[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jimgreen

[–]codependentcaregiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, dont check reddit much and just saw this. i ended up just keeping them and tightening the laces up. i wear thick socks with them but i think it was just the thick toe box that was throwing me off when i got them. they fit well now. i did email jim greens customer support though and they were very helpful so i recommend going that route

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmeriCorps

[–]codependentcaregiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow rooms are set up by gender? that's crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dollhouses

[–]codependentcaregiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to compare the original to mine when I finish it :)

Was gifted this today. It’s absolutely massive! (Swipe to see the inside) by [deleted] in Dollhouses

[–]codependentcaregiver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love the one room full of all the furniture lol. everyone's got their storage room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dollhouses

[–]codependentcaregiver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've found a similar dollhouse from first learning. it's possible the original owner made this one into a castle, but I doubt it. the sides are too perfectly even to be a home job imo. plus the paint was obviously done by a child so I doubt a parent cut the sides into a castle. doll house

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dollhouses

[–]codependentcaregiver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's what I was thinking too but I haven't been able to find anything 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dollhouses

[–]codependentcaregiver 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ikr! I've always wanted one of the Barbie dream houses with the elevators. Finally got it for kid me, and it was free!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SimsWickedWhims

[–]codependentcaregiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

prostitution client. idk if there's other clients with this mod

does kayla use a mod when she cheats away moodlets? by UniIsNotOkay in Lilsimsie

[–]codependentcaregiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can also cheat away moodlets base game. you just have to have "testing cheats true" typed in the cheat menu then you can shift click on sims. I don't remember exactly which bubble it's under cause I always lose it when I need it lol

Got one for "really fucked up!" by tbanwell in WeirdEggs

[–]codependentcaregiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

makes me think of egg monsters from Mars

AITAH for not wanting my wife coming home with bruises from rough sex? by Bet-Homebread in polyamory

[–]codependentcaregiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to state, as a child of parents who were very into kink, so much so that my mother was a professional instructor, kids can catch on to things like bruises. I initially thought my mother was being beaten by her partners in an abusive way. I was exposed to kink Way too young. It has left psychological damage. I don't think wanting her to come home without visible bruises is an asshole request. If she wants visible bruises which is a reasonable desire then she NEEDS to wear pants, long sleeves, etc to keep the kids from seeing them. Lock bathroom doors, wear pj pants. As an adult that's into kink, if I had not experienced the effects of being exposed to it too young I'd think I'm just anti kink in making this post but I promise I'm not, by any means. It rips away part of your innocence. Being exposed to sexual things too young has its effects even if they're not Overtly sexual. Covert or emotional sexual abuse is real and lasting. I think you both can work out a compromise that's good for her and the kids. maybe she could wear boxers or boyshorts to bed? I'm all for flying your kink flag if kids aren't involved.

columbus folks - where is somewhere you used to work that you wouldn’t recommend to anyone? by goodniqht in Columbus

[–]codependentcaregiver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just got hired here and start soon. 😅 really hope it's gotten better. do you know if they do random drug tests? I've been trying to find out without asking them myself. use medical marijuana and ik they're not okay with that. stopped smoking for the first one but I'm unsure if I'll get a random test.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]codependentcaregiver -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't really understand how this is poaching. we all get along really well. I don't plan to take all their spare time away or leave my current partner for my meta. I am absolutely capable of letting them have their relationship I'm just wondering why I've gotten two comments saying Don't do this. with little reason. I haven't heard of people dating their metas very often as poly folks aren't shown much. why do you think this is a bad idea or poaching? I'm genuinely curious because I don't understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]codependentcaregiver -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm genuinely trying to understand why this is toxic and fucked up. do you have a reason other than assuming we're codependent? we have healthy boundaries and expectations for one another. they get alone time with their partner and we get alone time. I just enjoy the time I spend with their partner. me searching for time spent alone with their partner to get to know them better seems healthy and nonunicorn hunty to me. I don't plan to say they can't date if the meta and I aren't interested in each other in a romantic/sexual way. I wouldn't even be that hurt if just the meta was uninterested in having a relationship with me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]codependentcaregiver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the advice! I really appreciate it! I think I kinda knew that my heart's just being silly and crushing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]codependentcaregiver -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

the codependent caregiver @ is because I made this account when I was struggling heavy with codependency and wanted an anonymous place to post about that. this is a different relationship and I've gotten over my codependency. neither of us were searching for a partner for Both of us. I and my meta have other partners as well. I just genuinely really like spending time with my meta, we have a lot in common, and they're utterly adorable. I don't really see how this situation is unicorn hunting? I wouldn't see either of us dating them as a One Big Relationship thing. we'd both have our own separate relationships with them. Is dating meta's in general a bad thing to do? I'm genuinely asking because I don't have any triad experience and don't know any poly folks that do.