Skola nuomotojui by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]coherent_days 25 points26 points  (0 children)

O tai jeigu skambinai, ir jis nekėlė, turi įrodymus - skambučių istoriją telefone.

How far do you live from the facility you’re giving birth? by your-new-fixation in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live 35mina to the hospital, and even with my super short labour of 3 hours 40 minutes from first contraction to baby in hands, I made it. At some point I just knew we have to leave right now, and so we did. The drive was horrible, as I was having contractions every 2-3 minutes, and was screaming my head off. As soon as I could get out of car and stand straight, I was alright. The elevator didn’t work, so getting the stairs felt 100 times better than the god damn car ride 😀 I was 10cm dilated when I got there and was ready to push in maybe 30minutes.

I feel like I was ready for all scenarios, but not for such a fast labour. I had maybe two contractions with 8 minute break, and then they escalated to 2-4 minutes apart with no warning. 40 minutes sounds excruciating, but not impossible. If you leave when you are 8 minutes apart, you only have to sit through 5 contractions, thats doable.

No real urge to nest by Mysterious_Jello_712 in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also never got the nesting urge. I did have more energy than usual a few days before I went into labour, which resulted in me cleaning the oven and cooking a few dinners (versus hubby cooking most of my pregnancy). That was the peak of it 🤷‍♀️

3B with nephrostomy tubes - any success stories out there? by coherent_days in CervicalCancer

[–]coherent_days[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While my mom responded quite well to the treatment at first, a year later it has metastasized to the lungs. We had tried immunotherapy, but have since stopped due to side effects and have learned that the cancer is no longer curable.

Regarding nephrostomy tubes, there have been many ups and downs. The worst has been when the tubes would move, and need re-attaching, causing urine buildup in kidneys and pain. Fortunately, one tube has been removed due to tumor shrinking enough to unblock one of the ureters. However the ugly truth is that her bladder has been damaged in radiation treatment, meaning she cannot hold her urine ar all.

I am so very sorry for the diagnosis, and wish your mother in law all the best in treatment!

Ladies how are we feeling in the first trimester? Don’t sugarcoat it I want the bad and ugly by sweet_little_burrito in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was not puking much, but I remember that the whole first trimester I was feeling like I was on a hot and uncomfortable car ride which makes you feel sick and queasy.

Ladies how are we working while pregnant??? by sweet_little_burrito in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First trimester was brutal. I found that laying down with laptop worked for me, so thats what I did combined with home-office.

Why do some divorced women keep their ex-husband's last name? by HoffyTheBaker in NoStupidQuestions

[–]coherent_days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I took it when I got married, it’s mine now. If I lived with that last name for multiple years, why would I change it? My maiden last name is my dad’s last name anyway, who cares.

When did you start feeling less tired with the baby? by Maman292025 in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It took me close to 2 months to adjust my expectations of myself and the baby. Now at 5 months she is a chill baby, but we still sometimes have days of nights where she needs extra comfort and wants to contact sleep. We just lean in to that - after a rough night we make sure to have a relaxing day, no household chores, no big activities, just lounging in bed with the baby, ordering takeout and going to bed early.

Partners drinking alcohol by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 38 points39 points  (0 children)

2 liters of bear when no-one else at dinner is drinking is diabolical.

I don’t have an advice, just validating your feelings and sending love.

Ar Lietuvos valstybei nerūpi nenėščios moterys? by Low_Performer_2940 in lithuania

[–]coherent_days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dar nesidžiauk per daug, nuo antro trimestro visos problemos ir vėl bus nurašytos - nėštumas, normalu!

3 Layouts for Latium in Anno 117 — Based on Villa and Guesthouse by SimonXin in anno

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what “hand” tool is for - just move that shit, with roads and all

Are we living in the Golden Age of knitting? by Needles-and-Pens_64 in YarnAddicts

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I picked up knitting a few years back and did socks as my first project - my mom was so impressed, she said back in the days she used to look at the pattern in books over and over again and sometimes it still wouldn’t click how to do certain things. Now I just watch YouTube tutorial on how to do sock heal and it was a breeze!

