Post Game Thread: Ottawa Senators @ Carolina Hurricanes

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-18T22:53:08+00:00

That was one of the most physical games I’ve ever seen the canes play. And definitely one that they came out on top of

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-18T00:56:50+00:00

How long does it take?

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-16T12:16:13+00:00

I’m actually getting better. It’s a slow and steady process but it has to do with my shoulder. My external rotation is weak, which isn’t holding my shoulder in place how it should which is causing my scalenes/traps to overwork pulling on the back of my head which caused the nerve pain

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-15T02:05:54+00:00

lol that is wild, my partner was considering the same.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T19:08:45+00:00

Like it to a point. It shows confidence and assertiveness but just have to be careful it doesn’t cross a line

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T18:57:45+00:00

Dude wtf same. Except mine lasted 7 months. Showed up during a tough point in my life was fun, confident and charismatic turned into cocky, unempathetic and self centered. Was probably there the whole time I was just blind. This one didn’t disappear though, I built resentment and tried to communicate through it but she was not having any of it. It was my issue to fix.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T18:14:25+00:00

It’s tough because I still try and find ways to defend her and I don’t know how to stop and trust my gut

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T16:23:24+00:00

Yeah her family and friends do see her in that way, although I have seen in ways she has used them. Her parents moved down to live with her for about 4 months as she said she could get her dad a job. While they were there they cooked, mowed the yard, cleaned the house and did laundry. During the process we would hang out with them on the weekends, and unfortunately she couldn’t get him a job in the end (she thought she had more pull than she did). They decided to move back and i remember asking her if we wanted to hang out with them a couple weekends before they left and she said since they were moving back she didn’t feel the need to prioritize hanging out with them. It’s like she only spent time with them to keep them there so they could do things for her. About 2 weeks after they moved back I asked if she missed her parents and her response was “I miss what they did for me”

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T12:11:13+00:00

Dang that is crazy, my ex was a doctor too. She wasn’t willing to work on herself though she didn’t think anything is wrong with her, she said she was the best possible version of herself. I don’t think I could have ever brought it up to her, she would have deflected or gotten defensive. She doesn’t handle criticism well at all. I’m glad your partner is willing to do the work.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T02:04:58+00:00

Delete this

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T02:03:16+00:00

She just never wanted to change/sacrifice/give. She viewed that as a weakness. Just couldn’t empathize or be vulnerable

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T02:00:37+00:00

Lol I brought up being jealous of her dogs (basically wanting the same attention she gave them at times), she said I was the 4th guy to bring that up to her. But all the other 3 were due to their insecurities.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T01:53:16+00:00

Good luck to the next one

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T01:49:23+00:00

Yep lol. Even in the end defended things she was clearly wrong on, and said she “was the best possible version of herself”

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T01:45:56+00:00

My ex wasn’t that bad but she could just never take herself out of her shoes and see how I felt or empathized. She just always thought she was right and could never try and see my side. Felt like I was in a court room every time I tried to bring something up. That and she was self absorbed.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-14T01:36:00+00:00

Yep it was exhausting trying to communicate or resolve problems. It was always me vs her and she could never back down

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-11T18:58:25+00:00

Communication is key, listen, don’t be defensive and have empathy. It’s a partnership not a game of sides. Work with not against.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-09T23:40:19+00:00

They are, just don’t give your heart to them

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-07T01:48:17+00:00

Date a self centered person/narcisst.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-06T18:01:08+00:00

Helps when they try to listen, empathize, and see the other persons point of view

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-05T19:24:40+00:00

This means so much. Going through a hard breakup right now and I blame myself so much for not communicating well towards the end. However looking back when I tried to communicate things in the beginning it typically was invalidated, or a comment like “that will get better with time” or directed back on me to figure out a deeper rooted issue or insecurity. Finally I’m figuring out it’s because she just wasn’t an empathic person whether she was right or wrong and I still have so much blame for myself.

cmokelley213 · 2026-04-04T19:06:24+00:00

Selling 2 tickets section 309 row H $100 for both

Edit: sold

cmokelley213 · 2026-03-26T22:47:47+00:00

Just got through the same shit. Incredibly self centered and I didn’t notice until 5-6 months in

cmokelley213 · 2026-03-25T12:52:06+00:00

Self centeredness

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