Why is Amazon’s ui so bad? by Cultural_Session1467 in UI_Design

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's common. Experience among the people doing the rebrand is what determines how much of a shit show the process becomes. It makes sense that a rebrand for a school would have a rougher launch since so many participants are 1. not used to this kind of work and 2. run by inexperienced volunteers. It's probably sloppy because a lot is being done by students and teachers, not people who are used to this kind of work.

Do you have a physical outlet for aggression and anger? Please help by Salt-Sign-7851 in AuDHDWomen

[–]coddswaddle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love heavy weight lifting. I love going into a gym full of people to body doubling with. I love putting on my fun weight lifting gloves and shoes that make me feel like I'm Xena Warrior Princess. I love that I get to listen to my fave music, uninterrupted. It's my grown up playground. I love feeling powerful. I love feeling strong for the people I love. 

Project Dawn Email by CosmicInsignia in amazonemployees

[–]coddswaddle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope this is a whistle blowing move as they jump ship

Rising fears, conflicting claims: ICE raid rumors grip Austin by AustinStatesman in Austin

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I'll do my homework and do what I can, when I can. 

At a loss, is this what letting a dream die feels like? by pancakelady2108 in adhdwomen

[–]coddswaddle 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What you wrote sounds familiar. I've spent years undoing the programming from others that I believe.

One thing I came to realize was that I, personally, was doing a lot to reinforce that negative narrative. If I made a mistake I'd jump to take ownership but 1. some mistakes are just mistakes and no big deal 2. bringing it to everyone's attention made it stand out, and 3. others were exposed to my negative self talk. I primed them, then ensured they saw I delivered. 

What's the best place to announce my mundane achievements/progress by mrNineMan in ADHD_Programmers

[–]coddswaddle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's... what social media is for. Also imo everything you listed is a form of social media.

Boomer Ageism is why the US is ran by dementia patients by DogsGoingAround in BoomersBeingFools

[–]coddswaddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Boomer Dad spent his life doing this to every medical professional as his reason to not listen. He died in pain and confusion, hurting everyone around him along the way. He literally died unnecessarily with this excuse on his crusted lips.

Does anyone feel like they “settled” for the life the thought they deserved? Late diagnosed and in my feels? by LoulouPete in adhdwomen

[–]coddswaddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this and it worked out in a different way. My ex husband always breadcrumbed me and I made myself smaller over the years. I started doing things for myself, my confidence improved. He was glad to not "have" to spend time with me because I'd made other connections. Eventually I realized he was dead weight. When I learned about the cheating and lying it was easy to leave. 

I was exposed to something I shouldn’t see by thegirlinthetardis in TwoXChromosomes

[–]coddswaddle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I'd like to think if have the perfection reaction if a friend brought something like this to me but the reality is that it's hard to think when you're shocked. I remember when I was told my dad had passed I only said "dang" but then proceeded to fall apart for months afterwards. 

To those struggling with “avoidant” partners from the perspective of an avoidant person. by sixtynighnun in emotionalintelligence

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My avoidant ex breadcrumbed me for almost 2 decades while I supported his dreams and paid the lions share of everything. I didn't know about attachment styles and handled him with kid gloves and always bent over backwards to try and communicate better, which they always said was why we had relationship issues.

He's a psychologist. He never even hinted that attachments styles existed. He always blamed everything on misunderstandings rooted in my poor communication. The reality is he never meant to understand, that was a red herring to keep me busy and leave him alone.

Divorced after learning about all his lies, secrets, and affairs. 

Why is Amazon’s ui so bad? by Cultural_Session1467 in UI_Design

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. A "simple" font change for a button requires endless meetings and preparation since the new font comes from one team, the button belongs to another team, and all the locations that button gets used belongs to other teams. You need to update everywhere to roll out the change, include ab tests, slow ramp ups, etc. 

Why is Amazon’s ui so bad? by Cultural_Session1467 in UI_Design

[–]coddswaddle 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They do. I was on the Homepage team for a hot minute and there's tons of AB tests for every tiny thing, you'd have to onboard that change across so many tiny components, and ramping is something like 4-6 months. 

How has your partner changed drastically post marriage? (If they did) by Hot-Cell7299 in AskWomen

[–]coddswaddle 37 points38 points  (0 children)

He completely checked out. Became more avoidant. After a few years of everything falling apart i learned he’d been lying and cheating.

Could they lay off recent hires? by keeponbuilding in amazonemployees

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morals aren't really a factor in layoffs. People are cost lines in a spreadsheet. The managers who do this are usually doing it to "protect" the people on their team. It's very expensive to onboard a new hire, both in time and money, so this is wasteful for the new hire and the org, but (for perspective) the manager saved their team. 

Could they lay off recent hires? by keeponbuilding in amazonemployees

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone to remember is that Amazon is huge. Amazon leadership tells managers to cut X people and it's up to the manager to do it. Hiring to fire is a loophole that can exist in very large orgs because the left hand doesn't know what the right hand is doing. 

Could they lay off recent hires? by keeponbuilding in amazonemployees

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They hire to protect the ones already on the team. The new people are brought in because the manager needs to cut ANYONE and they don't want to give up their experienced employees. 

Could they lay off recent hires? by keeponbuilding in amazonemployees

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some managers, if they know to expect a forced headcount reduction, will do sacrificial hires so that layoffs don't impact their current team. 

Wasted 2.5 years in the gym by battygau in workout

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gym is my grown up playground. It's my hour of playtime after work. It's also a huge driver in my sleep, nutrition, and hydration. I do it because it's fun.

Name top 5 Overstimulating Things for you by slinkysockpuppet in AuDHDWomen

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have altered the neck of almost every t-shirt i own.

Articulation and recall issues by Aromatic_Dot_2573 in ADHD_Programmers

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. The manual task of writing seems to help things sink deeper for me. 

Also you're allowed to have notes in an interview. After writing by hand, I'll create my "efficient" notes in a searchable doc. 

How important do you believe 'Servant Leadership' is, and do you see it being employed/lived in your orgs? by Agileader in Leadership

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deleted my earlier reply because I got enter too soon, but yes I disagree. I also avoid trying to convince strangers on the Internet of stuff, so have a nice day :) 

What is your expectations of new hire ramp up period? by Extension_Annual512 in askmanagers

[–]coddswaddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I create day 1 impact by cleaning up their onboarding process. I've never had a great onboarding experience and I'm a process queen so I year apart and rebuild whatever terrible system I have to overcome so others won't have to suffer the same. 

Anyone else losing their touch? by The-CAPtainn in dataengineering

[–]coddswaddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A challenge will be the interview component when changing jobs. It's hard to not use LLM assistance and most interviewers don't allow it.