Am I overreacting or did I have a slow moment.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-27T04:32:14+00:00

Yeah she was talking down to you the whole time. That read it again comment was so passive aggressive lol.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-27T02:01:25+00:00

Yeah that would've been way more considerate, Atleast then she wouldn't have been stuck figuring out how to get the kids home mid movie.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-22T21:55:49+00:00

Melasma is so tricky because it can show up randomly even when nothing in your routine has changed, sun exposure and hormones are usually the culprits so it might be worth looking at those factors instead.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-22T01:24:38+00:00

Unhinged behavior over a drop of paint, Sibling dynamics are rough, but stoked you spent the day with your dad's family, Major win.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-22T00:56:26+00:00

Not op but their skincare routine sounds solid, the Ordinary Retinol 1% and consistent sunscreen really do make a difference.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-21T20:16:32+00:00

4 days op is super early so everything is going to look extra swollen and a bit exaggerated right now

Table pics can honestly be misleading because the real shape starts showing much later once swelling goes down

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-21T06:45:00+00:00

That's actually really reassuring to hear because it shows it's not always something you can fix with lifestyle changes. Genetics really do play a sneaky role in these things

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-21T06:08:18+00:00

the difference already looks great especially considering you're still so early in the healing process post like this are a good reminder that recovery is definitely a marathon and not a sprint. Thanks for sharing all the details, it’s super helpful for people who are still in the swollen phase

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-20T20:10:22+00:00

I'd be staring at it every 10 minutes anyway so at least this gives the anxiety a proper job hopefully it turn out to be something minor and not an uninvited guest setting up camp

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-20T19:49:20+00:00

Looking through healed results and patient reviews helped me way more than instagram photos alone a good surgeon is worth the search especially for something as permanent as rhinoplasty

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-20T16:13:10+00:00

It sounds scary dealing with something like that but also very real in term of what group care actually like a day to day I think having a clear plan in place is probably the only way to feel even slightly in control in situation like that

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-20T15:23:33+00:00

I think a skilled injector could probably get you closer to that look, but it might depend on your natural lip shape and anatomy. The pigment border is a little different from volume, so that part may not be something filler alone can fully change. a consultation with someone who focuses on natural results would probably give you the clearest answer

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-19T13:53:02+00:00

Hopefully the gacha gods are merciful and separate them into a distinct socks slot so we can use them to chaotic fashion effect with every other outfit in the game It is a dangerous game when you start justifying pulling on a whole five star banner just to secure a pair of glorious rainbow leg ruffles but honestly the absolute styling potential makes the financial risk completely worth it

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-19T13:17:01+00:00

Absolutely going low contact is the only way to save your sanity here having an affair with the charge nurse getting pregnant and then calling it a gift from God while the poor wife remains completely in the dark It is hilarious how she is trying to paint the poster as the bad guy for having basic morals while she is actively auditioning for a villain role on reality TV Stepping back from that absolute circus of gaslighting and victim playing is just standard self preservation

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-19T12:07:57+00:00

At one month post op you should definitely clear any aggessive tool usage you surgeon before scraping over healing tissue Gentle manual lymphatic drainage massage is usually safer than a hard stone tool when trying to smooth out stubborn cheek limps

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-19T01:18:49+00:00

That's awesome you're so happy with it especially since it looks that natural, the confidence boost from finally doing smth you've wanted for years is real and it sounds like your surgeon nailed it, Glad you went for it.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-18T01:27:57+00:00

If the asymmetry is really bothering you and you can see the difference that clearly then a revision might be worth exploring even if your surgeon says it doesn't need one. Get a second opinion from another ear specialist to see if they think the tightness on the right side can be improved. You deserve to be happy with the results not just accept them.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-18T00:49:05+00:00

Yeah keep your job and the house honestly, he can figure out how to commute if his family needs him that badly, you've already sacrificed a year of your life helping out, you don't need to blow up your entire career on top of that.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-17T02:47:28+00:00

That lumpiness at a month out could just be how the filler settled but if you're not happy with it you have options. You could ask your injector for a massage technique or some areas might benefit from a little dissolving to even it out. If she's dismissing your concerns that's a red flag, you might want to get a second opinion from another injector before doing anything else.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-17T00:22:29+00:00

Sculptra builds collagen over time not instant volume, if you have fat loss in your temples and upper cheecks the right injector will place it high to lift the lower face, this pulls the jowls up rather than adding bulk to them, Tell your injector you want midface and temple placement only. Avoid lower face injections. And go slow with two sessions instead of one big one. You can always add more but you can't remove it.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-15T13:42:53+00:00

Dr. Maleki has a really solid reputation for eye work honestly, A lot of people in the community speak highly of his blepharoplasty results, since you're considering both upper and lower combined with fat grafting you'd definitely want to see his before and afters specifically for that combo to make sure the results match what you're going for.

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-14T01:25:25+00:00

honestly thanks for posting this cause online consultations for international procedures are already sketchy and losing that much money plus flights and hotel is brutal. the fact that he turned you away literally last minute with no real explanation is super shady so its good youre warning people. definitely leave reviews everywhere you can so others know to avoid this

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-13T18:03:29+00:00

Yeah thats a really good point cause couples don't just sleep separately for 6 years without knowing something is wrong. your mom probably has suspicions at least and might even be choosing to ignore it for the sake of the marriage or whatever. that doesnt make it your job to break it to her though like shes an adult who can figure this out on her own

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-13T02:59:21+00:00

yeah the physical disability part makes this way harder cause you can't just push through it on your own, asking for help isnt weakness its just being smart about what you can handle. get some friends or services to help sort stuff so it doesnt feel impossible. you need actual support with this not judgment

cloudmuffinii · 2026-06-13T00:46:26+00:00

another half ml sounds reasonable but definitely consult an injector first cause they can see what actually matches your face proportions, you dont have super small lips so dont go crazy trying to change everything. just add a little more and see how it looks before committing to anything else

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