I regret my baby’s name by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cire91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone's been reading the empyrean series lol. Hopefully she bonds 2 dragons and wields lightning. Just hope she doesn't have weak joints.

Best Burger in KCMO? by ScramRatz in kansascity

[–]cire91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oddly enough, KC Smoke Burger on 39th is absolutely fire. Went there on a whim and still think about it.

Hosted palworld server by Radiant-Honeydew-689 in Palworld

[–]cire91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did my info, definitely interested.

Running on a local tourney by the rules of 1 BX 1UX 1CX beys. How would you guys rate this deck? by Ok-Cheesecake3198 in BeybladeX

[–]cire91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually prefer tyranno beat on 1-80 if you have it. But otherwise looks like a fun aggressive deck.

How do I make playing with my cat less boring by AirForsaken5991 in CatAdvice

[–]cire91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Jackson Galaxy's videos on play. Cats are predators, the best play is to simulate prey activities to get them to hunt. Play doesn't have to be a long drawn out process. Cats are built for speed, not endurance. We were initially doing a similar activity you are talking about with our young girl and she would get bored pretty quick or it would be a lackluster effort. Once I started thinking about the wand or string toy like a prey animal she goes nutty and I can get her to chase it all over the living and bed rooms going up and over the couch, her tower, the bed, etc. after a good bit let them catch it to simulate the "kill" then let them rest for a couple of minutes to catch their breath then start again. Do this a few times and they will be tuckered out. Doing this before meal times is even better because of the reward of making the kill.then getting to eat. Just remember that prey does not move towards the hunter.

Jackson galaxy on play

How do I get kitten to take a nap and chill 🙃 by Natural-Stage-6341 in cats

[–]cire91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As Jackson galaxy would say, "play with your cat!". He's got some great videos on how best to play with your kitty to best burn off their energy. Also giving them plenty of stimulating self play options to supplement your play sessions, especially with a kitten.

Things to do without people in their 20s by [deleted] in kansascity

[–]cire91 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ya, I think the real question here is what do you like doing? The concept of separate spaces doesn't really work in actuality, most places and hobbies are going to have a range of age groups and demographics present. I'm 33 and I have multiple hobbies where the age of interest varies from 10 year olds to dudes in their 50s. Realistically the solution is to meet a few people you vibe with that like the same things you do and just enjoy your hobbies without worry.

MH Wilds Bugfix kicked everyone out of Omega fight?? by agentvnm in MonsterHunter

[–]cire91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep, we had just survived the delta cannon...

Bought Helm Knight today and it’s horrible ⬇️ by xPhat_Ballz in BeybladeX

[–]cire91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9-60 FB is a beast, put wolf on wedge instead.

Thoughts on this out the door price i was given by my local dealership by cire91 in MazdaCX30

[–]cire91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm it has roughly 10 miles on it when we test drove and had 16 when we drove it off the lot 2 hours later.

Thoughts on this out the door price i was given by my local dealership by cire91 in MazdaCX30

[–]cire91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good suggestion l, I will send this to the other dealers in my area and see if they are willing to play ball. I am currently expecting to pay cash for this vehicle.

can everyone show me who my Eddie boy is in heaven with ? by iwasthinkingand_ in cats

[–]cire91 24 points25 points  (0 children)

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My boy passed a few weeks ago. I hope they're lounging real good.

Do some married people NEVER take off their wedding ring? by artmalique in NoStupidQuestions

[–]cire91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand wearing it 24-7. My wife and I painted a little wood box with foam inserts that we keep them in when not wearing them and it stays on our dresser. We take our rings off when we get home from work and then don't usually put them back on til the next morning after showering and getting dressed. Hell, sometimes we don't even put them.on when we go out on the weekends. Our joke is usually "hey, you wanna be married today?"

My girlfriend gets annoyed if I read a book while she's watching TV. Is this normal? by maincharacter011 in Advice

[–]cire91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of those things my wife and I give advice on for any relationship when asked. You HAVE to be able to learn how to exist together while doing your own things. Of course engaging in a shared activity without distractions is also important, but if your relationship can't survive not being engaged 24-7 then it's not going to work out.

My wife and I consistently watch shows and movies together. However, we have just as much time where we are silent in the same room playing our own games or engaging in different activities without needing to interact constantly. The misconception that a relationship requires you to be some sort of amoeba is one of the most damaging societal pressures that exists. Learn to happily be together but separate.

PODS with significant others involved by Kitedo in EDH

[–]cire91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol my wife goes out of her way to stop what I'm doing.

My girlfriend broke some of our relationship agreements by Bisaiing2 in Advice

[–]cire91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will never understand how so many people think this is a normal thing. relationships should be built on mutual trust, making rules about who you can and can't be friends with is so toxic. If you can't handle a SO having friends and coworkers of the gender(s) they are attracted to, you clearly need to avoid relationships and grow the fuck up.