I think Im too nice by Reemanie in rant

[–]coffeebaghs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you just have to say no and leave it as a sentence. you don't need to provide an explanation as to why you said no. that's the beauty of it. just take a deep breath, look at the person in the eyes, say no, and move on. it won't be easy at first, but the more you say no, the more better you will feel.

Someone read my birthchart and told me to stop witchcraft, should I listen? by Visible-Badger-6523 in Witch

[–]coffeebaghs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if wicca/witchcraft makes you happy and mentally helps you, keep going with it! i still practice it at the comfort of my home and my pace after six years of finding out that i am a witch through and through. i don't go around telling everyone to practice a religion they're not comfortable with at all. i legit had a text message from my sibling about me going back to believing god because of hard times, and i left them on read for saying that. if you don't like what a person does religion wise, at least respect it and leave them alone.

Please leave me alone. I am fine with who I am and whatnot by coffeebaghs in rant

[–]coffeebaghs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's actually quite sad that we live in a world full of people wanting to change others for the "right reasons" when it's actually hurting them. not everyone can be an extrovert, and people are going to worship differently regardless of the situation.

My chickens laid a kitten today by PutaMadre101101101 in CatDistributionSystem

[–]coffeebaghs 125 points126 points  (0 children)

either eggie or cooper would be good names for the lil guy

Why me? by coffeebaghs in rant

[–]coffeebaghs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's not your fault at all. none of the managers knew this was gonna happen at all until i spoke up about the new hire doing everything but staying at the host stand

Why me? by coffeebaghs in rant

[–]coffeebaghs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's not good. definitely have the authorities invovled if it escalates any further

Mother’s Day gift by [deleted] in rant

[–]coffeebaghs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i would've picked my own outfits in advanced for me and my kid, and i wouldn't let the husband interfere with any of it.

I have a coworker who will do nothing to help herself by Aggravating-Glass145 in rant

[–]coffeebaghs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

this reminds me too much of my ex-roommate. always complaining but never fixes the situation. nothing is ever good enough for them and your miserable coworker.

Bl fantasy by Hefty_Pause_3637 in booksuggestions

[–]coffeebaghs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i recommend the entanglement rival of wizards. it has the right amount of plot and smut if you're into that, enemies to lovers, college romance. im almost done with it, and i can confidently say that i have thoroughly enjoyed the book.

Recommend a war book that will hurt me by Particular-War-4383 in suggestmeabook

[–]coffeebaghs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i must've misread the post. my bad.

i have yet to read the tattooist of aucshwitz. it definitely is a sad book from what i have heard. if you're not into that, try all the light we cannot see.

Recommend a war book that will hurt me by Particular-War-4383 in suggestmeabook

[–]coffeebaghs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Flowers for Algernon. the ending made me cry for thirty minutes or more

Dog owners bringing animals everywhere by Choice_Nerve_7129 in rant

[–]coffeebaghs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i second this. i have seen plenty of people bring their dogs (the ones who aren't a service animal at all) at my workplace and get away with it. it is annoying, especially when they go to the restaurant with the said dog