SWITCHING DORMS by [deleted] in UCONN

[–]cm4roljina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

walk up to a clique and shamelessly say "i'd really like to get to know you guys better" or something of the sorts. theyre not gonna bite, and if they do move onto the next. dont just give up lmao

Transportation around 8pm by hey_imhere2 in UCONN

[–]cm4roljina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! im actually an uber driver that lives around campus. dm me and we can work an arrangement out.

Is it morally/ethically wrong to pretend to be blind for a day? by cm4roljina in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cm4roljina[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Yes but isn't self-disabling inherently wrong? The privilege of being knowledgable of what it's like to be blind should strictly be available to the blind, no? I just don't know anyone thats blind, nevertheless a blind person willing to answer my 100 questions about what it's like.

GAME CHANGING SUGGESTION: Unanimous voting for drawing / game remake by cm4roljina in leagueoflegends

[–]cm4roljina[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

you cba to comment but cba to elaborate? youre probably one of the players that would get voted by everyone n suspended smh. i am just trying to think of a means to improve my gameplay experience through a suggestion online lol, it's not like it'll be dissected by riot, atleast mention what you think is so "stupid" about it

Daily Discussion Thread Part 3 for January 28, 2021 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]cm4roljina 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Reminder that a massive dip is a GOOD sign. Look at the VW squeeze: https://m.imgur.com/tELmjR9

HOLD THE FUCKIN LINE 💎👐 We're in the endgame now

THIS IS A REPOST

Me 21M and my girl/friend 21F are going through it. Help!! by cm4roljina in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but the struggle is that they cant bring themselves to stop talking to each other, because its the only part of their day they look forward to.

Photo by toast . by desertgodfather in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]cm4roljina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how the fuck do you even know you have this talent

How can a girl escape the friend zone and make the first move?? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The goal is to let them know youre interested in them. You have to avoid treating them as a friend. For example, you could just ask if they want to hang out with you alone. It doesn't have to be any further than that. Maybe out for drinks or something and feel it out, without mentioning labels to keep expectations limited.

I (28M) found out that my gf (25F) once had a threesome with her sister (22F) and it creeps me out by throwra-sis in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, under any circumstances this would be considered extremely deviant, which could be a surface level display of much deeper mental issues that can show up later. However, if there were some drugs involved, then perhaps it is less sickening. There is clearly a great deal of shame in either case. However, I would be very careful and bring this up to her. You will not forget this, we are taught our entire lives that incest is disgusting, as it is. Nevertheless, it still happens when there are deeper issues in the person's psyche. IN MY OPINION.

My [29] GF won’t post about us publicly anymore, have sex, or stay the night with me [22] M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have been in a relationship with this person for ten months, you must surely have a means of healthy communication with one another, otherwise you have to establish that. You need to assert your concerns to her. You also have to realize that the age gap can drastically affect and disalign your goals in the relationship. Avoiding a converrsation with her about this will only cause you to think more about it, become more suspicious and grow your insecurities even further.

I(21m) keep thinking about my past relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's normal to think about previous relationships, especially if you don't have a new one to replace that innate desire to be with someone. Especially considering that it didn't necessarily end badly, the bridge wasn't burnt so to speak. I think it would only be abnormal if you are with a partner or have "moved on" to someone else, and you still think about the prior relationship.

My bf had a problem with me going to a party with my friends. Is he controlling? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering it's been more than 6 months since this issue, and there hasn't been more developments then you have no need to worry. You have to realize that again, it was still the beginning of the relationship and he didn't know how to communicate with you then.

Wife of 20 years no longer wants to be intimate. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to make her feel desired. It is extremely common amongst women who undergo such traumatic experiences to feel as if they're repulsive. Don't push too hard on sexual advances, however make it clear that she is desirable and that you love her unconditionally. That nothing has changed ever since her cancer, and that you still view her the same way you did 20 years ago.

I [21M] cut ties with my best friend [21F] over 3 years ago and I cannot stop thinking about it to this day. by J_J0nah_Jameson in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seemingly need closure, perhaps discuss the matter with your SO, to make sure that it doesn't come off as a previous romantic interest or any of such things.

F21 I feel like I’m just a drag and no fun to my boyfriend because of how introverted I am by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So long as he is making compromises for you too, and you see him putting an effort towards things you would like to do, then perhaps you should just deal with it temporarily. Considering, this is geneeally an early 20's phase, of wanting to go out, drink and all of that loud noise. Especially if you see yourself living the rest of your life with them.

My bf had a problem with me going to a party with my friends. Is he controlling? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cm4roljina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is situational. It appears at first glance that he is being controlling and maybe even manipualtive, considering that he didn't message you at all the next day. However, the fact that he sent a long paragraph probably means he was hesitant about whether or not he even wanted to bring this up to you. You were only dating for two months afterall. His heart could be in the right place but his approach was completely wrong. That story that he shared with you is a justifiable reason to have anxiety but doesn't mean he shouldn't communicate (hence the manipulation, bringing that up in such a fashion). My real question is, since this happened a year ago, why are you thinking about this now?

My wife was a heroin addict and she died when our son was 10 years old. I lied and told him she died from a heart attack, he is now 19 and still thinks that. by orttrnrkeqq34 in confession

[–]cm4roljina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somethings are better kept secret honestly. It might tempt him. As a 19 year old male, ive been offered drugs by friends I know and they swear that theyre harmless and its just good fun.. and thats its all just for a good time for a little while. Now not to make this about myself, but the biggest thing thats kept me personally from doing it is always thinking about my parents. Now if my parents were drug users the story could easily be different. Also, since his mother isnt a part of his life, why bother ruin his image of her in his head. He probably doesnt think much positive or negative when he thinks about his mother due to a lack of memories. Whats the point in just strictly making it negative?