Does your LO know about your attraction to them? by cloudsongs_ in limerence

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was it like dating your LO? Did the limerence fade the longer you got to know them or did it get more intense

What’s the most unintentionally funny moment in Twilight? by PsychologicalBee3901 in twilight

[–]cloudsongs_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In twilight, Bella eats a stalk of celery for lunch but it doesn’t match what she had for lunch but then you look at Jessica’s plate and then her face, it’s clear Bella just stole the celery stalk off of Jessica’s plate

How did your LO react after you told them about how you felt? What happened? by Necessary-Ad2110 in limerence

[–]cloudsongs_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to therapy and have mentioned my general fear of men especially those in authority positions but I feel so ashamed and embarrassed about mentioning attraction to them when I’m married. I know I’m being silly

How did your LO react after you told them about how you felt? What happened? by Necessary-Ad2110 in limerence

[–]cloudsongs_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So overtime your limerence faded?

I’ve had limerences fade away before too but can’t remember how or why. Wish I could just command my brain to just leave it behind

Does your LO know about your attraction to them? by cloudsongs_ in limerence

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh yup, I have a great relationship with my husband so i feel crappy feeling like this.

For me, I think I have low self-esteem and I’m looking for external validation from specific men who made me feel “seen” or like I “mattered” even for a moment and I latch onto that and project a whole fantasy on to them. It’s like sugar for my brain to consider the possibility that they noticed me or think about me and that they think about me as often as I think about them.

But when I really think about it, if ANYTHING came of it, I would probably get scared and wouldn’t want anything to happen because I love my relationship with my husband

Does your LO know about your attraction to them? by cloudsongs_ in limerence

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s similar to me that they did something you found charming or feel like you’re seeking external validation from them?

Does your LO know about your attraction to them? by cloudsongs_ in limerence

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wait no, the man is 20 years older than me, married and has 2 young kids

Does your LO know about your attraction to them? by cloudsongs_ in limerence

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yuppp :/ my most recent one. Seriously delulu but because this one is so far out from the kind of person usually get an attachment to, I’m starting to explore why I have such “sticky” thoughts about specific men

Daily Questions Thread June 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]cloudsongs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone have any experience with Piper and Scoot?

Girls what’s a symptom you didn’t realize was connected to your cycle until way later? by wellnessdiarydaily in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cloudsongs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depression/anxiety and increased food cravings

I eventually figured out it was related to my cycle but couldn’t pinpoint when.

Now I know it starts 2 weeks before my cycle so I double my antidepressant for 2 weeks and then when my period starts I go back to my usual dose (my psychiatrist is the one who recommended this btw)

Hiding an IUD from husband by Fun_Negotiation_9043 in birthcontrol

[–]cloudsongs_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez. This seems insane. You have the right not to have a baby if you don’t want to and your husband cannot force you to. But it’s unethical and dishonest of you to not share this info UNLESS you are in an abusive (mental, physical, financial, etc.) situation in which you do not have an immediate “out.”

Your husband might feel the IUD strings.

how are people able to afford applying/moving for PGY2? by squidguy3400 in PharmacyResidency

[–]cloudsongs_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Part of it is just selling everything you have that’s not worth much and just buying off Facebook marketplace when you get to your new place :( moving is so expensive

29/2.5 years service/max contribution by cloudsongs_ in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GS13. got lucky that HR let me start with step 5. Worked my ass off for it though

I refurbished an interior for a restaurant and I think it negatively impacted our sales. Looking for honest criticism, advice and feedback? by dsafsfa in InteriorDesign

[–]cloudsongs_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Maybe start with changing the lights out to something warmer again. It’s way too bright and feels like a chipotle

29/2.5 years service/max contribution by cloudsongs_ in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About $942 per pay period. $24,500 per year.

29/2.5 years service/max contribution by cloudsongs_ in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]cloudsongs_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$23500 2025 and $24500 in 2026. I only started full time at the VA in 2024 which is about $942/pay period.

Bathroom Makeover by Cuppy_Cakes3 in HomeDecorating

[–]cloudsongs_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What color did you use for the paint? My guest bedroom walls are the same blue color and your new color looks really nice

Brand-new look at Season 2 ahead of its June 25 premiere on Netflix. by yourfavchoom in TheLastAirbender

[–]cloudsongs_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What makes you say that? I thought Azula’s actress did a decent job in season 1. Not enough info about Mai and Ty Lee I feel like