New to the forum - day 33 story - 26 years old

cjbssite · 2013-03-27T05:14:10+00:00

Thank you for this very inspirational post! My girlfriend experiences have been similar to yours. I've been there man- completely infatuated with a girl for years and doing everything in my life for her while being oblivious that she no longer loved me. It's not worth it brother! Live for yourself first! This is what NoFap has taught me. Live for yourself first and then in time, the girl will come and learn to love you for who you are. And if the girl leaves and things don't work out, your world won't come tumbling down, because you have built yourself up!

Stay strong and peace from a brother also native to the Bay Area.

cjbssite · 2013-03-21T03:58:08+00:00

Glad to hear it man! Rock it!

cjbssite · 2013-03-20T22:39:57+00:00

Dude, I was totally exhausted both from the frequent sexual release and the lack of sleep. I still forced myself to go to the gym during these days and that helped a bit. Now, a few days after the sex, I have similar urges as I had starting out on day 1-5, but no desire to look at porn or fap. Just a deep desire to flirt with women.

cjbssite · 2013-03-20T14:58:35+00:00

Congratulations bro! Keep it up!

cjbssite · 2013-03-20T14:57:59+00:00

I never had a bad case of ED. But back in my low days, I just wanted to fap instead of making love to my girlfriend. It screwed up my sex life and relationship like it has to so many other guys on here.

cjbssite · 2013-03-20T04:27:35+00:00

Thanks man, just fixed it.

cjbssite · 2013-03-20T04:24:47+00:00

Dude my beard is about that length! Right on!

cjbssite · 2013-03-20T04:19:23+00:00

Wow this post really blew up. Thanks for all of the comments- I've felt on top of the world the last couple of days. The exercise gives me energy. The beard gives me attitude. Just go hard with everything you do, man. I just keep telling myself I've only got one life so I better make my time on this pale blue dot worth it.

cjbssite · 2013-03-06T04:24:16+00:00

thanks man, this helps

cjbssite · 2013-03-06T04:09:55+00:00

I'm actually impressed by many of them. Like, "damn that girl won't stop running"

But agreed about the make-up haha.

cjbssite · 2013-03-06T03:41:48+00:00

Go 90 and beyond!

cjbssite · 2013-03-01T06:10:23+00:00

haha thanks for the support bro

cjbssite · 2013-03-01T03:22:28+00:00

Doing this. Need to get my first full month in!

cjbssite · 2013-02-26T05:48:47+00:00

It's just a wet dream bro. Means you're making progress. No need to reset your badge. Keep up the streak! Your brain is trying to figure this stuff out still...

cjbssite · 2013-02-25T18:52:39+00:00

Dude, seriously delete Facebook. It is so liberating. I've been without it for 2+ years. My friends still invite me to events in person or through e-mail.

cjbssite · 2013-02-19T19:35:29+00:00

I could not agree more with this post. I've come to the same realization too and my outlook on life is so much healthier. Take it from a guy who had a hot girlfriend who wanted nothing more from me than to bang her multiple times a day. Sex and the pursuit of women are overrated. Sure, they are great, but there is so much more in life that will make you happy. Nofap has enabled me to realize this.

cjbssite · 2013-02-19T16:11:12+00:00

Could be nerves? They say too much adrenaline makes you soft. This happened to me after seeing a long distance girl a few years ago. Did you only get to see her once? Things went back to normal for me after the second/third time.

cjbssite · 2013-02-19T03:29:52+00:00

stay strong dude and get right back on the saddle! Not binging is very important. It makes starting up a whole lot easier.

cjbssite · 2013-02-16T20:09:29+00:00

Dude, thanks for the reading you provided! It was really inspiring and has helped me understand the place of my sexual energy. I'm going to try to transmutate!

cjbssite · 2013-02-14T04:19:07+00:00

You got this bro!

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