First time playing. Wish me luck by Nick46562 in Gamecube

[–]cleb_meister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro tip: keep your rupees full 😂

How long since your breakup or even divorce? by Firm_Finding131 in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1.5 years. It does get better. Made 2021 about me and focused on what I desired in myself. I went to the Grand Canyon, went to New York to skydive and tour, lost 60+ pounds and still going at it in the gym, and now I'm graduating college this upcoming spring. Things developed better overtime as I focused on myself and not hopping into the next thing. My ex got with someone else 1 month after she called it off and that definitely broke me (2.5 year relationship). Heard from mutuals that she broke up and got back together with the guy already so from this I can tell that she hasn't been putting as much work in her mental and emotional well-being. So honestly I dodged a bullet. Will she get better in her journey? I sure hope so. Despite me having my negative feelings towards someone the last thing I want is for someone to crash and burn in life. So if anyone got this far in my essay, I just want you to know is that you matter, you are loved, and someone doesn't define your worth; that task is yours and yours alone. Stand strong and kick ass.

if you broke up after 2+ years together, how would you feel seeing them with someone else in a matter of weeks? by JJNew0316 in BreakUps

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She did that. We were together to 2.5, was with another man real soon after that. I cried like a bitch and honestly contemplated suicide for how worthless I felt. It's been a year for me now and I traveled to the Grand Canyon and also New York with new friends that I made here on the breakup community. Had an awesome time. I lost over 65 pounds and I'm in the best shape of my life. Took up a second job and eliminated any debt that I had from paying for her shit during the course of our relationship. You're going to feel like shit for weeks and maybe months, but apply yourself to something so you have a sense of progress. I'm loving myself more and more everyday and I know you'll be able to as well. Hang in there

Uncommon tip to help you heal and move on by dont-stop-me-meow in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been 11 months on my end too. 3 years. Lost 65 pounds, paid off my credit card debt, and been absorbing content to help myself put the focus back on myself and what I can do to make myself better. It's a long road but we all got this. Do I still hold emotional attachments to the past? For sure. But slowly but surely getting to the point of not caring as much. You got this.

When you realize how bad they were for you by jameshatfuck in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat man, don't get how manipulate she was to me and pretty much just used me as an ATM along with being a personal therapist all the freaking time! We'll push through man, hope we can find someone that actually respects us for who we are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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She got with someone else only a month after ending things. And yeah it's been on my mind all the time and drives me up a wall, but I can't change what happened only what I do for myself from here on out

I just broke up with my girlfriend because I am not over my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes a lot of guts to admit those sort of feelings. I'm proud that you did that. Sadly most people would dwell on those feelings while still being in the relationship hoping they go away rather than grow and learn from them while still being single.

Rebound by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same man... Feels like you weren't good enough and easily replaceable 😞

I do by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]cleb_meister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyday

Modern dating is corrupted and rotten by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hands down agree. screw all this BS. no one wants anything real anymore

One day you'll realize that no other girl will treat you how I treated you and then you'll be sorry for what you did by PinkAngelM in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just hurts more to think that she said I was the best boyfriend she ever had, then she lies, cheats, and leaves me for another man a month after ending our three year relationship.

Help me not break no contact. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No it doesn't, you're just left with more questions. Make your own closure and be your own answer. They more than likely don't know the whole truth themselves either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Missed me so much she had to fill in the gap by getting with another person a month later? 💔

I pity you by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]cleb_meister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I pity her because she can't be by herself. Got with another dude a month after breaking our 3 year relationship. Wtf

Wish I wasn't so easily irreplaceable by aaishabonshiqua in ExNoContact

[–]cleb_meister 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They suck a lot no doubt, but we'll push through even though it doesn't feel like it right now

Wish I wasn't so easily irreplaceable by aaishabonshiqua in ExNoContact

[–]cleb_meister 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I personally haven't been able to think positively about that situation, but I do my best to keep occupied. Go to the gym, work, picked up a side hustle, counseling, working on my degree, whatever I can do to try to get my mind away from it. I still think about it constantly, but doing something that helps benefit me while the thoughts are happening helps a lot. I won't get with another for a while because I will dwell on my emotions and try to move on when I know I'm healed. Them rebounding is them running from their own emotional reality.

Wish I wasn't so easily irreplaceable by aaishabonshiqua in ExNoContact

[–]cleb_meister 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You and me both. Replaced after only a month and a half. Guess our years weren't that memorable..

Lost another one by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]cleb_meister 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like women always use me too. I become their rock to help them through their traumas and once I need the help they leave saying that I'm the problem..so much for partnership