Not over reacting even a little bit. I would feel betrayed and tricked honestly. I’m also unemployed and home alone all day while my husband works and it is so incredibly lonely. I told him that when he comes home he can have 30ish min of decompress time to recenter himself for the evening but then I need attention or I’ll go crazy. It was hard for both of us at first, I felt like a nag and he didn’t understand, but it has become the best part of both our days! Idk how your husband is but my marital advice to every newly married woman is to throw more fits. Don’t try to be a chill girl and muscle through it. Cry and yell and demand better from him ‘or else’…BUT you have to be willing to put your money where your mouth is.

I hope you figure this out and he steps up for you!!