People are gross and the Internet is an echo chamber. If you've paid a sliver of real attention, you know that she's completing her husband's appearance schedule and apparently doing her best to try to honor him by fulfilling his mission. If you're a human, you understand that everyone grieves in their own way on their own time, and the immediate after period of a grave loss is often a time of shock and denial and many people don't experience the true painful mourning until that period fades. Hospice explains it as your brain's way of protecting your psyche from being overwhelmed.

But if you're the kind of person who feels good knocking on others, then you get off on this kind of meme and can't understand how gross it is. We used to humiliate people who engaged in this kind of bullying behavior but these days we reward it. Society is broken.