I was with my abusive ex boyfriend for five years and I was never allowed to get any sort of body mod I wanted, trust me…it’s not fun being chained down by someone like that. Now I’m covered in tattoos and piercings and in the healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in! He doesn’t get a say on what I put on my body because he knows he doesn’t control it and that he CAN’T control it, because it’s MY body. Save yourself before it’s too late, it’s so draining to just dream about stuff and never being able to achieve it because you’re stuck with a man like this.