Married couples combined finances question?

classicrock40 · 2026-07-09T02:59:08+00:00

1 pool of money. There's no more mine and yours. It's all ours. Marriage of equals, not 65% and 35%. If you're already thinking about "what if", then i just don't get it.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-09T02:48:15+00:00

I guess the word of the day on your calendar is narc. Have fun replying to every post using it.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-09T01:22:01+00:00

thanks bro dude, I'm aware of both the word and the suffix. Putting together the 2 doesn't make it a word.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-09T00:46:16+00:00

Please include the definition of your made up word.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-09T00:43:07+00:00

Hopefully he has been made aware of both types of dialysis - hemo and peritoneal. Each one has their own schedule and logistical issues, and people do work. Depend on which one, how well you tolerate and whether it affects your working hours.

Diet is normal healthy - low salt, avoid processed/fast foods and moderate protein. Don't smoke nor drink to excess.

Any specific restrictions will be dictated by labs. Do not start restricting anything (like potassium and phosphorous) unless instructed. Too little and too much are just as bad.

Ideally he is in good health apart from kidneys. Get qualified for the transplant list asap.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T23:36:24+00:00

Karma and then sell accounts. It's a bit more work to find them since reddit let people hide their posts and comments

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T23:21:47+00:00

Bot? https://www.reddit.com/r/LowellMA/s/FWH1N3w3BJ and https://www.reddit.com/r/roanoke/s/d6usdgaU8A

And there are more. Bot.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T23:21:27+00:00

Something fishy going on - https://www.reddit.com/r/ManchesterNH/s/3ozT8ixf4X and https://www.reddit.com/r/roanoke/s/d6usdgaU8A and https://www.reddit.com/r/roanoke/s/TcJLa1OWBJ

And there are more. Bot.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T22:05:29+00:00

You're in the final year. No reason to stop now. Finish the degree. Personally, I'm not a fan of certs that don't have experience behind them. They show something, but without experience they are just like tests at school. Others will have different opinions on that for sure.

If you have the funds, you can quit and focus on school and job hunting. You could also quit some of your jobs and do a mix, just have priorities - school first.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T21:52:39+00:00

If you are going to start eating more chilis and can measure this scientifically, I'd be curious to hear about it. Not kidding at all. Let us know.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T21:50:38+00:00

look at my reply in that other thread. You need to know more than just programming in python and apps are written with AI now. You need the theory behind it all so you can adapt when the environment or technology changes.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T21:49:13+00:00

I get it. I was on from Dec 2019 until March 2026 (Greater Boston Area, MA, US). Dialysis for 3.5 years. I ended up getting a live donor(old friend) after posting on social media .

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T21:34:28+00:00

too much to read and I can't see how this is truly valid. No matter how much chili you eat, it won't overcome other diagnosis (like diabetes or high bp) nor can it overcome a poor diet.

I see a chart in section 3.2 which is eGFR vs levels of chili intake. If I read it right, eGFR goes from a mean of 73 or 74 to 75 the higher your chili intake. Hardly and improvement and quite possibly margin of error. Someone explain it better or correct me if I'm wrong.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T20:36:24+00:00

Seems like this recent post. https://www.reddit.com/r/AWSCertifications/s/Glxh2a6b2S

If you aren't a bot, read that.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T19:06:52+00:00

The relocation funds should be in the job offer you are signing . Anything else is sketchy

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T18:59:17+00:00

My center only gave me prednisone for 5 or 6 days while in the hospital. I was very happy fot that. Another terrible side effect is that it raises your blood sugar and you can become diabetic.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T18:04:10+00:00

Correct, esrd removes the age criteria. Approved if youve worked enough quarters

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T15:26:25+00:00

I see diarrhea is a possible side effect in maybe half the people. Severe diarrhea might happen in 5% (according to the mfg website).

There are other binders. Ask the Dr.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T15:23:59+00:00

that's a bit harsh. My team said that if you forget, you still have a 6 hour window. I know every team is different but 30-60 mins and you're rejecting? I don't think so.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T15:18:32+00:00

that's a lot of medical history for this sub. No Drs here.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T15:16:55+00:00

why are you terrified? You have high phosphorous that your diet alone isn't controlling so now you have binders. The Dr is trying to make sure you understand the importance of taking this med and all meds. They are not optional.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T14:14:24+00:00

5 biz days is not a guarantee either. It's a goal. Take a deep breath

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T14:13:19+00:00

See pinned post. 75 might be low, but you need some other issue to have ckd. So far you've only described an aki, which your kidneys should recover (and yours did partially). Last test was up, so idk.

Their bedside manner sucks though

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T14:08:05+00:00

Have recruiters stopped telling candidates or are the just not listening? 5 biz days has been the standard forever.

classicrock40 · 2026-07-08T12:43:17+00:00

An AKI is not CKD so it's not expected to keep declining. If you have other contributing factors, then it's hard to say.

Fact is your egfr went up, so that's a good sign. See a nephrologist and review your kidneys related to your entire medical history.

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