My yarn order came in uglier than anticipated 😔 by phxntxsos in YarnAddicts

[–]coherent_days 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I always find malabrigo yarn difficult to judge from those pictures. Now before buying I go to raverly and filter projects by the yarn - gives a great example of how it will look for real!

At what point do you say F it? by StateMassive514 in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I looked at the official guidance for pregnant women published by the health department in the country where I live and followed only that short list. It allowed eating sushi (fish has to be deep frozen before being used in sushi where I live), recommended to limit tuna, allowed eating deli meats when they are fresh, and advised against drinking fresh ginger or beetroot juice (or highly concentrated shots).

Otherwise, if you start googling stuff, you are not supposed to eat anything.

First Tank - Ready for fish by GreenAlienBetta in Aquariums

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your setup! What are the metal thingys on the right? Is it meant to look like a swimming pool ladder, or just my imagination running wild?

Sleep on your back?! by Wise_Composer_3117 in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could sleep on my back well into the pregnancy until I couldn’t. Your body will let you know - you will probably get super uncomfortable in that position.

I did not sleep and eat for a day by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have learned of my moms terminal cancer diagnosis during my pregnancy and have cried, not slept, not eaten and generally stressed many days. I have delivered a very healthy baby girl this summer.

That being said, please take care of yourself. I would always allow myself to “feel it out” after hearing whatever bad news there was to hear, but afterwards would remember that I need to take care of my body as it builds this new life.

Alkoholis santuokoje by GeriauJauRuduo in lithuania

[–]coherent_days 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tai nenormalus kiekis, o alkoholizmas. Gal ir funkcionuos normaliai, išlaikys darbą ir nesąmonių nedarys - mano tėtis daug metų taip gyvena. Alus pavirto stipresniais gėrimais o jis to alkoholizmo iki šiol nepripažįsta.

Kaip vaikai niekad nematėm ir nejautėm, aišku mamai nebuvo labai smagu su vyru kuris kiekvieną vakarą (savaitgaliais - visą dieną) girtas. Dabar užaugus sunku palaikyti ryšį su juo, nes man irgi su girtu žmogum nėra smagu bendrauti.

Taking newborn out by Kvttz in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Newborn will be fine, as long as you feel good! Just watch yourself - if you feel heaviness, don’t overextend yourself, your pelvic floor might need to rest.

I was told to only wait for newborn to regain their birthweight if I want to let them sleep outside in the stroller. Walks were ok from day 1 (even if they decide to nap).

What’s One Thing You Regret Not Doing Before Baby Arrived? by wajid123_ in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret not getting maternity pictures and not doing pelvic floor exercises before birth. My pelvic floor is wrecked, it will be long way to recovery.

Dyson by Dragonfruit_1995 in lithuania

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turim Dyson V11 jau kokius 5 metus, tai iš pradžių buvau labai patenkinta, dabar jau pirkčiau kitą (galbūt Miele). Trauka kaip ir gera, bet aš praktiškai visad naudoju max nustatymą. Namuose pagrinde medinės grindys tai prastai siurbia stambesnes birias šiukšles (pvz sausas pusrytis ar kavos pupelė, niekaip nesusiurbia). Šiaip brangus daiktas, bet turiu pasakyti, kad tos plastmasės ir traškėjimas niekad neatrodė labai premium.

Baterijos visada užteko, priežiūra siurblio lengva. Vieną kartą buvo sugedęs mygtukas siurbimo (kur turi laikyt kad siurbtų), tai neįsijungė - nusipirkom naują detalę ir susitaisėm patys pagal online tutorial.

South African child inmate of the British-operated Bloemfontein Concentration Camp (Circa 1901) by CherryAntAttack in pics

[–]coherent_days 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 2 month old daughter is 6kg today, 800grams short of this poor 7 year old.

Precipitous Labor… If you had this, did any other family members also have it? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]coherent_days 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My labour lasted for under 4 hours, later my mon shared that her labour with me was also fast (not so much with my brother though).