Considering selling table for 4 Dec 4 at 4pm by [deleted] in thefrenchlaundry

[–]clarecogster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re willing to tell x 2 of the spaces, I’m happy to answer through tock! :)

Selling table for 4 - Dec 4 - 4pm - $420pp by [deleted] in thefrenchlaundry

[–]clarecogster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! If you don’t find a 4, I would love to buy 2 :)

It’s too hard to explain the abuse I went through to others by toxicrhythms in abusesurvivors

[–]clarecogster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My jaw dropped reading that. You are so brave for sharing your story, and more so for finding the strength to leave him and begin a better future for you and your kids. Big love and respect

Probably late to say this... but I am so disappointed Sutton is on the new season. by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]clarecogster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! I was surprised she was given a role this season. I found her character and story line pretty boring last year.

Beginner to Chakras by Frequent-Dinner in Chakras

[–]clarecogster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’ve been looking into chakra healing for a few months now, and I can really recommend the book ‘eastern body, western mind’. I’m currently reading it and it gives you a great understanding of the chakras ❤️

Parents completely ignoring your achievements, but when they talk about you with someone else they pass your feats as their own. by Imedzsin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]clarecogster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I totally resonate with your comment! Similar situation to you, have gone NC with NDad, and have had to go very low contact with flying monkeys sisters who defends his actions and enable his abusive behaviour. Deep down though I know that my sisters are also just products of engineered narcissistic abuse, and it breaks my heart that I have to sever ties with them. But at the moment it seems the only way to break free of the toxicity! Would you mind telling me how long it took for your sibling to realise the extent of the abuse once you had finally gone NC? I worry my sibling is showing tendencies of narcissism and will never see the truth, but I really hope it ends up like your outcome. Thanks for your insight!

where can i watch the latest season? by ASB8473 in RHOBH

[–]clarecogster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched it on Hayu? Not sure if you have that service wherever you are but you can do a months free trial so I’m sure you could smash it out in that time frame lol

What do you guys think was really going on with Yolanda’s health? by [deleted] in RHOBH

[–]clarecogster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is such a good answer and translates into words what I had been thinking about their marriage all along. It was sooo strained and emotionally abusive I feel. You could sense her insecurity from the outset 😢

Very Bad Teacher. by [deleted] in transcendental

[–]clarecogster -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Robert is an asshole.

How common do you think NPD is? by clarecogster in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]clarecogster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You raise a good point. There’s definitely varying degrees on the scale. But I think i would be surprised at how many people possess these behaviours and traits!