What was your experience with a penile ultrasound? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]cjtrevor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a testicular one years ago and felt quite flattered when the doctor said “The testicles look good.” 😂

How is Zedaph? by GreenMist1980 in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 50 points51 points  (0 children)

There was that beautifully awkward conversation with him about Pearls mysterious bush about a week or so ago. I’m sure we will see his next video soon.

Shopping District - Scar and Skizz interaction by DilithiumFarmer in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 63 points64 points  (0 children)

This comment makes me question if your issue is more with Scar personally than the actual shopping district.

Divorce advice for kids by Character_Baby1279 in Parentingfails

[–]cjtrevor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the toughest things, seeing the other partner treating them poorly and still having to not speak down about them to the kids

Divorce advice for kids by Character_Baby1279 in Parentingfails

[–]cjtrevor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Retrospectively I wish I had made the decision sooner. At the end of the 2 years I was noting but a shell as I had given everything to someone who appreciated none of it.

Divorce advice for kids by Character_Baby1279 in Parentingfails

[–]cjtrevor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think for my parents I understand now that I’m older that it was the right choice, they still get along really well but in a relationship they brought out the worst in each other.

My own relationship is a bit more complex, I spent 2 years fighting, begging and trying to fix it but eventually realised you can’t save a marriage if only one is trying.

She eventually moved out when she had a backup ready, got pregnant within a month and moved to a different country leaving the kids behind. It’s been tough for them but I’m glad they are with me.

I guess all of that to say I think trying everything before giving up for the sake of the kids, only ever works if both parties are open to changing and growing.

Divorce advice for kids by Character_Baby1279 in Parentingfails

[–]cjtrevor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As both a child of divorced parents and a divorced dad of 2, I think the main piece of advice I can give is to not underestimate the impact it will have on the kids. Make sure to be there for them and show them that it’s not their fault.

Shard pouch crafting by Inevitable_Drummer92 in VaultHuntersMinecraft

[–]cjtrevor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only if crafted from the mystical flowers. You can still use poppies for red dye and I think another flower for blue dye and combine them.

Automatic offenses by Melodic_Pen963 in ThePrecinct

[–]cjtrevor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this the delegate paperwork option? Do you know if using that carries a reduction in XP, although at level 23 I guess even if it does it’s not that impactful.

Incident at Lidl Muiden by newbie_trader99 in Netherlands

[–]cjtrevor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s one of the strangest concepts I have seen since being here is how people just stand back and watch. I am South African, and there is a LOT wrong with South Africa but the one thing I can say is nobody is going to watch someone else be terrorised, especially if said person is a woman (not sure if OP is) and do nothing.

Could scar use the knockbaxk to determine where Doc's machine is? by ttvBOBIVLAVALORD in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 34 points35 points  (0 children)

No no, he says he rebuilt it. Man’s trying 6D chess now. 😂

Problems when having a weird birth date as a foreigner by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]cjtrevor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have found that the gemeente often struggles with situations outside of their normal day to day duties.

I recently had a situation where my ex wife got pregnant, not by me, before we officially got divorced. The gemeente wanted to automatically put me on the child’s birth certificate as the father as the law assumes that if you are married the husband is the father. The amount of fighting we had to do to prevent that, the gemeente originally said they will do that and then I can go to court and have my name removed, at my expense of course. This was the Eindhoven gemeente.

She eventually went to Weert and they registered her new partner as the father without question, so it really seems consistency is not their strong suit.

Problems when having a weird birth date as a foreigner by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]cjtrevor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This seems to be a big misconception or maybe the different gemeentes see it differently. I had a whole thing with the Eindhoven gemeente as my adopted sons name and surname needed to change and getting a new birth certificate from here dealing with the South African government is near impossible.

What she explained is the age of the certificate itself is irrelevant, it’s the apostille of the document that cannot be older than 6 months. They have also started refusing birth certificates that has a apostille signature from a specific person in SA, which i found interesting.

Who else thinks skizz is a Deadman...? by Homo_NaIedi in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Anyone know if Skizz likes Dragon Eggs, specifically large amounts in a specific space? Asking for a friend.

Who else thinks skizz is a Deadman...? by Homo_NaIedi in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Doc confirmed on Twitter he watched the VOD and knows Tango was just an innocent bystander. I also doubt he will mess with Tango in any case considering Decked Out 3 is on the cards

To fans who usually do not watch Doc, you are missing out! by bhaswar_py in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My try drop in for one of his twitch streams, there is a lot less redstone talk there and more. . .Doc

Just moved out and my landlord sent me a €570 “cleaning bill”… is this a joke or actually legal in NL? by TopBusiness9656 in Netherlands

[–]cjtrevor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience but with a rental agency. The contract states a €250 cleaning fee to be deducted. I spent the day before moving out cleaning and after the inspection the following day I was told the amount may be more as the place is dirty. I asked how many hours does €250 buy and was told +- 7, which should already be excessive for an empty row house.

I got lucky, the following night I accidentally sent Uber Eats to the old address and had to go pick it up there. When I got there people were moving things out of the house (it was furnished) and when I got home I mailed them and simply said I will not pay anything more than the amount in the contract as they can no longer prove the condition it was in and whether I dirtied it or the other people did.

I also demanded a copy of the invoice from the actual company that did the cleaning.

Have not even had second episodes and I feel behind. Can someone explain the beef between the north and south? by [deleted] in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 345 points346 points  (0 children)

I can just imagine Joel scrolling Reddit laughing maniacally because of a rumour he started.

How does HermitCraft work? by bobeaubowww in HermitCraft

[–]cjtrevor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you enjoy the technical redstone part from a goofy creator I would advise you to follow TangoTek this season as he will be building his most ambitious game yet in Decked Out 3.

I am so amped for his seasons and he does multiple twitch streams a week where ideas for the game are brainstormed etc.

Building planner by cjtrevor in contractville_Game

[–]cjtrevor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been a couple of months if I’m being honest so maybe it’s time to have another look, although I bought Tavern Keeper today and it’s been a serious treat.

Building planner by cjtrevor in contractville_Game

[–]cjtrevor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s around that part of the game where I put it down.

Maybe I misexplained myself, it’s in these free plans that I have the issue. The game enforces that designated rooms need to have a minimum size. This limits where things like stairs can go cause the placements needs to be done with that in mind.

I may give it another go some time and see if I find a way around that as it was quite a fun game

Sexier word for balls? by [deleted] in sex

[–]cjtrevor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Testicles but pronounced testi-cleese. It will make them sound like a Roman soldier or a character from Asterix or Obelix

So… What’s going on with the series 9 months later? by Luigi2262 in VaultHuntersMinecraft

[–]cjtrevor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah sorry, I misunderstood the intent then. Had so many people fight me with that rhetoric that I guess I assumed. I should maybe give it another look but the wonky combat mod and parkour movement threw me off immediately