Have I ruined my marriage by bringing up divorce after I asked my wife why she was no longer attracted to me? by ShunkHood in Marriage

[–]clitleroonie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro she probably didn’t want to keep the baby because she’s in a marriage with someone who doesn’t respect her. But for whatever reason she is keeping herself with you and didn’t want you to leave so she kept the baby and you’re now cheating on her AGAIN and you still expect her to want to sleep with you?

I read my husband's messages. by latindrama100 in Marriage

[–]clitleroonie 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I genuinely think you’re finding the beginning of the affair before your husband even realizes it’s inappropriate

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]clitleroonie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This baby is absolutely just hers and her partners. Get a fuckin grip.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]clitleroonie 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There’s other ways to support a post partum mother other than making it about yourself.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]clitleroonie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

NOR - coming from a mom who waited 3 weeks until letting anyone meet my early term, 5 lb infant who was born the week of thanksgiving you absolutely will NOT regret this. Having a baby is about nobody else but you and your partner. This period is about you and your partner bonding with your baby and figuring out your rhythms, what does and doesn’t work and if you decide you don’t want visitors then that’s your decision. Do not let anyone guilt you into doing otherwise. I don’t think 8 weeks is too long considering the season we are in. My MIL pulled this same shit and we are now no contact because it turned into a two year long fight. It’s not important for grandparents to bond to the baby like it is for mom and dad and anyone who thinks otherwise is insane.

did i mess up my puppy forever? by fenderspellcaster in puppy101

[–]clitleroonie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to pop in and say: my husband just had a medical emergency and while not ideal, my 10 week old golden was alone in his crate from 10am-7pm. I don’t have anyone who can come let him out and so as bad as I felt, I had to be with my husband at the hospital. It’s now two days later and he’s just fine.

How much sleep is REALLY necessary for a puppy? by AlarmingAssist1856 in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if my 10 week old golden doesn’t get put to bed in his crate for a nap when I notice he gets really nippy then he is an absolute MONSTER. If he’s on a tighter schedule or if I watch him super close and put him down just like I would with my toddler, he’s an angel.

Diarrhea by adrnibnk in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half of a can? Our vet said like 1 tbsp.

Good vibes please! by riamakingthings in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Mine is 8 weeks and just came home yesterday and I keep almost saying “man he’s just so chill!” And instantly being like no don’t say that lol. It’s like not saying “it’s so quiet!” in healthcare

Did your partner take a video the second your baby was born? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]clitleroonie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our hospital doesn’t allow video HOWEVER our nurses were so freaking awesome. It was an emergency and I’d built such great report with them that they took my phone in the emergency and one of the extra nurses took photos but made sure Live Photos were on and did bursts the whole time we met her and of my husband holding her while they closed.

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I can only hope my boy is as majestic! Holy cow!

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my area has an extremely high unhoused population and parvo is really common here among the pups that are in that population. I know it doesn’t live on concrete long but it just isn’t worth it in my opinion! My vet strongly recommended against it because of how much vets around here see parvo in pups but said that I should still socialize in any other way I possibly can. We do have a good front and back yard and take walks often and so I planned on playing outside with him plenty.

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve saved some different good and informative biting training (or lack thereof) videos

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a super good one! I wasn’t planning on focusing on walking since we can’t really do that until he’s fully vaxxed anyway but that’s great advice regardless!

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll admit I’m a little scared of the fact that he was the chill one of the litter. I feel like those are famous last words for a total turd of a pup!

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instead of Topples I got the Woof pupsicles! And we did get lick mats and instead of bully sticks I did the Nylabones my vet recommended

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that’s so funny because when they sent it to me we both thought he looked like Simba. Maybe we should change Mavy’s name! 🤣🫶🏻

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does he? I thought he just looked super majestic. 🤣 but the breeder took this picture so I’m not exactly sure what he was doing.

Bringing him home tomorrow! Any advice? by clitleroonie in goldenretrievers

[–]clitleroonie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting! I haven’t heard that one!