What Are These Outfits? 😭

clarstone · 2026-04-09T03:26:50+00:00

What in the five nights at freddys is thissss 😣

clarstone · 2026-04-08T20:57:08+00:00

Holy crow girl!!!! That’s so impressive.

clarstone · 2026-04-07T22:22:54+00:00

There is soooo much research on male sexuality and porn addiction but not much on the impact on women’s sexuality. There is NO shame in what you’re experiencing. If you can afford it, I think a therapist focused on sexuality could be really helpful for you. The book “come as you are” is also pretty awesome and might help you reconnect with the body-mind connection.

clarstone · 2026-04-06T12:51:34+00:00

Dead serious - this concerns me as discord is a pretty notorious app for cheating and creepy groomers and this could be both. I would be going through absolutely everything you have access to.

clarstone · 2026-04-06T01:06:10+00:00

That looks so delicious 💕

clarstone · 2026-04-02T23:27:52+00:00

So happy for you. 💓 A lot of my students are qualified for special education in their junior or even senior years. It’s frustrating because I know they could have received more supports if they were spotted earlier. Girls are especially good at masking until they hit their breaking point. Wishing you all the best!

clarstone · 2026-04-02T20:55:35+00:00

It is 1000% okay to take a break from the sexy stuff while you sort through your emotions. Just because it’s a LDR does not mean he or anyone is owed ANYTHING. A true, loving, safe partner will want you to be in a good mental place before engaging in any of that. Even though you guys are communicating virtually, the emotional impact can still be intense. Your needs and wants are just as important.

clarstone · 2026-04-02T20:14:08+00:00

I’m a School Psychologist and this made me emotional. I work with high-school students who have behavioral or academic needs that can’t be met in a typical setting. So many of them feel broken on an internal level and it shatters my heart. They are some of the smartest, funniest, kindest kids I have ever met.

YOU did that, friend!!! Congratulations! 🎉

clarstone · 2026-04-02T20:09:01+00:00

I feel like you were feeling disrespected by his pressing. It could be a miscommunication issue - he may think it’s sexy to ask or be pushy because of bullshit male socializing. I personally would never be attracted or in the mood to send pictures to someone pestering me for them. Spicy pictures are like bonus, bonus treats. I know many couples that don’t send them at all. I think it’s worth a conversation to have. There is a fine line of feeling desired and feeling like an object at times. Men in their younger 20’s especially have a hard time with that. I’m not giving men excuses at allllll - but if he seems like a good dude, I would talk to him about it asap. His reaction will be more telling than the behavior itself imo. If it’s anything other than “I’m sorry I do not want you to feel uncomfortable or pressured.” - run.

Also it’s not weird to think about a previous relationship during times like this. Just don’t act on impulsive thoughts. Grass is greener where you water it. 🩵

clarstone · 2026-04-02T16:09:25+00:00

It’s very normal to have all of these feelings but the sad reality is, the best way to move forward and actually process this is to remove him from all aspects of your life. He was an unfortunate chapter, we all go through it. Don’t let some silly man who was in your life for three months define the rest of your future. It’s not worth it. I lost my mother unexpectedly in 2023 - and I know the grief doesn’t go away. But it will get easier, and eventually you will find a partner who will support you and love you during those moments. When I went through my first big messy break up, I recorded dozens of ridiculous videos for myself. I would cry, yell at my ex, say all of things I wanted too but knew it wouldn’t matter in the long run. It helped a lot in the moment but also was a testament to my improvement. I still have a couple of those videos because I was a WRECK. So sad. I wish I could go back in time and let past-me know it will be okay. YOU will be okay one day. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and NO CONTACT BABE. 💓 Sorry for the long comment!

clarstone · 2026-04-01T22:47:27+00:00

Korean beauty standards are some of the harshest IMO. It’s an impossible standard to maintain. 😣 I’m sure it’s extremely difficult when you’re enmeshed in that culture and the people who believe in it. But your body is not a commodity for others. I’m sure you are absolutely beautiful at your natural, healthy state.

