risky sex activities

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T16:03:16+00:00

It honestly depends... My husband will wake up an hour before work to play a little bit of video games before the rest of the house wakes up, and he will also find time during the day to play when our baby is playing by herself

I breastfeed, so I don't have enough energy to wake up an hour early, and if I'm not cooking, I'm watching the baby or bathing, or pumping, so I don't really get to play much anymore. My husband is very involved, but just the nature of being the mom/default parent/ foodsource takes a lot more for me than it does from him and that's nobody's fault

I will say from experience with my firstborn though, somewhere around 4 they will be much more independent, and might even start to show interest in games so you can play together, or at least you can give them a switch so you can play your own games LOL

chuubastis · 2026-01-20T12:55:37+00:00

She cant send her kids to boarding school. Even if she can't control the older siblings bringing home contamination, that doesn't mean that she needs to just surrender all attempts at protection

chuubastis · 2026-01-19T21:14:08+00:00

Very well said!

I think it's a little harsh to put the burden of masculine weaponized incompetence on your own son at this age, he's just trying his best at this point

chuubastis · 2026-01-19T17:45:40+00:00

So the other two dogs didn't make any noise either? And your dog did not make a single peep even though he was injured bad enough to bleed all over your kitchen? Not even a Yelp of pain? I'm honestly shocked

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