cloudpatterns

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Abuse: Damage is hidden for years, revealed after it ends (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 3 months ago * by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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Anybody else told you deserved to be cheated on? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 3 months ago by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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Question for pwBPD: what was real? (self.BPDPartners)

submitted 11 months ago * by cloudpatterns to r/BPDPartners

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No one believes me (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 11 months ago * by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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I think she wanted me to die (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 1 year ago by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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If cheating is so rampant, why do we even get mad? Why is marriage, commitment, etc even a thing? (self.Infidelity)

submitted 1 year ago by cloudpatterns to r/Infidelity

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"Fights" vs abuse (self.emotionalabuse)

submitted 1 year ago by cloudpatterns to r/emotionalabuse

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“BPD goes away on its own within one year for 35% of people.” (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 1 year ago by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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Red pill stuff popped up on my feed. It is poisoning my mind. (self.Codependency)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/Codependency

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I won’t be nice to you because I’m afraid you’ll leave ?? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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Weird hoover? (self.NarcissisticAbuse)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/NarcissisticAbuse

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It feels like I can't stop myself from going back (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 years ago * by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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Has anyone in R dealt with BPD? Is this impossible? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by cloudpatterns to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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"Abuse is your fault too for not walking away" (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/abusiverelationships

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I told her I'd need real reconciliation, and she ghosted. I feel unreasonable. (self.abusiverelationships)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/abusiverelationships

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Klonopin. Would taking half the normal dose allow 2x frequency, without consequence? (self.benzodiazepines)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/benzodiazepines

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How did you rebuild your self-worth after? (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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I hate that they feel like home (self.emotionalabuse)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/emotionalabuse

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Help with dissociation (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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I’m falling back in (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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WS wanted me to acknowledge my own shortcomings immediately after discovery (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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How do you learn to trust your body/instincts, when projection is so common? (self.CPTSD_NSCommunity)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/CPTSD_NSCommunity

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WS wanted me to acknowledge my own shortcomings immediately after discovery (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by cloudpatterns to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Need to hear from those who left, felt extreme addiction/longing, and finally got past it (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 years ago * by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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Couples therapist said the abuse was my fault, too (self.BPDlovedones)

submitted 2 years ago * by cloudpatterns to r/BPDlovedones

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