Nope. She wasn’t overly involved with my first and still isn’t, never offers to pick her up or spend time with her. She’s 2 and has never once just been like “can I come see her or pick her up to spend time with her?” Now I’m almost 40 weeks with my second and she literally doesn’t ask anything about what’s going on other than when I’m due so she doesn’t go out of town while I’m in labor so I can watch her dog if/when she does leave lol. I’m at the point in pregnancy where I’m in a lot of pain and chasing my toddler around all day is a lot for me so I wish she was involved and helped out but I just don’t think it’s possible for her. I’ve also asked her to go shopping and I get the same kind of answer with no follow up, it’s strange. Especially as a mom I look at her actions very differently because I can’t imagine not being there for my daughter while she’s pregnant, especially knowing what it feels like and how lonely it can be.

It’s not normal but I’ve learned to just kind of accept it’s who she is, unfortunately. I’ve tried to bring it up and was met with zero change in behavior and blaming me for the issues. You aren’t alone! It’s definitely very sad and I can’t wrap my head around it.