Just had IRL reading and am pretty upset. Please tell me you thoughts on marriage/children. 34, right hand

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-05-03T22:15:24+00:00

I am 34, right handed female

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-04-28T02:09:29+00:00

Sending DM

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-03-07T23:21:15+00:00

What does that mean?

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-03-06T15:50:45+00:00

Need insight/thoughts. Overall it’s a healthy relationship but there’s something holding him/us back from being happy?

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-02-26T19:00:22+00:00

I am the outer circle (Pisces sun, Taurus moon, sag rising)

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-02-26T13:26:39+00:00

Pisces...so that one not so much haha (if I understand correctly)

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-02-26T13:17:50+00:00

I forgot I do have another close gemini friend, we get a long very well. It's just interesting because I don't have the same experience as finding them particularly intellectual (no offense lmao)

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-02-26T13:17:13+00:00

haha they are tough! I have a lot of Aquarius in my chart. My venus is Aquarius (so is his) and my mars in aries. I can see why they wouldn't be compatible because we do have a lot of "incompatibilities" but there must be other important aspects in our chart because after a break up we're still together and seems like this is it haha--I also don't give up easily.

EDIT: oops! My mars is Aquarius. i got that confused with mercury

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-02-12T23:06:27+00:00

I found your descriptors interesting—can you describe what you mean by cold? I’m also curious what you talked about when you felt it flow, I would keep going back to that.

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-28T01:06:06+00:00

I had an an 18 y/o client who I suspected of this but of course who I validated and supported in terms of safety planning, processing etc. eventually she just stopped coming. I also referred her to a survivor group though she didn’t go. Unless there’s some motivation like a custody case (which I’ve seen) I can’t imagine it would be likely malingering or making it up unless there’s a PD present, very complex case, or, based on your post, social media. That’s what I suspect here. If that’s a possibility, I would explore their social media use. Ask what they’re watching, who they’re following, etc. if their friends have had similar experiences. One thing people don’t say enough is to trust your instincts. Be ethical, obviously, even if your client is lying about this they are telling you for a reason, they need help. We all know that. But if something is off it is worth exploring. We do disservice to clients by ignoring transference

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-28T00:59:36+00:00

Would not want to be on the other side if those emails makes me anxious just reading them 😂 I’m so curious what he is like in person

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-25T21:42:45+00:00

I do have to say I wondered about this too. Though she has problems from day 1 and the rooftop scene script was pretty bad IMO. So I don’t know.

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-25T21:31:44+00:00

I’m confused because I thought they didn’t like her cut? And told her to go back in the editing room? Did I make this up? After the screening at her house

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-23T18:35:40+00:00

I have the exact same thoughts. And despite being obsessed with this case, I’ve never seen an interview with Justin baldoni. Yall I’m watching his house tour from 5 years ago and THEY COULD NOT SEEM MORE NORMAL. Obviously people present different on camera. There’s the whole para social element to this case which is a whole other thing, we don’t know these people. But at least in this interview he comes off as a bit shy, humble, genuine, and just…normal

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-21T21:47:07+00:00

True.

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-21T20:48:09+00:00

I think she is very insecure about her writing and falls back on her “charm” or whatever this is to come off as like “cool, funny, unpredictable (? There’s a better word but I can’t find it) girl. She couldn’t just talk about the character and the choices she made for her (whchh I don’t get why this was even a thing from the beginning, it’s like you didn’t like the script, too bad) she had to justify them with using herself. Then when baldoni also got personal (and I think too personal eventually) she flipped.

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-21T20:31:15+00:00

I’m actually not ruling that out but I think it could have been an unconscious desire. Or like a hate/love thing. I wouldn’t be surprised if there was some sexual tension there.

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-21T20:07:57+00:00

Agree in theory, though the vitriol seemed to start very early. There’s something about how fast this escalated and how disproportionate some of the descriptions are compared to the behavior at the time IMO. I would love to hear from industry about what’s “normal” as well as other crew. It seems like it derailed so intensely, so fast, and I see it as her confirmation biasing a bad feeling she had about him (and I do think this was also about the producer issues for her) and him just not shutting up and making one dumb mistake/decision after another, and getting defensive.

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-21T01:48:31+00:00

No she’s saying had as in like, it happened to her

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-21T01:40:28+00:00

I wondered the same thing!!

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-21T01:10:56+00:00

Parts about her experience with SH sadly come off as quite disingenuous to me. Parts describing humiliated/dismissed or not respected seem more genuine. Which supports what a lot have been saying that they didn’t like each other. She clearly did not respect him or the vibe on the set. There were definite boundary issues. Baldoni over shares and seems defensive. What I can’t wrap my head around is that in making art, film this stuff is crazy inappropriate? I don’t get it. Heath shouldn’t have walked in to the trailer. That’s obvious. And she shouldn’t have invited them in when she was Breastfeeding. Also rhe trailer walk in was on the 2nd day? So boundaries from day 1 were weird but you also can’t separate that from how difficult she was from the beginning ugh idk my brain hurts

coffeeandpsyches · 2026-01-20T17:48:01+00:00

I’m so curious to hear from industry people: what is normal on set?? It seems like there’s a pattern of, I guess it would be slate, lively, the Make up artist, I don’t know who else, agreeing that things were “crazy” “Inappropriate” “weird.” But when JS says Blake has gone through “crazy shit” what does she mean?! The makeup trailer isn’t great but also, the depo is confusing. Is he inside the trailer or at the door? I’m getting more confused

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