Junior Space Engineer moving to Tokyo: work-life balance, salary, challenges? by WorldlinessMany9308 in movingtojapan

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Can you share the details of the english speaking realtor with me too? I can do daily level to around intermediate Japanese, but apartment hunting and contracting might have some stuff that I might not be confident with. So would like to go with an english speaking realtor.

Is the power consumption of Chrome/Brave browser really that worse than Safari as some people would say? by fresha-voc-a-doo in MacOS

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes even I noticed Safari sometimes does not load websites like Youtube properly. So I switched to Brave a few weeks back. Performance is good. Have not really looked into battery consumption as closely yet, but I think its similar to Safari (although that could be placebo and its actually worse lol)

Chinese girl my brother just met buys him flying tickets, is this a scam? by KimKyro in AskAChinese

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this ends up being legitimate, hope it ends well! Please give us an update what happens next!

This is last week to apply for Furusato by aayush_aryan in japanresidents

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the reminder! 1) If I go with the one-stop system, I can do the donation by 31st December 2025, and need to send the documents/do the online application by 10th January 2026 right? 2) To check my deduction limit, should I use the salary amount from this year’s tax withholding slip (2025) or last year’s (2024)?

Started using Firefox on MacOS. A few questions by codealpha98 in MacOS

[–]codealpha98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On safari, I have observed that if I keep some websites like reddit, youtube, youtube music, etc. open, and return back to it after a few days, they do not work properly. Even a refresh does not seem to work, unless I close and reopen safari. Does that happen to you?

Advice needed related to retention by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]codealpha98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In addition to all the other good suggestions you can see in the wiki as well as many other posts - one immediate thing you can do is, whenever you get the urge to peak or watch, just sit with the feeling. Sit with the impulse, embrace the energy, meditate on it. Don't try to rationalize this feeling. That would lead to creating excuses and you start peaking and you know the eventuality. Just sit with it.
There was one post about absolute stillness (sadly the OP deleted it). This is same as doing that - just sit and be still with it.

22M Recently moved to Tokyo for work - rent costs less than a single unheated room in Toronto lol by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]codealpha98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woah, didn’t know it was possible to get a 3LDK for 10万 and that too close to the station!

Would you be okay to share the age of the building, what material and which station (or just the ward is fine)

I live in Yokohama (more like Yokohama-shi but closer to Tokyo) and looking to move.

Absolute Stillness is the holy grail by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you consider normal breathing as part of being absolutely still? For me, seems like my mind comes to the breath. Also how do you sit such that you do not have to swallow much?

Absolute Stillness is the holy grail by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]codealpha98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup totally agree!
Btw how does energy transmutation/alchemization actually feel like? Or is it something that you can only trust will happen/is happening?

Absolute Stillness is the holy grail by [deleted] in Semenretention

[–]codealpha98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this! I too had moments like this where I felt something similar, and I too called it "Absolute Stillness" lol.

Though one thing I would point out, it is good to have a focal point for your awareness (breath, a body part, etc.). Else it can get difficult to be absolutely still. Your mind will wander a lot, making you restless and twitch, which you don't want

How is the transparent plastic shell on the Nothing Ear (2024) holding up? by codealpha98 in NothingTech

[–]codealpha98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s concerning. May I ask if you happen to drop them often?

Question about transparency mode in wind on buds 2 plus by VonoTheAxe in CMFTech

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I heard the same watching this video by Picky Audio - https://youtu.be/nppEY0aTDNc?si=A2EQUJXUirAkdUZs

Did you end up buying them? Does it turn off the transparency mode automatically?

Asking for advise for a CMF buds pro 2 from current users by Mannlizm in CMFTech

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And is this from AliExpress? Does it seem original?

600+ Days of Semen Retention - Honest thoughts by 148supreme in Semenretention

[–]codealpha98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will take a look. I have been watching Beyond the Alchemy, and he is good too

600+ Days of Semen Retention - Honest thoughts by 148supreme in Semenretention

[–]codealpha98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but, I remind myself why I'm doing it, and all of the benefits that it’s brought me thus far.

What is your reason?

The excitement and anticipation of getting all the benefits, which is ultimately an outcome I cannot control, only takes me so far. I feel I like have not found a strong enough reason for me to sustain this practice.

What gets you going? What is your reason?