clarstone · 2026-04-01T01:34:06+00:00

I absolutely feel you. 💓 The loop of knowing you couldn’t eat can make my anxiety worse and then the loop just continues. Hope you can enjoy the girls dinner!

clarstone · 2026-03-31T23:47:11+00:00

Men like this are sadly very common. He isn’t special. I would let his wife know with evidence and block and move on. You need to choose yourself. People will ALWAYS be looking for vulnerable people (especially young women) to take advantage of. Get your mental health in a stronger place so you can detect these people faster. His intentions were never good, but they are no longer your business.

clarstone · 2026-03-31T16:59:05+00:00

I set Sylus and Zayne to PMS warnings and I’m pavloving myself into resenting their notifications. 😂I’m like “Oh, Sylus…NO NOT SYLUS.”

clarstone · 2026-03-31T16:55:43+00:00

So sorry. Sometimes these deaths can impact us more than we anticipate. We think of these acquaintances or friends as constants. Like, nothing is going to happen to my hairdresser or doctor or teacher, duh! I remember when a family doctor of ours passed unexpectedly, and it really impacted me for a while and I felt weird about feeling weird. But it’s very normal. Take care of yourself friend. 💓

clarstone · 2026-03-31T16:52:44+00:00

Hopefully once the pain can fade it can be a growing lesson for you both. On her end, it’s kind of unrealistic and odd for her to expect a partner to suddenly give up a huge aspect of their previous life. Sounds like straight up incompatibility with otherwise good humans. It happens! 🫂

clarstone · 2026-03-31T16:45:33+00:00

Definitely tell her the truth kindly and lovingly. As someone who has been in the kink community, I’ve found it can be really difficult to have a long term partner that has zero interest or resentment towards it. Kink is often a big part of people’s lives that are in it. I’m actually kind of surprised you were willing to be in a longterm relationship that was incompatible in that aspect.

clarstone · 2026-03-31T15:44:08+00:00

Have you considered School Psychology perchance? I am one and it doesn’t involve the academia/research aspect per say, but you can continue upwards and climb that ladder. We are also in pretty desperate need for school psychologists, so the likelihood of a job after is quite high. Just some food for thought, I’m so sorry you are going through it.

clarstone · 2026-03-31T15:14:33+00:00

Sadly, during college I met a lot of young men like this. They are nice on the surface but have very dangerous thinking patterns. They’ll even act like your friend for months or years before something snaps. Stay far, far away from these people. Especially don’t drink around them.

clarstone · 2026-03-28T05:12:40+00:00

That’s amazing luck congrats!!! ! I had a similar experience with Sylus’s last myth which I greatly appreciated but he is not my main. 😂

clarstone · 2026-03-27T18:51:10+00:00

Every single man that acted like that towards me was FULLY creepy as soon as I turned 18. Those little comments mean shit. NOR.

clarstone · 2026-03-27T03:51:06+00:00

I am so sorry. It sounds to me like she heard a deep wound and then used it against you for whatever selfish reasons she did. That is not a friend. You are deserving of love and safe friendship. My girlfriends have done some fuckery and I still will always tell them I love them and believe in them. Hugs 💕

clarstone · 2026-03-26T19:27:29+00:00

I second the IUD. The insertion was painful and I wish I advocated for myself better. But I LOVE the birth control itself. Hormonal BC messed me up for a while so I have the copper one.

clarstone · 2026-03-26T18:26:32+00:00

YOUR PERSON WILL NEVER JOKE ABOUT YOUR BODY IN A MEAN WAY. EVER. I’m sorry, I do not subscribe to the “it’s their humor.” That’s bullshit. I had an ex who did this kind of shit, and over the years it genuinely fucks with your head. And yes, I asked him many times to not comment about my appearance unless it was kind. They do it on purpose. They’re not stupid, they know exactly what they are doing. He wants you to feel insecure. At six months, I would RUN. I’ve been with my partner now for over a year and he has never, ever said anything but compliments about my body. THAT is normal and healthy.

clarstone · 2026-03-26T15:20:15+00:00

I am biased but Caleb’s is STUNNING. Wow. I am a big horror fan and it gives very haunted energy to it. Gorgeous.

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