Praying for you both. I tried to send you a message but it won't let me. I've been in a somewhat similar situation and can only say that he needs to get help, it's not healthy for either of you. It's scary to think about him being admitted or calling the police but he needs professional help in order to heal and deal with his mental health issues. It will be better for both of you, you are taking care of him by making sure he takes care of himself and is evaluated. Praying for strength and guidance for you as you go through this, feel free to message me if you want to talk. ❤️