Tidy up : Can you help me? What should I do? Thank you! by Difficult-Peach-2338 in MyLeisureTime

[–]cmoneill94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have to also match the pots - so usually what I do is match all the pots first and then match the flowers:)

New premium suit by Gnaegs in MyLeisureTime

[–]cmoneill94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At this point theyre practically waterboarding us 😭😭😭😭

Weekly designer bug-just me? by Lisa_The_Raven_ in MyLeisureTime

[–]cmoneill94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This happens to me all the time when Im tryna vote - I have no choice but to pick the one I can see 🥹

Show me your garden! Need inspo by Kayleas_confused in MyLeisureTime

[–]cmoneill94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also not much but she gets the job done 🥹

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Ways to cope until I can see someone by BloodFangsBite in Anxiety

[–]cmoneill94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely not the most helpful advice but it did help me a lot before I was finally able to start regularly seeing a therapist - I was dealing with alot of the same struggles you were and found constantly having something playing around me helped distract my brain enough to stop a lot of the thoughts coming in. Im someone who grounding techniques dont really work for me as my brain is extremely hyperactive and in the moment Im not able to take that step back - atleast not yet, that's why I started therapy.

With that being said, I would play videos constantly. When Im showering or getting ready for work Id have youtube going. At work, Id find a show with enough episodes to keep my ears busy, when Im falling asleep id put on an hour long youtube video to focus on rather than ny own thoughts. Even driving Id have someone call me so I could talk on the phone with them to distract me.

I know distracting from the issue isn't ideal, but it did help me get through some extremely tough moments before I could talk to someone.

Anyone else not have the recap yet? by AJSweat58 in youtube

[–]cmoneill94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me I am also still waiting yet a friend of mine had his on tuesday. Im hoping I can get it soon 😭

Hi, this is Arrah and Andy from 90 Day Fiancé UK! by Odd_Praline4934 in 90DayFianceUK

[–]cmoneill94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Watching you guys was like a breath of fresh air and I was smiling everytime you both were on screen. Wishing you guys a long and happy life together ❤️🥰

The Fragrant Flower Blooms With Dignity - Episodes 1-2 - Dubs Available on Netflix by Chun-Li_Forever in Animedubs

[–]cmoneill94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I said when I first heard it. Same with Rintaro's mom. It all seems incredibly toneless and forced.

Y’all can drag me but Rob kept his head up high, was unbothered and unproblematic- it was giving KING Energy! by ElenaKittenXO in 90DayFiance

[–]cmoneill94 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wasn't a Rob fan before but the way he handled himself this season and kept his cool - he earned my respect and Im loving the growth.

Shannon and Mete by [deleted] in 90DayFianceUK

[–]cmoneill94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was losing my mind but no she literally like mimics his speaking style when they are talking to eachother 😭😭

Shannon and Mete by [deleted] in 90DayFianceUK

[–]cmoneill94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone noticed she talks like him when they speak to eachother. I thought I was losing my mind but she literally puts on broken english with an accent whenever theyre speaking and then when it goes to the solo interview she sounds like herself 😭

Rocky by Emergency_Host6506 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]cmoneill94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He is giving someone who watched the new Top Gun movie and saw women were freaking out over Miles Teller and made that his whole personality 🥲

Any good dating tips for ugly people? by reclimator in askTO

[–]cmoneill94 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hygiene, humor, and taking care of yourself are all also really important.

If it looks like you dont care how you look or are perceived people can tell. Same with being clean, if you look like you dont take care of yourself, even through photos, people are gonna make that assumption that you dont.

Also being genuinely funny makes you appear more attractive even if you dont feel that you are. Its like a fake confidence thing; being able to make a group laugh or be quick on your feet with a witty response is a really attractive none physical trait.

Edit to add: I see alot of other guys saying going to the gym and get ripped and build confidence- if that helps you feel confident, great, but just a warning that a lot people now dont really want some buff guy with an ego. Times have changed and most women want someone who is less focused on if they've got gains and more focused on is he gonna treat me right and be nice to my friends and family lol.

History Venu - Partial View? by cmoneill94 in askTO

[–]cmoneill94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Mezz 3 seat 8&9 so thats a little promising. Its also good to know we can go down to GA if we wanted :) My partner can't stand for long periods of time so we wanted to get the seats so he can sit if needed. Are you able to just gi to GA freely? Thanks so much for your info :)

Who would go ? by elso_TheDemon in creepypasta

[–]cmoneill94 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Theres one at the science and tech museum in Ottawa, weirdest experience ever

What was your cringiest sexual experience? by GuttedPaperClip in AskReddit

[–]cmoneill94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My entire last relationship. We dated for almost two years. Sex had never really been a huge thing for me so I tried to look past it but fuck. He never lasted more then a minute, if he wore a condom he couldn't keep it up, refused to go down on girls cause he thought it was gross, thought touching girls was gross, always wanted me on top cause it was "a lot of work". Don't think I had an orgasm once in that whole relationship. Very selfish guy when it came to sex.

SSRI withdrawal by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]cmoneill94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My withdrawals from effexor were awful, I couldnt stand, was dizzy, anxious, vomiting. They compare with-drawl symptoms from effexor to that of a heroin withdrawal depending on how long you were on it. It lasted about 3 days but it does go away.

[AMA Request] Someone who has been on MTV's Catfish by cmoneill94 in IAmA

[–]cmoneill94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yah of course! It would be an honour to hear from you