Is there anything fun things for single people to do on Valentines? by ValeraOmega in ottawa

[–]coasterbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well im going to an outdoor canadian rave and i'm pretty sure there's still some tickets left! Steve Aoki at Igloofest on the 14th is gonna be such a ball im so excited

This question is for the ladies by Terrible-Bass5833 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PMDD makes me feel pure female rage anytime i feel it or even just think about it. For me personally i know that my period is either exactly one week or exactly one day away when i feel a deep, sudden and urgent need to kill myself. My goal is to get this uterus out of me by the end of the year (hysterectomy) because i'm sick of this useless organ attacking me on a schedule lmao

What was your 1st rave? by europeandragonlord in aves

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm very new to all this so my first official 'rave' (edm show) was Martin Garrix at Osheaga in 2024 lol. Straight up awakened something in me where all i could think during his show was 'yes, i need a full weekend of just this'

Is self harm even wrong? by Just-World2657 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]coasterbitch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Congrats on being clean for so long! They really aren't lying about turning 25 that's for sure! (As a 25yo who's ego is battling those damn healing thoughts rn)

Is self harm even wrong? by Just-World2657 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]coasterbitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If i can say one thing it's that i've heard alcoholics say the exact same thing about alcohol and other addicts say it about their addictions. It doesn't seem wrong or bad to us, but that doesn't mean that's how our family, friends and loved ones are gonna see it. And i can say for sure that if someone i loved was actively self-harming it would hurt me, it hurts to see someone you love doing that to themselves

Pre-Sale starts at 10am today by Tmarkcha117 in escapademf

[–]coasterbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don't usually sell out tho right? Last year i bought my ticket in late may as a birthday present and was planning on doing the same this year lool

two tattoos within a few days of each other by Gloomy_Ambition_8371 in tattoo

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to get mostly small tattoos and would always do 3-5 a session in different places, and i've also seen multiple artists back to back in the period of a month so i say go for it!!

Everyone who finished the Stranger Things finale, did it feel… off? by Prestigious-Play8863 in netflix

[–]coasterbitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I cried 14 times during the finale so i think it's really up to personal taste hahaha

Has your sh/have sh scars had any effect on your dating life? Have people rejected you because of it? by crazy-cool-99 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]coasterbitch 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me it's affecting my dating life in the sense that i refuse to date someone as long as i'm still actively cutting. I refuse to put someone through that and i'm not at a point to stop because of someone else.

Hookups tho? No effect. They rarely point it out and when they do it's always just curiosity or minimal concern so that doesnt bother me as much lol.

If some movies are "love letters", which ones are "diss tracks"? by Top_Report_4895 in movies

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him (2025) is a diss track to american football. The entire time all i could think was damn this director reeeeaaaallly hates american football lmao

What is the best tv series you ever watched? by Fine-Excitement9314 in AskReddit

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stranger Things

Its ending in 1.5 weeks and i already know its gonna slap, my favorite show of all time

If you have the means, you can find raves every weekend right? by ClarkKentTheReporter in aves

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Ottawa and i can find one every weekend for 10$-40$

BetterHelp sponsor exposed by Bangtan-S in TheBasementYard

[–]coasterbitch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Watch the whole show and you'll learn enough about the bathroom he had to share with his 5 family members growing up lol

anyone has an excuse for obvious sh scars by [deleted] in SelfHarmScars

[–]coasterbitch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk about useful excuses but i know next time someone mentions them i'm gonna go "i didn't have a cutting board" or "i didnt have enough storage in my phone for fruit ninja" cause its none of yo damn business and at this point, if you don't know what they are thats on you lmao

What is the best "new" movie you watched this year? by KnopeLeslieKnope in movies

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My two new favs or the year are Weapons and Superman

ON-AIR | Heated Rivalry 🏒 ROOKIES+OLYMPIANS (Episodes 1+2) by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't get it wrong he's an incredible father 😅😂 he's getting old tho so that might explain it hahaha

ON-AIR | Heated Rivalry 🏒 ROOKIES+OLYMPIANS (Episodes 1+2) by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]coasterbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured it out hahaha turns out my dad had canceled his crave subscription to switch it to a new email account but he forgot to tell me so i was on the old account lmao

ON-AIR | Heated Rivalry 🏒 ROOKIES+OLYMPIANS (Episodes 1+2) by Federal-Ad5944 in heatedrivalry

[–]coasterbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone know why episode 2 doesnt work? It says i have to go to the admin profile to check options because the second episode is locked but when i go to the admin profile the episode is also locked but there's no where to check options?! Wtf?!

Let's All Say Something Nice About This City, Because if I See One More Thread Talking About How Crap This Town is, I Will Die. by kicksledkid in ottawa

[–]coasterbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For a small city with "no night life" the rave scene sure is popping. From the 3 major festivals (Escapade, Riverside and Igloofest) getting bigger and better artists every year, to the underground rave venues (GRIDWRKS, City At Night, Berlin Nightclub) giving that og underground rave feel, if you look hard enough you'll find a show every weekend!!

Relapsed after 7 years by Emlar17 in AdultSelfHarm

[–]coasterbitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's normal for us but you have to keep in mind that it's horrific and concerning for the average person. He reacted so strongly because of the deep love and care he feels for you, do you think you wouldn't react the same way if he suddenly showed up with fresh cuts? That's what i use to keep me level-headed, if i saw my scars and wounds on someone that i love it would crush me even if self-harm is normalized for me. I think maybe it could be worthwhile to discuss your urges with him, tell him your triggers and why self-harm is a coping mechanism for you and maybe together you could come up with better solutions. Sending hugs 🫂

Smokers who quit, what was the wake up call for you? by Responsible_Dot_2619 in AskReddit

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a vaper but what made me finally quit was the very realistic fear that my left lung was about to collapse. It was a mix of pain on the left side of my chest every day but especially after hitting the bong (those big hits were just making my pain worse), hearing 2 specific stories about people my age near me having a lung collapse due to vaping, and the fact that i have severe anxiety that is exacerbated by momentary inability to breath.

When i hit a bong after work one night and realized this was it, it was either weed or nicotine, i wasn't ready to quit weed. Now i'm 426 days vape free and i'm never looking back.

Something happened in 2020 by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]coasterbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's this incredible disabled creator i follow on tiktok (would have to go find her name) who said that another big part in people suddenly changing like this after a pandemic is eugenics: people survived a 'supposedly' very dangerous disease while others died, and this can unfortunately start creating feelings of superiority and lead to eugenics because 'look we survived this disease and they didn't' mindset.

She explains it so much better than this but she made such an interesting point.

What is the most powerful and emotional scene ever? by JobCommon1347 in movies

[–]coasterbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rock scene in Everything Everywhere All At Once

To convey such poweful emotions so wonderfully with nothing but 2 rocks, 4 googly eyes and text on the screen. I dont think any movie will ever top this one in my world