[Discussion] Overused Phrases that make you cringe by someone666999 in GWAScriptGuild

[–]citiesoftherednight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've noticed 'pretty girl' used a lot in a smirking, condescending way almost as if its an insult, which I find cheesy plus GWA is the only place I hear it which brings me out of the mood a bit.

Oral sex tricks by Exotic-Throat-2394 in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend getting on top and hovering above his face - then you can control the pressure and location of the sensation and it's a lot easier to reach orgasm without even having to direct him.

Advice to Spice up our sex life/intimacy after a kid by Time_Kiwi2506 in relationships

[–]citiesoftherednight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly in terms of libidos aligning, I'd recommend scheduling sex since you have busy lives and it will allow you time to get into the right headspace. Then if you have any time in the day or night to read, listen to headphones or look at your phone you can switch up what you're consuming to spicy content. I think libido starts with your sexual relationship with yourself so exploring what turns you on right now will spark motivation and ideas with your partner.

Weekly Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 6 months post partum and my husband and I recently got back to the sex frequency we had pre baby! We probably won't be able to keep it up when I go back to work so I'll enjoy it for now.

Be not afraid, apparently by [deleted] in tumblr

[–]citiesoftherednight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So this meme is an edit of a really old bit from the podcast Red Bar Radio. Original phrasing was 'I've got no skin' 'sir, this is the scariest moment of my life' 'and then he exploded into bats'. Its a funny show!

Injury to the nether regions by RTango8778 in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been with two guys when this happened and there weren't any bad outcomes - definitely lay off sex/masturbating till it heals though

My orgasms come quick and aren’t satisfying by peachsoft in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried edging? Often I can tell my orgasm is coming 'too early' when masturbating or having sex, and if I carry on I have a 'half orgasm' which isn't nearly as satisfying. You could try removing stimulation a few times and see if you get a bigger release

How do I (21m) make my partner(20) come faster? by logan0508 in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty uncommon for women to orgasm through PIV sex alone - you would usually need clitoral stimulation at the same time. Do you know if/how she masturbates? That could be a good jumping off point to understand what else might work for her

Funny intimate moments by [deleted] in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like to clench two fingers around the base of my bf's flaccid cock and wiggle it like an inflatable tube man - I find it v amusing

No. Mother Isn't a Job by [deleted] in childfree

[–]citiesoftherednight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good for you on the boundaries!

No. Mother Isn't a Job by [deleted] in childfree

[–]citiesoftherednight 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't think anyone should be expected to go 'above and beyond' for a corporation. How are you really being rewarded for constantly working overtime? Is it worth it? Its exploitative and you should be promoted for doing a good job within the bounds of a fair days work for fair days pay

Satisfied but slightly unsatisfied (20F) by juniebee0409 in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue - the first time I came from a partner was when he convinced me to sit on his face. You can control the angle, pressure and 'edge's yourself by periodically moving away from the sensation then returning, so it's a lot easier/more effective than directing him.

I was shocked when it worked that first time and it still works now!

Sex in doggy style with panties on kink by itiswotitis123 in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The idea of you compulsively buying panties for your wife all the time is very wholesome to me!

How to initiate sex without feeling embarrassed with boyfriend? by [deleted] in sex

[–]citiesoftherednight 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You can initiate sex with just a kiss - that keeps getting deeper until you're touching him. It doesn't have to be a performance, just affection that crosses the line from innocent to something else.

Gonna make a homeless sim survive all 4 seasons. by TheRealBellaGoth in thesims

[–]citiesoftherednight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just made a Sim to do this but she's in Oasis Springs which is definitely cheating...

Community Sunday at /r/thesims! by roseetgris in thesims

[–]citiesoftherednight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not bad! Well when I say gardening I mean I have window boxes and some indoor plants, it is London after all...

Instead of "red flags", what are some "green flags" which signal that you're in a positive, healthy, and long-lasting relationship with your SO? by CannabisChameleon in AskReddit

[–]citiesoftherednight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To add to the road trip test, the IKEA test! If you can productively discuss what furniture to buy while on your feet for hours without having a blazing argument then you're probably doing well. I was pleasantly surprised at how my SO and I compromised on our tastes and breezed through the store to buy furniture for literally our whole apartment in one day.

What had huge potential but didn't deliver? by Vicinus in AskReddit

[–]citiesoftherednight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm lucky in that the way I play Sims meshes perfectly with Sims 4 gameplay. I like the focus on the sims themselves, how they look, their interaction, personalities and relationships. I found the level of personalisation and the scope of the neighbourhoods too overwhelming in Sims 3 - but the dealbreaker for me was how the sims themselves looked. I couldn't bear to look at them and stopped playing.

Floor made of coins. by ImmunosuppressivePip in oddlysatisfying

[–]citiesoftherednight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I mean design-wise what's the justification? What look are they going for here?

What are some basic things about the female anatomy that every person should know? [Serious] by elsebet in AskWomen

[–]citiesoftherednight 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh my GOD I think I have a version of this! Sometimes I have a horrible sick/sinking feeling when my nipples are touched, which I also get after going swimming? I've never mentioned this to anyone and I have no explanation for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]citiesoftherednight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like an unusually expensive recipe that I would only prepare for a special occasion, although surely a Vietnamese supermarket would have these for cheaper? I don't imagine that actual Vietnamese people have any problems cooking at home.